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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/24/2005 5:49:25 PM | Well now it seems I only attract women who are not seeking any committment other then just good friends . And yeah I too online seem to only attract the larger women . I never seem to attract any woman who is looking and wanting a long term relationship for some strange reason . Oh sure they love me though for how I treat a lady so nice all the time ! But then after a few dates they seem to just move on to someone new and forget I am around any more. Yeah I tend to end up like one of them collector items most women put up on the shelf and forget about . Yeah they dust me off every once in awhile and either visit with me or chat online but thats all they do. Why are women so afraid of a loving caring guy I really don't understand . But yeah I wish I could attract one lovely lady who would want me as hers longterm . But thats still just a dream for me !! | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/24/2005 6:10:42 PM | well i seem to attract guys who only want sex with a black woman cause some want to try a black woman...it is beginning to turn me off alot....also i attract guys who are in the 50s and 60s eww...i want someone close to my age or younger but not too young...i just want a nice guy who want a date and not sex beforehand but i know that is not going to happen....oh well....i have guys on my list who only chat online...too scared to come see me or hang with me ...but that is their loss not mine....i do it for them....i dream of a long term relationship too but its just a dream i think... | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 11:40:50 AM | no you ninny big girls shouldnt be looking for big guys this from a smart male???? but be looking for what appeals to the individual im a big girl and prefer a thinner type male! so far! but having said that some guys like bigger women would YOU dare to walk up to a guy and sayhi dude shouldnt you have dated a girl closer to your weight? its been my experience that men who love larger ladies seem to always be smiling thats liksaying that blondes should date blonds itall comesdown to compatability! if a largerperson can make your heart pound and give you butterflies then thatswhat its all about alphie! you mayjust be dating yurself for a long time with that attitude fun! | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 11:46:42 AM | | Dang fire skeeters,hornets and bees.I smell like a flower or i just smell. | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 12:59:41 PM | Online: Lots of people who want to be just friends. The same people that always need a shoulder to cry on. *sigh*
Real Life: Escaped mental patients.
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 1:43:17 PM | I get a lot of older women. It's strange because girls younger than me or around my age are generally indifferent to me and my looks. But I've had several older women (mid-30's and up) tell me that they think I'm very good-looking. I can't explain it.
One of my female friends tells me I have a classic look which I guess appeals more to the older crowd rather than the younger crowd who probably is looking more for the "Abercrombie-Laguna Beach-Maxim" look.
Everyone has their preferences. | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 1:59:07 PM | | still a whole lotta r.n.'s...guys who feel compelled to take care of me or fix me somehow...not that i'm complaining, lol... | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 3:29:55 PM | | Boys (the young ones with no possiblities) or men who are playing the field saying and doing all the right things, then disappoint you....when you find out you are only one of many in the mix.... | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 4:06:59 PM | ditto to all the young ones(with no possibilities) or just men Playing the field..
So I have now set the bar at "only friends"... as it seem's the harder I'm looking ...the less luck I have...
besides I'm having a blast with all my POF girl friends..  | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 4:11:13 PM | | freckles You sound like a fun lady. I'm with you, although I still leave my profile at long term. But "looking"? Hardly. I've met really terrific people here, men and women who've all become great friends. I'm very excited about a dear lady friend who's flying from Canada to Florida for a vacation and to meet me. We'll have a fun weekend I'm sure. We'll certainly paint Tampa red, polka dot and who knows what else. I've run across the same thing you have, younger MUCH younger guys or men that forget about you within a week, as they're still online "shopping". hahaha I'm not disappointed at all, just enjoying the people I meet here. | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 4:17:43 PM | If there are so many nutcases out there, then are we them? It's all relevent | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 4:18:01 PM | lol, weirdos like myself. HA! j/k
Normal people looking for a reprieve, actually. All walks of life. It's always been that way for me. I'm into stalking accountants right now, actually... | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 6:47:42 PM | I tend to attract really Horney Women, is this a problem???  | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 6:49:59 PM | Yah and I attract guys that are 10 years my junior, but do I go for it? Well I used to. LOL!! | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 10:26:19 PM | | NOTHING, SWEET BUGGER ALL!!!!! F OF NOTHING!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 9/25/2005 10:35:40 PM | Quote : lol, weirdos like myself. HA! j/k
pssst Garf..... we are not weird at all its those that think us weird who are weird just thought I'll let you in on it.....................
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| What do you attract? Posted: 10/8/2005 12:33:47 AM | | vampires lovers. I can't complain as they are usually pretty good looking! | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 10/8/2005 1:19:14 AM | Well not really answering anyone in particular here...answer would have to be..."MEN"..... the occasional woman telling me her brother thinks I am hot, or some womans husband,but for the most part I would have to say "men" then again I did set the bait picture showing lots of leg, how many "men" dont appriciate a good set of legs...so you get what you put out, Oh wait.... maybe thats not what I want to say, rethink that gal, OK its my only set of legs I take them for granted, was actually overwhelmed with emails for the first few weeks, so now I am learning to read ,"wow nice legs", without thinking that its shallow....*smile* . You guys are just great...Thanks... | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 10/12/2005 1:17:36 AM | I seem to attract sociopaths. I don't know why. Nice women like me, but like I am a pet monkey or something. Evil women are the only ones that ever seem to show any desire for me beyond that. Mostly.
If she drinks human blood and sets cars on fire while people are still in them, I always know I might have a chance. Life isn't fair. | |
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| What do you attract? Posted: 10/12/2005 9:53:25 PM | I attract lots of men! all kinds! Liars, Cheaters, scumbags! men who think they are playahs! men who say they want to date but are still hung up on ex's. Men who only want sex. Even men who like to bat for the other team! Oh and lets not for get the abusive kind! Such great men!  | |
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