mizbex
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Joined: 8/8/2007
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| Why do married men stare at you when they are with their wives?
Posted: 10/13/2007 10:16:06 PM | | DA, you would not "allow" anyone to get away with that behavior? what are u prison warden? u must be one of those chics that likes to run the relationshp with an iron fist. either that or you're one of those women who damn well better find a husband...cause you're probably already a wife. you have eyes. you're going to see people. unless you mean to tell me that when u walk down the street u have your head down as to not look at anyone. you're gonna pass by and see dozens or more people everyday and you're not gonna look at a single one of them? and if u do look at them you're not gonna think to yourself "that person is attractive"? if not..well u got a dull life ahead of you toots. and as for ill-mannered and discourteous? those are a few of the more nicer traits i offer. | |
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| Why do married men stare at you when they are with their wives?
Posted: 10/14/2007 5:32:24 AM | To Cornbread. You think you're well mannered and courteous? Adressing me as 'toots' is'nt what what I'd call corteous. i've had the good manners to address you by your name,.. but it seems you wish to try and denigrate me by de personalising me to 'toots'. So much for the manners and courtesy you offer Cornbread.
Its all about degrees Cornbread. You know as well as I that sometimes, just to get from A to B, you negotiate a path around people on the street. if I am with a partner,.. then no,.. I wont be looking, staring or checking someone out as I pass,.. because funnily enough, when I have a partner,.. I only have an interest in them. I have enough respect not to be rubber necking at 'hottie' as they walk by. Simple as that. And no, I would not continue to see anyone who blatantly checked out others whilst with me. thats what i meant by not allowing it. I would, nt be nudging them, arguing, or causing a scene. i'd simply tell the partner that i found it disrespectful, and if they felt they simply must gawk at others, and check them out blatantly in front of me, then my choice would be to end that relationship. A relationship with no respect is not going anywhere IMO. | |
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| Why do married men stare at you when they are with their wives?
Posted: 10/14/2007 8:17:04 AM | well DA you have fun with that whole thing u got going on there. just please be careful not to trip over your feet as your walking around not looking at anyone. or maybe invest in a guide dog? and hopefully one day the stick can be removed succesfully from your ass. or at the least get it trimmed. and re-read my post darlin...i said i offer ill-mannered and discourteous. i'm also known for chauvinism, arrogance, and on my good days a blatant ***hole.    | |
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| Why do married men stare at you when they are with their wives?
Posted: 11/18/2007 6:18:02 PM |
I find this really disrepectful to the wife and really just kinda not very smart thinking on the man's part, obviousley there will be a price to pay if caught. So why do they do it?
Hmmm, this is funny. Men just look and that's disrespectful.
As a single man, I find times when a married woman gets all flirty with me (and I mean touchy feely kind of way) in front of her husband. I guess that's OK. | |
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| Why do married men stare at you when they are with their wives?
Posted: 11/18/2007 10:41:12 PM | WOW! These questions never cease to amaze me anymore! LOL call me crazy but I think I have to take some of the guys sides on this question. We can get on here and preach the do's and don'ts of a relationship but we all screw up just deal with it.
To some people a married person starring at you isn't flattering and you are intitled to feel that way. While others good care less...like me! I think of it like this...he isn't my husband, he isn't going home with me (IM NOT HIS WIFE), NOT MY PROBLEM!
If you are married and you look at me then I either look really funny or I caught your attention in a good way...you will look and you will go on...end of story. Either way I will just smile and keep going the opposite way. No reason to get all ripped up about this stuff...if it isn't your husband then DONT WORRY ABOUT IT! | |
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| Why do married men stare at you when they are with their wives?
Posted: 11/19/2007 1:30:53 AM | Men are wired to look at attractive women (if they're straight men)
When it's one you WANT to look, you won't mind and the rest of us don't matter.
When you think about it, it's really only a problem for you when it's a man YOU aren't attracted to...right? He's too fat...too old...wrong race...married...too short for you...the list goes on.
We're men...we all look...deal with it. | |
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| Why do married men stare at you when they are with their wives?
Posted: 11/19/2007 3:39:46 AM | And I have to add, sometimes I look at guy's (good looking ones) and think "Mmm he's quite nice looking" and then go away and not give them a second thought. Come on, it's not like you know ANYTHING about them at all. So the (fleeting) attraction is very shallow.
It's better to have your guy look at someone then to flirt and be attracted to the woman's personality - now that is dangerous teritory!! | |
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| Why do married men stare at you when they are with their wives?
Posted: 11/19/2007 11:25:00 AM | | I didn't real every post so please forgive me if someone said this already... I'm a woman... I STARE! Women are just as guilty as men at checking others out! My friends and I will be at lunch and very blatantly stare at a hot guy... we are all human... we have eyes... a ring doesn't put blinders on our eyes... as someone else said... nothing wrong with looking at eye candy as long as that is all ya do... | |
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