| men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 8/9/2007 11:10:08 AM | | I don't understand why people get so upset...if you really pay attention during the date there are signs eg: body language, things they say... if you watch out for those things you can tell... but too many people are oblivious to whats going on around them...the only reason guys/girls say they will call and don't is to make themselves look good and then they don't have to take responsibility for hurting someones feelings...but like someone else said... have no expectations and you won't be dissapointed...go with the flow. | |
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| men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 8/9/2007 11:38:16 AM | men say they will call and they dont... women make a date with you then cancel at the 11th hour...
...like others have pointed out above: its all a sign of disinterest.
we are not all on the same schedule, we are not all looking for the same things and we certainly are not all on the same page in terms of the importance we place on finding someone.
when all these moons do align, we find our match. then the calls will come, often and expected. that initial interest will be there and it will carry through without waning. it will happen.
bradley | |
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| men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 8/9/2007 7:13:53 PM | Another god point, making threads about why "guys" dont call is usually a generalized and personal statement thread. You may have had a run of bad luck, the problem with most stereotypes is while they may be the ones you hear about, they;re the ones that occur the minority of the time.
Keep trying and you'll find that most guys and girls are alright. | |
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| men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 8/10/2007 12:50:56 PM | OP - many reasons really. I will tell this little diddy again, hit the casino with a few bills, went to chat it up and have a few drinks. Met this very nice lady, chatted it up all night long, taught her how to play a little Black Jack correctly. I did not even care that she split the tens, just nice chatting with someone my own age. We laughed, had a few drinks.
We exchanged #'s, but within the convo, I told her I dig you, lets chat, or was it hook-up, I cant remember, was late in the night, around when the bartender sings "last call".
I have not phoned her yet, because within the convo, I asked her if the man she was with, was her bf, and she said yes, but its off and on. So anyway I told her, "For sure I will call you tomorrow", I havent called her within a week and a half. Why, cuz she has a man. But I will keep her # within my cell phone, in case a later time, I call her, we hit the casino again and hit it off. Or maybe she cant remember the tall dark hansome man that hit on her at the casino that one night.
Just goes to show you, that there are many reasons, why a person will not call you, when they say they will. Perhaps he is working, perhaps he is still drunk, perhaps he has family issues, perhaps whatever.
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| men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 8/11/2007 11:04:04 AM | You know I understand why some men don't phone back it is because "THEY ARE JUST NOT INTO YOU" as this this dating service states there are pleanty of fish and there is someone out there that will appreciate and want to be with you as much as possible (either man or women) as women don't call men back either when they say they will, as I have done myself. I also know as was stated in many of the stmts. here that men or women are busy but if you are really really interested there is most often a phone answering machine and even knowing that the other person called is good.
Anyway there is my 2 cents about this - hope it made someone's day because no matter who you are there is that special person out there looking for you just like you are looking for them.
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| men saying they will call and they dont
Posted: 9/9/2007 9:14:29 PM | I know it can b frustrating, especially when u like the guy!! After my date i usually say well it was a nice evening, if u choose to want to date me again great call me if not it was kewl meeting u. This let's them know that ya i had fun but if i neva eva see u again it's ok i will not fall apart. It is usually a pretty standard statement, they say it without thinking deep about it. When i date i always go with no expectations if something comes outta of it great if not put a big X on that day!!!! dating is charming, comical and eye opening. Each date u go on gives u more humor, u find out more about wat u want and wat u don't want. So don't get frustrated just go with the flow, treat it like a job interview ...   | |
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