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 Baba_Ganoosh

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 26
what is love???????
Posted: 4/23/2007 10:12:21 AM
"love is a sensation/caused by a temptation/
To feel penetration/A guy sticks his location/
In a girl's destination/To increase the population/
For the next generation/Did you get my explanation/
Or do you need a demonstration?"

/Baba/
 Lucky1one

Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 27
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what is love???????
Posted: 4/23/2007 7:02:33 PM
* compassion
* understanding
* patience
* forgiveness
* freedom
* joy
* acceptance
* presence
* sacrifice
* honesty
* prideless
 realmanken

Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 4/23/2007 7:22:34 PM
Love is going above and beyond the norm for someone no matter what, even if it means your own death. Just ask Jesus what "Love" is...
 Paddy O Furniture

Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 4/23/2007 9:38:46 PM
Love is always remembering to put the toilet seat down.
 granger55

Joined: 3/31/2007
Msg: 30
what is love???????
Posted: 4/24/2007 12:19:51 AM
If love is always remembering to put the toilet seat down, then I am in love with every woman on earth! Thanks __________ (ex wife/girlfriends name goes here). Actually, I start asking myself, "could this be love?",when she pops into my head uncontrollably during a surf session. Also, if my heart beats like a hammer when see her email in my inbox it could be love...oh baby, do it again...put it in my inbox. Yikes! I hope no one was listening.
 funormore

Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 31
what is love???????
Posted: 4/24/2007 2:47:37 AM
Love is a feeling of comittment to another. Comitting to doing your best in a relationship. Love is the willingness and action of putting aside your own selfish thoughts and actions and putting anothers feelings first. Also it is compramising within reasonable limits and not feeling resentment. Love couples don't just give 50%/50% , but instead put forth efforts of 75%/75%!

*The most I have done for love was the toughest. I set her free as they say! I moved and ended it making a decisin for her. Which I feel there was nothing to consider, Either she went with me and left her child with her ex.(a real****! Or stayed and fought for custody. I told her goodbye and well "set her free"!
You see Iam a father and feel that no person should come before your child. Ok maybe right up there close but never "BETWEEN"!
 dan182j

Joined: 6/16/2006
Msg: 32
what is love???????
Posted: 4/24/2007 10:58:17 AM
I don't think that anyone knows what love is anymore? The word has been
thrown around so much that I don't even think it has a meaning anymore. It
is about as much used as Hello is in everyday conversations. How can you
throw the word love around to almost everyone that has a "meaning" in your
life. The word love was meant to show that you have the strong feelings, a
wont of a person. If there was such a thing as love, then there wouldn't be
such a thing as divorce, break-up, or hearthache. The WORD love is now used
for everything, as a way of saying I miss you, I'm sorry, I'll be there,
please forgive me. It's never meant or said with the meaning that it may
have once had.

To be married you are supposed to be in love with that person, and have only
eyes, heart, and wont for that one person, right. Or is it until you find
that someone else, that makes you feel the lust, the want, and the
excitement. How can a married woman/man who says they love you everyday, be
able to have those feelings while sleeping with someone else, or just being
with someone else. How can you love someone, while having feelings for
someone else. The biggest commitment in the world is brought by love, yet,
it falls apart on deception, and lust. Not even "love" can save a marriage
or relationship that has been scarred by deception, lust, infedelity, and
even hate.

Love is supposed to be the feeling you get in your stomach when you think of
that one person that you have in your life, that no matter how bad it may
get, or how hard times are that you'll never leave their side because your
world would fall apart without that one person. Love is when you can stare
into that one persons eyes long enough to be able to be smiling right back
at them and not know why you're smiling. Love is when you turn 65 together,
you're still able to hold hands and walk arm in arm together. Love is the
feeling you get when it's time to go home, you know you're going to see
him/her there and you can't wait. When she/he walks in a room, you can't
help but feel their presence, they light up all your days when you're mad or
sad. They can lift your feeling up higher than anyone else, you can feel
yourself walking on water, just knowing that you have them there with you.

But the truth be told, there is no longer such a thing as love. Just an
empty word that is used because it's what we grew up knowing. If you're in a
relationship, you love them. If you're married, it's because you love them.
If all that was true, then why are you sitting here on a computer, trying to
have someone else figure out what love is for you?
 teddiebarr

Joined: 3/22/2007
Msg: 33
what is love???????
Posted: 4/24/2007 12:07:12 PM
can I go home with dan, anyone who can make me feel the way he did after reading his post knows what the true meaning of luv is.
 Wreckless1

Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 34
what is love???????
Posted: 4/24/2007 12:47:19 PM
Dan take her home.... At lease someone here deserves to be happy.
 OCkindguy

Joined: 4/4/2007
Msg: 35
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what is love???????
Posted: 4/25/2007 11:47:02 AM
passion
romance
sexual attraction
tender affection
compassion
honesty
respect
repeat
 sddude

Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 36
what is love???????
Posted: 4/25/2007 7:53:16 PM
love is the passion of giving to one that is important to you
 hyerground2

Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 4/25/2007 8:32:37 PM
baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me... no more

I'm so original huh?
 Wreckless1

Joined: 2/22/2007
Msg: 38
what is love???????
Posted: 4/27/2007 5:10:40 PM
When your life becomes less important than another.
(without conditions, or fanatical behavior) To give without reservations or expectations.... To risk, your own vulnerablilty towards the needs of another, without thinking of yourself... to be a tool for God..
 Wreckless2

Joined: 9/13/2007
Msg: 39
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Posted: 12/30/2007 9:49:03 PM
it's what you feel in your heart when that certain someone/something is near. no matter what another tells you... it can be a car, a bike, a desert, a place, a thought, a woman/man, a song, a gift, an act of kindnesss, a smile, a gesture.... it is limitless.

For God is in everthing /everyone when you feel alive and free to be!!!
 sarcastic_smileygirl

Joined: 10/13/2005
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Posted: 12/30/2007 9:54:19 PM
Love is never having to say...."I'm sorry, what's your name again??"
 serenity2b

Joined: 7/30/2007
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Posted: 12/31/2007 12:30:34 AM
No, that is the wisdom of writing crib notes on your wrist...

Love is not having to ask how they take their coffee...

--Serenity
 sarcastic_smileygirl

Joined: 10/13/2005
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Posted: 12/31/2007 1:19:12 AM


Love is not having to ask how they take their coffee...

Lotsa cream, no sugar. Wait, that was a statement not a request for information, my bad.
 cuda64

Joined: 7/8/2007
Msg: 43
what is love???????
Posted: 12/31/2007 3:22:58 AM
Love is......seeing someone at their worst and still wanting to be with them.
 Meet Virginia

Joined: 9/19/2007
Msg: 44
what is love???????
Posted: 12/31/2007 2:53:41 PM
There is no feeling like the beating of one's heart when captured by the soul with one look into love's eyes
 Sariangel

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 1/6/2008 7:44:25 PM
Love is when your brain turns to marshmallow and the irrational becomes possible. A bit negative?

It is how a lot of people react to love and I myself can gauge my own level of feelings by the ultruistic, giving nature that just happens when we fall in love. We do for the other without reason or cause. We forgive at times beyond what we should and we look back and realize how much time and attention the other is getting in our worlds.

In scriptural break down we see that love is kind, unselfish, not jealous, it doesn't hold record of wrongs, ... etc....ending with it never fails.

To get it right...I think it needs to extent beyond the marshmallow brained gitty phase to a more realistic level: it is being willing to lay down your life for the other [and that is when two people should get married and not a minute before] (This too is scriptural...there is no greater love).

Ask yourself would you lay down your life for your parents, your child, for some even their pets? That is when it is real (or as far as pets...really wacky -- take your pick ).
 Captivating2

Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 46
what is love???????
Posted: 1/6/2008 7:46:35 PM
Love is a four letter word that has more definitions than most words in our vocabulary.
 scotterpop

Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 47
what is love???????
Posted: 1/6/2008 8:17:58 PM
You're in love when the enfatuation ends and you still want what's left.
You're in love when it's hard to fall asleep without her next to you.
You're in love when you selflessly want to be a better person.
You're in love when she cheats on you and you still want her.
You're in love when she files a restraining oder against you and you violate it.
You're in love when you kidnap her dog and shave it bald only to mail the hair to her just to say: Hi.
You're in love when you would punch your brother in the face if he were to say a bad thing about her.
 simpull

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 1/6/2008 8:30:46 PM
Like finishing a marathon, without the wear and tear on your skeleton,
Like winning the Nobel prize, without doing the research,
Like cocaine, without the come down,
Like a simile, but actually a metaphor,
Specifically it's emotional superstition,
But whatever else there is,
Doesn't matter,
Or exist.
 scotterpop

Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 49
what is love???????
Posted: 1/6/2008 10:33:19 PM
The title of this thread keeps putting that song in my head from that movie 'Night At The Roxbury'
baby don't hurt me
don't hurt me...no more
What Is Love!!
baby don't hurt me
don't hurt me...no more


Will Ferell is a whole lot cooler nowadays.
 2bcaptain

Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 50
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Posted: 1/6/2008 10:34:17 PM
Love is ever changing, yet timeless. Boundless yet confined. It rises to great heights and falls to deep depths. It is calm as a babe in slumber and raging like a tempest. It is as vast as the universe and as close as our own skin. Love is peaceful and wages war. It brings forth life, and causes death. It is our greatest gift and our worst nightmare.
It can heal our woes and cause us the most pain. It has inspired our greatest creations and instigated our worst destruction.
Love is the most fickle of emotions. Hate is always hate. Love ebbs and flows like Giant Sea Kelp with the tides.
Love to all of you, in the best of it's form.

>mak^o>
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