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 Vann

Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 26
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/25/2005 9:08:42 AM
What if the number is fake? is it worth calling then?
 maximus_radius

Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 27
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/25/2005 6:17:44 PM
[Why is it better to sugar coat than be blunt?]

Hey Shelley, I am not saying it is always better, but I had a girl who thought we were going to get married almost after the first date, and I was not into her at all so I told her that I was not interested in a second date and she basically stalk me for 3 weeks till I moved.......

But after considering the matter I did the right hing.....
 _Shelley_

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 28
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/25/2005 8:55:29 PM
Okay Max As long as you're happy you did the right thing.


What's happened to

" Meeting in a Public Place? "

In my eyes that's the only way to do it!


Mind you, I am a Wunt Blitch, so I have no problem saying it like it is, and if they cannot handle it.. I will deal with it further thru different venues.



~Shells

PS.. Legal Venues.. I must State!!
 babygirl234

Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 29
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 5/26/2005 10:33:46 PM
Well guys dont want to hurt your feelings and thats why they say they will call and then dont call. Women and men do it equally I think. But if someone is truly interested in you they will call. And if they loose your number they will hunt you down and find you. Dont waste your time with a guy that says he will call but doesnt. Thats your first sign that hes unreliable. Move on your better than that:)
 freeatlast2005

Joined: 2/23/2005
Msg: 30
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/16/2005 7:31:28 AM
I would have to respond by saying, you have your own life, why are you sitting and waiting for him to call? Dont waste time and effort over someone you really dont know, try on as many shoes as it takes to find the right pair that fits, then if the pair that fits really well, doesnt call, then get pissed. Otherwise, the only reason that there is no call is because, he just not as in to you, as you think!
 ~Alice~

Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 31
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/16/2005 9:00:03 AM
Women do it too!

Don't sit there and waste your time..
If you do.. that's your own fault..

~Alice~

 teamgreen

Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 32
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/16/2005 9:04:18 AM
exactly
 Upgraded

Joined: 3/20/2005
Msg: 33
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/16/2005 5:01:59 PM
ok, why do women say, "call me" and then they never answer? i bet that happens just as often as the guys saying they will but don't.
 ~Alice~

Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 34
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/16/2005 6:03:22 PM
I must be one flock of a b!tch..

If I'm not interested.. I tell them not to call.. cuz I am not interested..
If they call and call.. and still aren't getting the hint after I have told them..

They really get it..

~Alice~
 proudcanuck75

Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 35
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/18/2005 11:03:26 PM
Yah, this is the kind of thing that drive girls nuts. Stop being such bloody cowards and just say what you mean. I hate this kind of high school nonsense. We are adults so start acting like one if you want to be treated like one. Some men are just jerks through and through!
 AlbertaGirlie

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 36
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/19/2005 8:36:07 PM
Well, honesty is the best policy. Everyone should just say what they mean and mean what they say. If someone says they aren't into you, pick up the shattered pieces of your life and move on. They are doing you a favour if they can be honest. Get with a girlfriend and go cry over some martinis if that's what you need to do.

Sitting by the phone is a waste of time. If the guy doesn't call and says he was going to, then I call. If he doesn't sound interested in the conversation, then get off the phone and go do something productive. Shout out "Next" if you may.

People need to just be more mature and realistic about these things.
 Singah

Joined: 6/14/2005
Msg: 37
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/21/2005 11:23:47 PM
lil firegirl..mine just quit phoning one day...after 5 months of daily calls. Go figure! ~Singah
 Gespacho

Joined: 7/16/2004
Msg: 38
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/22/2005 8:28:08 AM
Aside from all the gender bashing going on here, I think that there has been a few good points made.

1. It happens to both men and women.
2. The best policy is honesty.
3. If this happens to you: Don't pine over the 'one who got away'. The truth is that this is a big world, and if you keep looking you'll find someone who is willing to call you.

I suppose if you just have to get revenge you could take up voodoo or something like that.
 teamgreen

Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 39
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/22/2005 9:51:03 AM
i think me are jerks!!!! men pffft ...who needs them eh?
 Gespacho

Joined: 7/16/2004
Msg: 40
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/22/2005 9:57:23 AM
"i think me are jerks!!!! men pffft ...who needs them eh?"

Well I for one don't. Women smell much better, anyways.
 teamgreen

Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 41
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/22/2005 10:00:33 AM
it was a joke, trying to diffuse the tension in here!
 Gespacho

Joined: 7/16/2004
Msg: 42
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/22/2005 10:06:05 AM
Really?

 teamgreen

Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 43
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/22/2005 10:06:52 AM
are you being sarcastic?
 AlbertaGirlie

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 44
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/22/2005 9:29:25 PM
Voodoo..yeah yeah that's the ticket!
 ~Shells~

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 45
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 6/22/2005 11:54:52 PM
-pinches TG-

Ya, it's me. Curious? Message me.

Regarding the saying you'll call and don't, it happens to us all, and as frustrating as it seems, it only makes us stronger.
 CalgaryMan

Joined: 4/9/2005
Msg: 46
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2005 11:24:47 AM
MY PERSONAL FEELING IS THAT WHETHER IT IS A MAN OR WOMAN THEY SHOULD HAVE THE DECENCY TO MEET THE PERSON AND TELL THEM WHY THEY WISH TO NOT MEET ANYMORE,WE ALL DESERVE THAT COURTESY,AND FOR GOODNESS SAKES MEN AND WOMAN ALIKE IF YOU GIVE YOUR WORD KEEP IT,I WAS BROUGHT UP YOU ARE ONLY AS GOOD AS YOUR WORD SO OWN YOUR ACTIONS.MY OPINION IS AN EXCUSE IS JUST A CHOCOLATE COVERED LIE NO MATTER WHO IT IS MADE OR TOLD BY.
 TCPL

Joined: 5/6/2005
Msg: 47
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2005 6:17:55 PM
Whaaa? This never happens to guys? lol..
 Damaged by LOVE

Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 48
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2007 9:09:18 AM
well.....2years have pasted....has he?

or

are you still waiting.....if so,why?

 forumfish1967

Joined: 6/13/2007
Msg: 49
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2007 12:02:21 PM
^^^like there are skeletal remains of the OP next to the telephone, because she is till waiting

people, in general, don't call because they are to emotionally lazy or emotionally retarded to say that they are not interested and have no intention of calling or that they are still "shopping"

you don't want these folks in your life, anyways

don't even waste your time worrying about it
 ZexyGurl*

Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 50
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2007 12:20:40 PM

people, in general, don't call because they are to emotionally lazy or emotionally retarded to say that they are not interested and have no intention of calling or that they are still "shopping"


That’s Priceless!!! Bahahahahahaha I vote for the "emotionally retarded"!!
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