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 Damaged by LOVE

Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 51
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2007 12:32:07 PM
up 2....did ya get up on the wrong side of the bed....

 angelelizabeth

Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 52
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2007 12:38:47 PM
U know we are all grown ups !!! Assuming that someone will call even when in the lust stage man or women is wrong!!! We all have needs.. So unless they stay at ur home where u can lock them up. U might not hear from them ...

Tryin to make u laugh sorry u were disappointed in him ...
Karma has a way of bittin people in the asssssssssss
Maybe he doesn't realize how much things meant to u.. He will be there one day!!
Again u might do to someone which was done to u................:

elizabeth
 ruckusruckus

Joined: 5/11/2007
Msg: 53
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2007 12:39:01 PM
Don't give them your number then you won't have that problem ... I figure, if they really want to call me ... they will take the time to look me up ... I mean this is not a romantic story ... I lost my purse and this guy found it ... there wasn't anything in my purse that had my number on it ... my name, my address but my number is unlisted ... I lost my purse at 7:00 this guy called me at 10 that night ... somehow he investigated and found my number ... he left his name and number ... I called him back and he dropped off my purse at the place I asked him to drop it off ... when it was there the next day ... I was able to locate his address, etc. and sent him a gift certificate ... so yeah, if they want to call you they will ... so, yeah, don't sweat it ...
 angelelizabeth

Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 54
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2007 2:09:03 PM
ruckusruckus Hon get back to meeeeeee!!! Please tryin to contact u with no success...

Ur friend and lost buddie beth
 ruckusruckus

Joined: 5/11/2007
Msg: 55
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/8/2007 3:32:43 PM
will do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 fun and funny!!!

Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 56
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/9/2007 3:14:55 AM
those guys aren't even worth your time girl!!!!
 ambermiro

Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 57
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/10/2007 1:16:42 PM
I have to say, this is a great point. And it does happen to everyone. Is'nt it weird though when you hang out with someone for HOURs and HOURS and have a great time with each other and yet no response? Cest la vie' is what i say. happy hunting
 trubblemakr

Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 58
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/10/2007 6:40:32 PM
hmm its never happened to me
maybe they know if they dont call that i will show up crying on their front door step at 3 am and scream why why why why why why why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
alll night long
 Damaged by LOVE

Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 59
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/10/2007 8:52:38 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^ you gonna get hate mail........


 ~ Cndn Girl ~

Joined: 2/2/2007
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/10/2007 9:52:15 PM
^^^^^^^Hate mail... that's what he LIVES for! ^^^^^^^^^

lol

men saying they will call and they don't - It's just the games some people play.

It's easier to say they will call - and hide later

Cowardice if you ask me
 Silver Sharpie

Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 61
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/10/2007 11:12:41 PM
Ever sell a car privately?

Try and then you'll know the true meaning of not getting a call back as promised.
 Redhotmom67

Joined: 6/26/2007
Msg: 62
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/10/2007 11:55:11 PM
a friend of mine told me his motto of " no expectations, no disappointments", I tend to agree to a certain extent. But prefer to agree with the people who have said, just live your life and have fun! They definitely aren't worth your time of day if they don't call...but sometimes there are emergencies, or family/friend situations that they basically have to drop everything to attend to immediately. These will usually call you at a later date though.....but, the best thing is to live a complete life in and of yourself, and move on! And, live your life fully, and stay busy.... it's definitely more high school drama if you sit and mope around....get out and live!

You will find the good , the bad and the ugly in life.... it's how you choose to respond and move on that will tell the difference, and make you more appealing if you carry on in life! and some things just aren't worth wasting our energies over....take up a hobby, volunteering, get busier or take things slower.....just do!
 smiliegirl15

Joined: 7/15/2006
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/11/2007 7:14:22 AM
If they say they'll call but they don't of course you're going to be a little disappointed; who wouldn't be? The bottom line is here, why do you care? If he doesn't call, he's not interested and why would you want to be with someone who doesn't care about you? I certainly don't so you chalk it up to experience and hope the next one is more worth talking to.
 ~ Cndn Girl ~

Joined: 2/2/2007
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/11/2007 11:09:17 AM

Ever sell a car privately?

Try and then you'll know the true meaning of not getting a call back as promised.


If you're the guy with the Golf for sale I left two messages and didn't get a call back

 shawn of a B

Joined: 8/29/2006
Msg: 65
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/11/2007 11:14:00 AM
OK i didn't call cuz it's hard juggling 10 dates a week and still haveing a wife and 6 children at home not to mention working 18 hours a day
so please be pataint and wait for my call I WILL CALL


BTW whats your number again

























 ~ Cndn Girl ~

Joined: 2/2/2007
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/11/2007 11:16:07 AM
LMAO @ ^^^^^^^^^^^^

Too funny!
 Rodzores

Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 67
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/11/2007 11:57:22 AM
why get all bent out of shape?

a) Maybe their married and just wanted to be a greasy scumbag, good riddance to bad rubbish?
b) You shouldn't have slept with them!
c) Plain and Simple! you suck?
 Silver Sharpie

Joined: 8/8/2005
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/11/2007 11:07:54 PM

If you're the guy with the Golf for sale I left two messages and didn't get a call back


Ironically, I'm buying a Golf GTI this week. Been a long time since I sold a car.
 ChelseaBaby

Joined: 3/28/2007
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/11/2007 11:22:00 PM
I personally think this goes both ways, to women and men. Men arent the only ones that have said yea i will call you and never do. Us women are just as bad, sad to admitt but come one, im sure atleast every girl has given out the wrong number or never called the person. But guys have a reputation for doing it more often, lol. I think guys like to see how many girls they can get, remember they can only think with one head at a time, and no offense but most the time its the wrong head mmmhmm.
 Virgo092267

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 70
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/12/2007 5:45:02 AM
This used to bother me lots when I started dating after my divorce. I used to get all bent out of shape and stuff. Now I just chaulk it up as them not being interested, married, in a relationship already or just a jerk player who likes to string people along. I give them a few days and if I don't hear anything by the third day or so, I just move along as there is no point in stressing out over it. Sometimes there are legitimate reasons why they didn't call and it was ok. Women are guilty of this too, its not gender specific.
 Perky1

Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 71
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/12/2007 2:06:43 PM
I believe the correct word for when they dont call is NEXT!!
 shawn of a B

Joined: 8/29/2006
Msg: 72
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/12/2007 2:10:06 PM
ARLENE IS THAT YOU?????
 smiliegirl15

Joined: 7/15/2006
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 7/12/2007 3:16:26 PM
Perky1 - totally my attitude as well!
There are good guys out there (I'm sure there are somewhere) so why waste my time with a not good one?
 UAnimosity

Joined: 11/26/2006
Msg: 74
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men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 8/8/2007 7:14:38 PM
Working on a helpdesk/Sales floor, you find out quickly, "ill call you" more often or not means "i'm not interested" or "you just did something that turned me off, and i want this to end now".

Try asking for Multiple ways of contacting someone ( home line, e- mail, IM, or plenty of fish account). if he's interested in the slightest, he'll give you both, which will mean he/ she (works both ways people) will want to hear from you again. IM probably works best, e-mail is ok but if he has a spam filter he doesn't check, you're hooped.

Girls will "not call back" for the same reasons a guy wont, and the reasons aren't always bad. Some people are shallow, shy or twitterpated by the experience, that they may not like the phone right away. send an e-mail and ask to get together for coffee. if they show, awesome. if not try again. Still no luck? Guess they wont know what they're missing, will they?
 Donny04

Joined: 6/18/2007
Msg: 75
men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 8/9/2007 10:30:33 AM
one time a girl gave me her number in the bar i didnt ask for it but i was expected to take her number which i did politly. so 2 weeks go bye and i didnt call her. i had no interest i wasent attracted to this girl i didnt want her as a girlfriend and i wasent looking for a new friend. sure as shite i run into her at the same bar and her and a friend approach me and start tearing me a new one because i didnt call. turns out a friend of mine sits at their table so i joined him and got flamed some more totally ruining my night sendin me home angry. one of the things she said was I gave you my number u were SUPPOSED to call me. all i could say was yea u gave me your number but who says i was supposed to do anything. Like i said i didnt ask for the number it was givin to me provided i called her wouldent that be leading her on? Who calls someone and says yea.... i know this is our first phone convo but I Dont Like You and this will be our last convo, have a great decade Chow! it dont work like that. ive discovered there is no way of sugarcoating anything when it comes to relationships and disputes. Somebody gets offended and crushed and usually blows up in your face wether its anger or emotional stress. I believe sometimes that some things are better left unsaid which is why a phone call isnt necessary
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