| | why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?Page 2 of 13 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13) | ^^^ Hey Smith!
I guess I just think other character qualities are more important in a partner. Like kindness, honesty, generosity and humility.
Nice list. Now were ya planning on tattooing thier grades on these arts on thier foreheads so they are readily apparent, or what?
BTW: Just can't WAIT to see what happens when the feminazis on the FORUMS see the word humility coming from some guy on a list of requirements.
Nice knowin' ya buddy.
Edit: As an aside to the OP. The shoe would have fit better if you had spelled ditzy correctly. Just sayin'.... | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 3:07:05 PM | ^^the feminazis on the FORUMS
You mean Blaze, no doubt.
I find her rantings hysterically funny.
Come to think of it, that's a pun (albeit unintentional). Did you know the word hysteria comes from the latin word for uterus? Hence the word, hysterectomy...all based on the belief (present even then) that women are more emotional than men. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 3:13:54 PM | Part of me is ready to join the human shield to defend these opinions. Part of me wants no part in this, and will gently step aside.
I'll be watching from the grassy knoll if you need me. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 3:35:42 PM | Men between the ages of 20-30 think with their penis. Whats between their ears doesnt tend to matter as much. After 30, SOME men need a body and a brain.
Other men, no matter their age, will never care as long as they have a hot body. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 3:57:08 PM | | Because its a click now days.. like your not good enough if you don't place a thin blonde dumbass beside you? I wouldn't even introduce you to my mom if you laugh when people say hello, or you don't know how to spell some easy ass words, Its all because of peoples mental pictures, I don't care really, But you should believe that only shallow dudes that feel they have to place a thin blonde bimbo beside them to look good, don't get my wrong blondes, I'm not dissing you but you know exactly what I mean when i say some girls take that blonde shit to a new level of pathetic, and there mostly at bars, wow this was a hateful post, I'm sorry, My girl is half blonde or she has highlights and shes by no means a ditsy bimbo so I know its not because of your hair color its all about who you want to attractive and the way you are. I'm out, sorry i was so hateful lol damnnn | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 4:31:21 PM | See this is where punctuation is so important.... and you all laughed when I wrote that expose on the missing comma.
Sable 19 seems to have done a disappearing act so I will attempt to clarify on her behalf.... I'm arrogant and self important enough to assume I am able to understand her more than others....
I doubt very much that Sable assumed all thin women are ditzy. What she meant was thin, ditzy women: as in women who have these two characteristics, not women who have the single, inseperable characteristic of being thin and ditzy.
As an aside (like this post is onside!!) try being thin and freakishly smart.... the stereotype for that is ice-queen, **** (think Lillith from Frasier). That's what I have to put up with.
Not that I'm freakishly smart - I just work in civil service; amongst that lot a diseased, chipmunk is considered the next Stephen Hawking! | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 4:34:51 PM |
See this is where punctuation is so important.... and you all laughed when I wrote that expose on the missing comma.
Eats, shoots and leaves?
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Posted: 1/17/2007 4:52:21 PM | As an aside (like this post is onside!!) try being thin and freakishly smart.... the stereotype for that is ice-queen, **** (think Lillith from Frasier). That's what I have to put up with.
Throw in warm/friendly/nice, and the stereotype for that is sexy as hell.
I think the ice queen emerges as a defense mechanism to fend off all the men who would approach that. And that's unattractive. But thank you for giving me an idea on what to look for. The question is, is it brave to approach that, or just masochisticly stupid? And can she turn it off? (Think Saving Silverman) | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 5:00:39 PM | Face2Face, that's on my nightstand..... God! I need to get out more.
Ubkobalt, I tried the warm friendly face thing, back when I knew and interacted with people who presented me with some measure of mental stimuli. Now I've adopted a semi-permanent scowl: it's a cross between superiority and disdain.... but I think I can turn it off. I've sent you a pic so you can see for yourself (one of the rare pics that's sans scowl). | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 5:40:22 PM | My "Business Organisations" professor summarised it thus:
"Few men as strong enough to stand next to a strong woman for fear of looking weaker."
I thought he was being sexist. But he wasn't.
Better question: Why do otherwise intelligent women "dumb it down" to attract such men? | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 5:49:25 PM |
Better question: Why do otherwise intelligent women "dumb it down" to attract such men?
I don't think intelligent women dumb it down to attract them, I think intelligent women pretend to be ditzy so they don't have to talk to people. Believe me, I've done it. Pretended the task of making a coffee and getting a chocolate out of the vending machine was taxing enough without introducing conversation into the mix..... alas this proves irresistable to men and I find myself with more date offers than I have Saturday nights.
Then I act like trying to work out which Saturday night is free is too taxing and the whole problem of declining the offer goes away.  but some women forget the last bit and the rest, as they say, is history!!!
Just in case it wan't particularly clear that's my theory on why guys are with ditzy women. Why the women continue to pretend to be ditzy is a mystery.... I'll get back to you on that one. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 5:57:51 PM | alas this proves irresistable to men and I find myself with more date offers than I have Saturday nights.
Random armchair psychology warning: Perhaps it ties into that whole thing where men like to feel needed and useful?
I know I'd get half way to the vending machine before it hit me. "Sure I'll get that!" or "Here, let me show you!"
....wait a second. Damnit, fell for it again. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:03:42 PM | >>Perhaps it ties into that whole thing where men like to feel needed and useful?
Dude, everyone likes to feel needed and useful--regardless of gender.
And I thought you were hiding out on the grassy knoll until we needed you? | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:07:11 PM | Why do otherwise intelligent women "dumb it down" to attract such men?
My guess is that intelligent women know that men need to feel superior - like they wear the trousers - and make all the decisions - they don't like to be de-masculinated... so... what's an intelligent girl to do?...
Its a kind gesture really!!... I dont think men truly appreciate how much strength and independence we women hide to ensure they still feel they are top of the food chain..(even though the more intelligent men already know the truth about that! - Dentedknight?... ;o)
Arent we so sweet :o)
Now I'm neither thin, nor ditzy..nor fat - and (some might say) nor intelligent either....
Where does that leave me??????????????? lol
I'd much rather be fat and ditzy at this rate! At least either of those have date options...!! | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:07:27 PM | Dude, everyone likes to feel needed and useful--regardless of gender.
Yes, but why is "I can't handle this, can you help?" such bait from an attractive woman?? It makes me crazy to watch myself do this. Even though I know exactly what's going on!
So far, no crazy comments have come in. I had the flame suit all ready to go. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:10:52 PM |
everyone likes to feel needed and useful--regardless of gender
I don't. I aspire to being a useless drain on society. I'm just not so sure how I go about accomplishing this. I would have thought my random bouts of road rage combined with frequent hirings and firings (interspersed with gross misconduct, of course) would achieve this but no!!!! I'm still considered a valuable and productive member of society. What's a gal gotta do?
Maybe this is where you can help out Ubkobalt (see what I did there... trying to make you feel all needed and stuff  ). What do you suggest to make this pesky "I'm needed" feeling go away? | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:14:18 PM | | I'm not falling for any more of your trickery! (And to be honest, I don't know. I'm trying to increase that, not decrease it. Maybe demand more compensation for your efforts?) | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:16:19 PM | *For the purpose of clarity - I am not stupid either! :o)
(MENSA member age 10!)
However - I wouldnt say that necessarily denotes intelligence....you see :o)
Can you have an above average IQ an be ditzy? a below average IQ and be intelligent? Hmmm | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/17/2007 6:24:33 PM | | you answered your own question??? "can hold a conversation" damm! you can even spell it...thats why. its a way to make them feel smart mabey? brains and beauty... a deadly combo to a player...lol! and a little note... the smart girls are the best in bed... | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:24:56 PM | ^^ membership in Mensa is by definition an IQ above 133, or the top 2 percentile.
There really is no argument that something called IQ exists--we all agree some are gifted and some are not.
Whether what IQ tests measure is legitimate, is very much open for debate. Currently, IQ tests measure verbal, mathematical, and problem solving ability.
What about artistic genius? Mathematical savants who are verbally challenged?
Obviously, we don't have a perfect method of quantifying mental abilities.
Equally obviously, people of different mental abilities not only exist, but will readily recognize each other when they meet. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:27:22 PM | Hang Fire here!!
Real men go for real women &
Real woman have & aleways will have curves in all right place and places with right Curves..
then after that if we need to talk well we can always talk about what ever has just come up  | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:30:59 PM |
Obviously, we don't have a perfect method of quantifying mental abilities.
We don't!!! F*ck me! I'm learning all kinds of new things tonight!
the smart girls are the best in bed
That's 'cause we can work out how to do the '69' without instructional aides. Kind of a passion killer if you gotta get out the crayons and draw a sketch! | |
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Posted: 1/17/2007 6:33:10 PM | >>(MENSA member age 10!)
However - I wouldnt say that necessarily denotes intelligence
Then, you obviously challenge the premises that IQ tests are based on. Do you have some evidence that you are not intelligent, or that those who scored lower than you are more intelligent?
In the words of Frank Zappa: "Shut up and play your guitar."
You have made a statement--now defend it. | |
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