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| PROFILES ON POF AND ON SEX SITES?
Posted: 3/24/2008 12:11:29 PM | Let's all be real here. Both men and women have profiles on this site, those sites and I am sure other sites also. Who cares and what is the big deal. Each of the sites represent a different view point on the dating world and of being single. A website in itself doesn't make a person bad or good. This is a conservative site compared to those others when it comes to dating. We all like sex... we all want sex...  . The thing other websites offer people are a commonality. If your a sexual person and you like a lot of sex then what is wrong with searching on a more liberal site? Just being on those sites don't mean your a swinger, a swapper or a perv. I am sure those who are judging have no room to be judged themselves. Until you talk to someone, meet that someone in person and learn about them. You won't know the true them, the real them. Maybe the issue these complainers have is that not only aren't they having any luck getting a date on this site, but maybe... just maybe they are upset that they can't get sex from women that say that is what they are after. Complaining and putting other people down is a person's way of trying to make themselves feel better about something... like being rejected.  | |
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| PROFILES ON POF AND ON SEX SITES?
Posted: 3/31/2008 7:23:29 AM | Why do people think that its a game to have a profile on a sex site and on POF? I'll be the first to say I do. I'd love to meet someone who has the sex drive I do and on POF. So what I love my body and myself and would like to meet a guy not for "sex only" but a partner who has the intelligence and other areas to satisfy my needs too.
I've seen a couple of men on here on AFF that have a POF don't kid yourself its not just women. | |
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| PROFILES ON POF AND ON SEX SITES?
Posted: 9/7/2008 2:24:58 PM | HAHA! No, really. ROTFLMGDAO!
So, some chick is here on POF, portraying herself to be June Cleaver ISO Ward, but at the same time, is over at C4P looking for someone to tear it up and... 'scuse me, what's the problem here? She's a hypocrite? I see...
Meanwhile, Ward Cleaver is here on POF, portraying himself to be a wholesome family man with values, but, for some unknown reason, just 'happens' to know that June is over at C4P. 'Splain this to me: What's a wholesome family man like Ward doing over at C4P to begin with? Pot, meet Kettle...Kettle, meet Pot.
I'd be willing to bet that the OP would need a double dose of nitro if he were to find out that there are also quite a few known 'escorts' here on POF with profiles that do not mention their profession, who are also looking for a good man, long term relationships, possibly even marriage.
In the grand scheme of things, does it really matter? Only to those who do not fully understand the 'lifestyle' (or for that matter, the 'profession'), those who have issues with insecurity and jealousy, and those with controlling personalities. Give it up, guys. | |
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| PROFILES ON POF AND ON SEX SITES?
Posted: 9/7/2008 4:01:36 PM | Maybe Ward "just happens" to be over at that other site checking out the story he got on the date with June. I am old enough now to no longer trust anyone just because they look me in the eye and tell me something. Maybe Ward is, too. (It goes both ways, so June might be there for the same reason.) Neither of them may be there for any other reason. I don't know, but am willing to bet that it is cheaper to have a profile on a number of those sites than it is to order a PeopleFinder check on a person.
I am not suggesting that anyone posting pics on a site is in that same category; I'm just saying that there are many more reasons for a person's actions than we can ever know.
Also, to quote a friend, "Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu." So, maybe Ward likes looking around, until June comes home and only wears his pearl necklace forever more.
All I'm saying is that unless you have a foolproof way to know, then anything you suspect about a person is circumstantial...guilt by association...or worst of all, a media-style slaying based on rumor, inneuendo, and evil intent.
-tom, speaking as one who has been through such a feeding frenzy on another, now defunct, site | |
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| PROFILES ON POF AND ON SEX SITES?
Posted: 9/7/2008 10:38:43 PM | I've tried being up front, and honest on here, and all it's brought me personally is grief.
Unfortuantely, all ladies cry for honesty, trust, and open communication, and then are just incapable to replying in kind. This appears to be just one more example of the double standard ladies try, and often succeed, on imposing on men. Aren't there any honest, horny, passionate, SINGLE ladies out there actually capable of a real relationship? I'm beginning to wonder. | |
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| PROFILES ON POF AND ON SEX SITES?
Posted: 9/29/2008 11:38:28 AM | I am sorry that being up front, and honest has brought you grief. It's opening up your heart, and being who you are. Who needs just a facade? If one's self image, or the image portrayed to others is predicated on posturing, nothing is real. What kind of relationship can come from that? Up front and honest is the only way to be.
Yes dear, there are indeed honest, horny, passionate, single ladies out here who are not only actually capable of a real relationship, but actually are longing to find exactly that. Don't give up looking. | |
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| PROFILES ON POF AND ON SEX SITES?
Posted: 11/29/2008 11:55:08 AM | When I first started online dating, I used only one site similar to this one. I later joined AFF only after a lot of persuasion from a friend who told me it wasn't a sleaze/swinger site, even though it's billed that way.
I met far more men from the AFF site, and not one of them turned sexual, actually. We went on a few dates, enjoyed each other's company, but alas, there wasn't quite the connection.
By the time I joined AFF, I'd been on three other sites (.com, match.com, and singlesnet.com) and hadn't met anyone I even wanted to meet with once. (I did finally meet someone on who became a serious partner in my life for about a year.)
Just because I'm on AFF and PoF doesn't mean I'm a whore. It means that I value "real" and found more of it there. | |
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