| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 7:25:33 AM | | Unfortunately I receive the most contact from older married or separated men. I also have a fair number of never married and no children messages. With having children of my own a man with children of similar age is most desirable to me. I want that family unit and partnership with that special someone. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 10:15:57 AM | I believe that the kind of people we attract depends mainly on what we are able to deal with at a particular moment in time.
There may be a really great woman or man longing to have our attention that we totally ignore because we are trying to overcome a heartbreaking split. We don't even notice them most times or if we do we are incapable of appreciating what that person may have to offer. A friend of mine recently told me that in matters of the heart timing is everything, and I've come to see just how true that is.
How many of us have suffered through a heart wrenching break-up where we just KNEW that the relationship had SO MUCH going for it....if only the other person could just see it. These are especially hard to deal with because there is a lot of ground for a great relationship, but the timing isn't there. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 10:51:22 AM |
How many of us have suffered through a heart wrenching break-up where we just KNEW that the relationship had SO MUCH going for it....if only the other person could just see it. These are especially hard to deal with because there is a lot of ground for a great relationship, but the timing isn't there.
im going through that right now. it just sucks! im so sad, cuz i know we would be so awesome together! | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 11:11:23 AM | I feel your pain paleone 
Believe me, we've all been there, I know that doesn't help much for someone going through it right now, but hang in there it WILL pass. Just try to maintain your self-respect and dignity. If there's any chance for you two down the road it depends on how you both handle this.
Do what I do, keep yourself busy so you don't have time to dwell on it. Clean your house from top to bottom or hang out with your girlfriends till some time passes. Then you can look at this without a heavy heart. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 11:26:30 AM | im going through that right now. it just sucks! im so sad, cuz i know we would be so awesome together!
Paleone....
....I also feel Your Pain...and Yes it sucks....Sometimes You wish So bad For something,that can be So beautiful to Work....But some People are Just not ready..
Up until a few Days ago I felt the very same, as what You are Going through..Until I searched and waited for a revelation to come to as to why This Person could not let me love them and Why it could not work...For me it is the "Not Knowing Why"..it could not work that is Hell.
Since this Time I have learned that part of My lesson is to Let Go...and what a wonderful feeling it is.....
I truly use to Joke about but ,But now I'm beginning to learn what it really means...
"I You Love someone let them Go".some of life's lessons come really hard....At the end of the Day all You can do is wish You're Friend well,and move On.......Peace DragonRed... | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 11:35:57 AM | ^^^ Yes, listen to Obi-wan you do...
Wise man right there ladies, snatch em up while you still can  | |
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Posted: 10/13/2005 11:42:01 AM | ^^^The Farce is Strong in this One........... Thank You Jedi..Your too Kind...
...PaleOne ...if Your looking for a pick Me Up..a Good heart felt belly Rolling laugh...You could Read Deagleninja's Posts..Believe Me they are like therapy.........  | |
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Posted: 10/13/2005 11:43:08 AM | | I once heard a song with words that said, "some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers". I have to say when I look back it's been true for me. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 11:45:45 AM | heres an old saying. it hurts to love and not be loved. as in any breakup where your on the hurt end, you will always struggle to find an answer to the problem or why this has happened, to try to relieve the pain. you will drive yourself nuts doing it. and probably not solve the mystery. if you have had a few relationships you know time is your best friend. ride on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ot i attract hunters.....................
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Posted: 10/13/2005 11:52:45 AM | ^^^Well said StarBucker..............I would like to Give My POF Bro..StarBucker a Big Thank You...But in Daily Life,He has Been One Hell Of a Friend For Many Years,And Has seen Me through Some nasty Storms concerning Life.....Thanks For Being there Bro...You are the Best...Cheers...It feels good to finally let Go Of Her......... 
Let's go Fishing Bro..... | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 11:53:06 AM | | usually either guys who treat me like crap, or guys that wanna be treated like crap....fortunatly my current boau, isnt either....we are just in the beginning, but he seems to be just what the doc ordered.....so far..... | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 12:23:08 PM | Thank you so much!
I do keep my self busy. Visiting with friends, running errands, going to the gym! He and I will continue to be friends, cant throw away the last 14 years. But I have asked him to leave me alone for a while so I can deal with my hurt. I dont want to ruin our friendship... Id rather have him as just a friend, then not have him in my life at all. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 12:25:41 PM | | It's hard to say. You never know who will show up when you meet some one from cyberland. Sometimes ok but sometimes you may want to hide or leave if you see them first and they haven't spotted you yet. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 12:45:45 PM | I tend to attract:
*MUCH older or MUCH younger men...when I prefer a similar or little older.
*Women...when I am straight!
*Foreign people...don't ask me why...no opinion on this! LOL
*Guys looking for an independent woman (or so he thinks) and then freaks out on the same independence!
When what I really like is: intellect, biker life-style, ambition, emotional capacity, no hypocrisy, views women as equal, a good mix of old fashioned and modern milt! OH!! I have him! ;) | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 12:46:31 PM | | Guys in their 20's, guys who have no job and still live with their mothers (one was 45), guys who just want to have sex. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 12:53:43 PM | I attract sophisticated James Bond types who want me to be their love slave.
naaa not really....lol..its a mixed bag really. You meet ALL sorts on the internet. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 1:10:22 PM |
I do keep my self busy. Visiting with friends, running errands, going to the gym! He and I will continue to be friends, cant throw away the last 14 years. But I have asked him to leave me alone for a while so I can deal with my hurt. I dont want to ruin our friendship... Id rather have him as just a friend, then not have him in my life at all.
Well done Pale......Going that route Myself right now.........Peace ..Good Luck.... | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 3:31:17 PM | | Women that have not figured out what they want. Hey, you know what, get your head straight, figure out where you are in life and what you really want out of it, then post an add. Don't post an add advertising something that is the opposite of what you really want. Just wasting the time of whomever reads and responds to your add. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 4:08:55 PM | ^^^^The Door Swing both ways MrActive.....there are a lot of Men on Here also that do not know what they are looking For........cheers.....
Thank You Pale.. | |
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| What do you attract?
Posted: 10/13/2005 4:13:08 PM | same...
somehow I always wind up with psychochicks hunting me down like a Lion on a Gazelle | |
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