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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 6/23/2007 8:21:19 AM | 
thats priceless Atalia
I think its a case of what you were there for in the first place.
is it possible that a person usually female is feeling "unwanted" more so than worthless.??? | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 6/23/2007 8:24:21 AM |
Atalia on 6/23/2007 2:00:47 PM
I dont feel worthless after sex, dissappointed sometimes but not worthless
this was supposed to be the quote for the previous post.. | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 6/23/2007 8:35:57 AM | Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Well they don't.
They do however feel a little soft and sweaty . . with leg cramps . . and mucked up hair . . and bruised arms . . and . . and . .  | |
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| Why do men watch nickelodeon after sex???
Posted: 6/23/2007 8:41:32 AM | | I would say it has everything to do with the fact that she has just been doing something really really filthy and enjoyed it! Lays back in the wet spot and perhaps feels a little dirty...guilty. Hold me.... | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 6/23/2007 2:59:34 PM | I agree with Atalia as well "I dont feel worthless after sex, dissappointed sometimes but not worthless".
If someone feels worthless, do they expect something in return? And what would that be? | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 6/24/2007 6:58:54 AM |
there are some guys out there that can be a bit tactless and make women feel less that whole after the 'act' .....There's your answer right there.
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 6/24/2007 7:19:39 PM | | don't understand the term, worthless. Thought if u felt worthless, perhaps their would be associated feelings of guilt or ashamed. What for ??? The empty feeling is pretty easy to understand ... that's cause there was nothing in it ... just for the sake of it. (Think I kept on topic didn't I) | |
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atalia
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Joined: 3/28/2007
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 6/24/2007 10:11:14 PM |
They do however feel a little soft and sweaty . . with leg cramps . . and mucked up hair . . and bruised arms . . and . . and . .
SORE perhaps but not worthless
Ahh..... promises, promises, ......wouldnt feel worthless after that | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 6/24/2007 10:14:28 PM | I guess sometimes after sex you do feel like turning into Gretel and saying "It's time to go --------------- <(add name here).
As others have said, its more of an empty feeling for me than a feeling of being worthless. Its so much more fulfilling when you are with someone you really care about. | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 7/6/2007 8:32:09 PM | Atalia ,
As a guy that has been celibate (by choice) for many years .... wouldnt it be worth telling your partner that you was disappointed and "show" the him what he could/should do to make you feel "worth more". Some of us were never "taught" what a woman wants and because of that dont knowwhat you ladies want.
To make it worth getting the guy in bed ... TALK to him and tell him that he needs to ... or Teach him that YOU like to .... - I am sure that if you expressed what you are thinking instead of keeping it to yourself ....BOTH of you will come out of the experiance feeling a lot better . Oh and Ladies ( I know most guys wont like me saying this but... ) STOP expecting the sex to be PERFECT all the time... your all differant and like differant things and we aint mind readers
Ozzie (dingo_pup ) | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 7/6/2007 11:35:49 PM | I have come to believe that if it was sex for sex sake and had no purpose for it rather an uncontrolable urge to romp then emptyness is what you will get.If you take the purpose out of it just so one can reach the stars and thats it has iver miss the mark or forgotton the essentual purpose of what sex is intende for. Im not referring to having babies although that will happen if thats ones whole purpose or out of stupidness to not play it safe. But that sex is to be injoyed is part of a love relationship with your partner and there should be no feeling of emptiness or guiltyness about it.if sex is only to please ones sexual urges and nothing more then one should be taking a good look at them selves and think Im I in controll of my desirer urges and emotions or are they in controll of me.
Another thought is have any of ppls on here know what one flesh means? One flesh as i have come to learn means when you have sex with the one you love you are not only yoking phyhicaly but very much spirtualy as well and if your not in a love relationship and casual sex "seem like" the next best thing well Id rather go with out then to know and have to ware the emptiness and guilt that I have only taken with no love involved and fed my own selfish gratification from another heart and soul .
Sex with out love is like tearing larg holes into some one elses soul | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 7/7/2007 5:42:28 AM | i totally relate to that. damn thought it was just me. atleast my last partner left me the tim tams sayin hed be back lol. whats that the consolation prize or something. Damn i did enjoy them tim tams hehe.
he also ****ed about women that dropped him over a text (2 last gal friends) but i ant heard from him since, not even via text. Thank god i saw through is B&*(^%*T and didnt sleep with him. | |
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atalia
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Joined: 3/28/2007
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 7/28/2007 2:37:48 AM |
Atalia ,
As a guy that has been celibate (by choice) for many years .... wouldnt it be worth telling your partner that you was disappointed and "show" the him what he could/should do to make you feel "worth more". Some of us were never "taught" what a woman wants and because of that dont knowwhat you ladies want.
To make it worth getting the guy in bed ... TALK to him and tell him that he needs to ... or Teach him that YOU like to .... - I am sure that if you expressed what you are thinking instead of keeping it to yourself ....BOTH of you will come out of the experiance feeling a lot better .
Sorry to not answer you before dingo, I actually got banned from posting, strangely enough, once was for doing exactly what you just suggested I do, I verbalised the reason for the disappointment
You seem to have missed 2 important points, 1. I said I DONT feel worthless after sex, and the second is HUMOUR dude, SARCASM!
Oh and Ladies ( I know most guys wont like me saying this but... ) STOP expecting the sex to be PERFECT all the time... your all differant and like differant things and we aint mind readers
Oh my god you cant honestly mean that! honey most women are lucky to get PERFECT sex once in a life time, we are far too realistic to ever expect it all the time, you are out of touch with the real world
Oh by the way, if you arent a mind reader then maybe its you who should discuss the intricacies of sex with your partner, should you decide to go that route again, (no pun intended ) | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 1/29/2008 8:26:41 AM |
Oh by the way, if you arent a mind reader then maybe its you who should discuss the intricacies of sex with your partner, should you decide to go that route again, (no pun intended )
And if ya forgot to get instructions, or got lost, she only has to remember that ears have multi purposes and make great err handle bars for steering.  | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 1/30/2008 3:37:08 AM | Judging from what a lot of women have told me, it's probably because of the "wham bam thank you mam" attitude that a lot of men have towards sex & intimacy. After the event the women are thinking "is that all there is"," OMG, I feel worthless"
But really, I don't think most women do (feel worthless) | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:35:51 AM | only a crazy guy would be so stupid to make a woman feel worthless after sex..... i mean what happens if a week passes and he hasnt managed to find any stray desperate down at the local pub and he has to call up this same woman and butter her up - metaphorically - so that she will sleep with him again...
what i'm trying to say here is that you treat a woman good after sex because you might need to empty the bags in a week's time....soooooooooo make her feel special...
fortunately there's enough of us sensitive guys still around.. | |
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| Why do women fell worthless after sex???
Posted: 1/30/2008 12:54:10 PM |
only a crazy guy would be so stupid to make a woman feel worthless after sex..... i mean what happens if a week passes and he hasnt managed to find any stray desperate down at the local pub and he has to call up this same woman and butter her up - metaphorically - so that she will sleep with him again...
what i'm trying to say here is that you treat a woman good after sex because you might need to empty the bags in a week's time....soooooooooo make her feel special...
fortunately there's enough of us sensitive guys still around..
Gee yeah, your sensitivity is astounding.
How a man treats a woman, any woman, after sex that is a reflection on him, not the woman. Your feeling of self worth comes from inside, and you shouldn't allow others to negatively impact that. | |
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