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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/29/2007 1:37:24 PM | | thats not really true usually us guys go for the girl were attracted too its not our fault if the girl that we were attracted too turns out to be a complete bi -tch and the same thing happens with girls too | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/29/2007 3:12:00 PM | | personally I'd rather date an average girl then a thin girl any day. and the girl definatly has to have some personality or I'd just get bored. plus (and not trying to sound like this is all I care about because it's not) a girl needs to have a little cushin for the pushin | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/29/2007 3:38:29 PM | personality is purely an OPINION.
But it is a scientific FACT that men are typically attracted to the physical....at first.
Now I am sure you are really cool and fun and sharp. you are 20. most 20 year old men are conditioned to masturbate to thin ditsy babes in magazines and films
Stop calling yourself average, or you will remain average. Believe you are the Alpha female, and you will attract the alpha male. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/29/2007 6:15:18 PM | "Now I am sure you are really cool and fun and sharp. you are 20. most 20 year old men are conditioned to masturbate to thin ditsy babes in magazines and films"
Plus, the definition of "average"...as has been rehashed so many times in the forums is overweight. I am what used to be considered average/healthy weight for my height, but girls call me skinny because I am thinner than most of them. Go figure!!! | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/29/2007 7:29:45 PM | Real reasons?
Blokes are programmed to be dominant ( from the sandpit at school we compete with other blokes for our place on the pecking order) once this is established the fighting tends to stop
if bird is ditzy or non confrontational blokes like that
they get to be the DADDY as it were and take the lead role
most blokes still work in the "jungle" and like to come home to a freindly enviroment
this is at odds with new women who wants to play at being a BLOKE
this means there is no where for the bloke to go as he is allready a bloke and is not programmed for CHILD CARE / House work and isnt interested in roles outside his programming
im am programmed for fighting f***** and DIY
after i fight at work i like to come home and f*** the woman in my life and chill out and do DIY at the weekend
ITS CALLED DIVISION OF LABOUR in an equitable relationship
now the modern woman wants independance and a wealthy society can make that possible where brains can earn the money nor brawn
(their are variants in other cultures but most readers are western we should stick to that)
the reality is most women still want babies and are quite happy to look after them on her own should the means to do so becoma available
women are quite happy at having multiple fathers for their children - it can be good for the gene pool
the ideal situation for a woman is to shag several blokes and have kids by each then settle down with a dork that can do diy and put food on the table - in this situation she is the Matriarch and is quite happy
the ideal situation for a man is to have a harem of women - again this benefits the gene pool
however these 2 scenarios are played out on a bigger stage called society and men are programmed to seek sex and will challenge or steal from harem owners
women may have a problem with their strategy due to the fact that males only want them to father their children and no one else
o good ole read of evolutionary biology will enlighten you to how come we are so screwed up - lol
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on the modern women syndrome females should consider the reverse and how they would feel if men suddenly swapped gender roles.
it would be rather odd to have a group of blokes set up a nursery and look after the kids and shun any female intervention, then take the womens credit card and rack up a big shopping bill. and finally nag the hell out of the wife when she got home about mowing the lawn
if this happened to you as a women you would be a little lost and would feel challenged in your natural role by the new Female MAN
women in the workplace have become the noisy Minority and a backlash is inevitable
future men will still seek sex but are lilkley to get very agressive and competitive in the workplace and other traditional male roles where women challenge them
so kiss goodbye the day a bloke holds open the door for you tommorows man is more likley to slam it in your face
for now women are supported by political corectness a soft non physical enviroment to work in and antidiscrimination laws
tommorows world will be dominated by super****es and superbarstewards who will backstab and punch their way to the front
monocultures will arise in the workplace dominated by these types -
its happening allready as women and men become more sexist in recruitment and employees prefer to be lead by thier own sex as they are more familiar with the terms of engagement and this increase chances of promotion and job satisfaction
we are in a transition phase leading to this and women and men will splinter into minorities based on sex rather than religion or ethnicity
lets face it what bloke wants to work for a super**** who promotes female a** lickers over their male counters parts
the reverse is also true which is why women are taking the lead in building the sex based monoculture at work
men will also take up female strategies in social relation ships - bailing out when things get tough - some men will move into hetersexual partnerships to avoid the hardships of living on thier own while seeking the next lucrative female realtionship in the same way as females to today - though their numbers will be less as a male priority for his own space is higher than a females and this is aided by the fact that few males will take their children with them
this is nature taking its course - biological programing/ evoloution works at a much slower pace than technilogicaly driven social changes
not happy with this post? you are Suffering from Future Shock ( Alvin Toffler)
not agreeing with this post ? you are blind to the reality of the changes around you
read it again and next time you are out and about you will see the writing is on the wall for old style relationships
bit long but it all had to be said | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/29/2007 7:38:04 PM |
im a 20 yr old female, and i have noticed that guys would rather date the thin brianless girls with no personality, rather than having an average girl like me with good looks, GREAT personality, can hold a intelligent conversation. why are men like this?
I disagree, dating a girl with no personality is borring...Thanks God very few girls fit in that catagory... | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/29/2007 7:50:11 PM | Wow, I actually never really thought about it that way...but I do agree with ateslacoil. I think it could be more on the subconsious level. That could be why a lot of men date Asian women too because they tend not to be as abrasive in nature.
Eversince working in a large office environment with aggressive women I would have to agree with that. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/29/2007 8:02:49 PM | Shallow guys will go for the ditzy thin gal because they think its going to be easier to get them in the sack.
I'd rather find someone with a brain. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/30/2007 1:31:57 PM | I feel that they are hang-up free. They are every guys fantasy to bang and leave with no worries of being called...Im not saying im this way, but thats my point of view.
Andy | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/30/2007 1:35:24 PM | What makes you actually think that ditzy girls are actually ditzy?
I have "dumbed" down for guys before....I know many beautiful, intelligent woman who put on that facade for their partners. It is called appearing vulnerable!!! It makes them seem cute and less threatening. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/30/2007 1:47:23 PM | | Msg 1 you write that as if to say a thin woman has no brain, no personality. This is just not true. Many hot women are also smart and funny. You sound angry and resentful. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/30/2007 4:24:05 PM |
What makes you actually think that ditzy girls are actually ditzy?
I have "dumbed" down for guys before....I know many beautiful, intelligent woman who put on that facade for their partners. It is called appearing vulnerable!!! It makes them seem cute and less threatening.
Thanks for this. I've wondered how intentional or subconciously unintentional this act is.
Also, I've noticed that when women flirt with men in a playful way, they go ditzy and dumb. And it's cute, and wish I was on the receiving end of it. I don't understand why, but it is. There IS a line between cute and annoying though. But it's probably a lot less annoying to the one being flirted with. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 1/30/2007 7:49:05 PM | "Thanks for this. I've wondered how intentional or subconciously unintentional this act is.
Also, I've noticed that when women flirt with men in a playful way, they go ditzy and dumb."
Flirting is like breathing, it occurs on a subconscious level when attracted to someone...the giggling, the shyness, the hair fluffing and fluttery eyelashes.
In fact I have had a guy tease me once about doing some of those things, and I was completely unaware that I had.
But I definitely have been guilty of acting cute and dumb on purpose, if a guy felt threatened by someone more assertive. Or if I knew he liked the cute act.
But this does not make me a ditzy girl by nature.
If anything it makes women who are capable of doing this consciously more intuitive, because they are more intuned to others' needs and wants. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 2/2/2007 9:39:30 AM | | Cause they're funny and they like to laugh and watch them be cute and flawless. But what looks flawless is only looks, okay? I always wished I was a flawless girl but I guess that would mean that I could only get insensitive, conceited, hollow men right? I wouldn't want that. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 3/6/2007 3:04:47 PM | Okay....my IQ is 126. So, I just missed qualifying for the MENSA....but I do know that to rob a man of his masculinity is emasculation, NOT demasculiniation! I am smart, funny, cute, and a hell of a lot of fun. Yeah I love stimulating conversation. I have a great sense of humor and I can hold my own a room full of smart asses. Most men dont get to know that side of me, cause I am not a size 3 or bleach blonde.
Let hear it for the men who appreciate what a woman is on the inside. Those are men. The ones who have to have a trophy woman, are either BOYS, or men in midlife crisis. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 3/6/2007 3:52:52 PM | Oh I wreckon Its because attractive people dont need to go ON AND ON AND ON about the fat ones and how much better they are In all areas - bar the Physically obvious where they admit they glaringly lack. Another thing - someone with a great personality wouldnt need to start promoting how fab they are and better than the attractive slim girls. Get over it - as the other poster said SUCK IT UP .. and find your own man stop trying for the blokes who already have a woman  | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 3/6/2007 6:54:11 PM | | I am not 19 years old. However, I would say I prefer your figure over the girls you described any day of the week. I don't really think guys are simply going for thin guys. And you have a good figure, so that can't be it. You are probably thinking of the thin party girls who seem wild to the guys. It is not as simple as you put it. The kind of guys that go with those stereotypical girls would not be for you. So don't even think about it. | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 3/7/2007 7:31:14 AM | | men date thin girls because they believe its hot (i prefer meatier women) the ditsyness is basically because the man can feel inferior to the woman or in many cases cus the woman has the same intelects as he does (many times so does a hamster) | |
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| why do men go for the ditsy thin girls?
Posted: 3/7/2007 10:37:06 AM | "i have noticed that guys would rather date the thin brianless girls with no personality, rather than having an average girl like me with good looks, GREAT personality, can hold a intelligent conversation."
I would love to take offense at this statement. But I can't, damnit. I just can't. I just feel like laughing. Anyway, OP, I have some questions for you:
If you are that intelligent:
Why did you start your post with "i" instead of "I"? It's also, "brainless" not "brianless". Oh and it is "an intelligent" not "a intelligent". Basic English. Minus three in the intelligence dept.
Please think before you brag.
[And English is not even my mother tongue.]
If you are that good looking:
Why are you single, here and insecure? Why are you complaining about men finding thin women attractive?
If you have such a great personality:
Why does it seem to me that you're just another frustrated woman who thinks the cause of all her woes are the thin women of the world?
I'll tell you why. You do this because it's much easier for you to place all the blame on men and "thin ditzy women" instead of taking up some responsibility and changing yourself.
Don't like the way you look? Great. Go join the gym and lose those extra fat.
Don't like the way other people treat you? Great. Change your personality.
It's that simple. The fault lies in you not others. | |
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