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Posted: 1/22/2008 11:44:20 AM | | Hello! Get some self-respect. You should have dumped that jerk a long time ago when you found out about the ex. You don't need an excuse, lady. HE is the excuse. If you think he's going to stop screwing around with his ex - ya gotta nuther think coming. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 6:31:35 PM | Op, you stated...
...by the way, the guy is my friend, and oh, the things I have heard.....
So, if I understand correctly, the guy is your friend.... Mmmmmmm....
You must see some positive qualities if you consider him your friend....
My next random thought is... Mmmmmm with friends like that, who needs enemies!
I do not understand this... This IS a joke, right? | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 7:45:27 PM | WHAT!!!  Are these women Friggin' Crazy!?!??! And do think that this will stop once this baffoon is married?
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Posted: 1/24/2008 8:33:45 AM | | I would have broken it off right at the beginning when he was 'caught' seeing his ex. If you had agreed to be committed to each other and NOT see other people, then he should have been honest right from the get go. And theres no way in H*** I would have taken him back or become engaged to him! | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 9:13:39 AM | A very similar question was posed this week by a gal. After two dates with a guy, he tells her he's seeing another woman and "can't decide"...as if...asking HER to decide for him. The feedback was unanimous: wish him luck with the other woman and walk away.
The scenario you've posed shows chronic and profound psychological problems on the guy's part. And the women who are in emotional collusion with him need counseling, too. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 9:21:11 AM | MARRY this man??!! I'd sooner have a red-hot fire poker shoved up my crotch. It would be a helluva lot less painful than what these two idiot women are putting themselves through.
As for the OP...if this guy really is your friend, I would highly recommend you find some new ones. The last thing you need is someone this morally vacant in your life, even if it is just on a platonic level. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2008 6:15:54 PM | | STOP! Why do you want to disturb the peaceful, tranquil, non-eventful lifestyle of a single person, in order to replace it with this type of hurtful, emotional chaos? Are you a whole person yet? Maybe you need to stay single for a while.... DO NOT DATE ANYONE... Do you hear me? Learn about yourself. Establish a routine of work, home life (all alone). Grocery shop alone, cook at home alone, read alone, watch movies alone. Get a pet to love. Do this for at least six month. If you follow this regime, you will magically transform yourself into a person who has some sense. You will not engage in any HURTFUL OR CODEPENDENT RELATIONSHIPS, because you will know the differnce between having a nice life and having a LIFE OF HELL, of which you are asking all of us to make a judgement for you, because you have never given yourself the opportunity to settle into being a whole person. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2008 12:51:16 AM | There's too many smart, well intentioned men in the world, to waste time with an indecisive pri(|< tying up two. It doesn't matter who is or isn't listening to two words "Common Sense" someone knows better. If not the woman herself, him, if not him, the "other woman" Either that or they're all foolishly naive.
The entire scenario makes her, the EX, and HIM, look tremendously foolish.. I wouldn't date either of the two women involved, and the guy? Well I'd certainly like to know how he gets away with this nonsense.. is he rich?
How'd ya like to be the recipient of whatever disease the 'other woman' happens to 'share' with you?
This is retarded. Go find some third world country where 'polygyny' is acceptable and perhaps his escapades will wash, but I suppose it's entirely up to someone's self esteem and self control, to determine if they have some other sort of problem spending their time being with one woman.. like the majority of the population.
Even if STD's didn't kill people, it would still expose her life to a world of emotional conflict, indecisiveness, and resentment.
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Posted: 1/25/2008 1:31:54 AM | | It doesn't matter who YOU are in this little scene.....the first time he cheated, she shoulda dumped his azz plain and simple! And to put up with it 14 months and then take him back later agreeing to marry him? Then he has the gall to ask if he can go see the ex after confessing his compulsion to be with the her? This has got to be hypothetical in basis, or someone needs to have their head examined. I cannot wrap my brain around the fact that someone would actually be so wrapped up in a guy that they would tolerate that. Sorry, not trying to put whoever it is down, I just SERIOUSLY don't understand her reason for putting up with it. | |
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| would you marry this man
Posted: 8/16/2008 6:56:45 PM | | Two things......you actually teach our children?????anddddddd how big is his d i c k???? | |
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Posted: 8/16/2008 7:07:03 PM | All of these people sound really stupid. They sound like they all just get off on having a bunch of drama. Maybe they should all go their own ways and seek therapy. And NO. Whatever that guy is, he isn't ready for something as committed and difficult as marriage.
God, people annoy me. Why do they always have to make everything so difficult for themselves? Sorry, Im a little bitter right now...This guy I know with a girlfriend always hits on me and tells me he wants to break up with her for me...and then he doesnt do it. After months of it I'm finally done. Ive stopped taking his phone calls and Im staying away from places where I might run into him, just because I finally realized: He just likes the drama! What the hell is the point in associating with people like that? I mean think about this website...Plent Of Fish. There are more people out there. Better people. Go find them. | |
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Posted: 8/16/2008 7:35:58 PM | | Bottom line, the guy is a slime ball. I dated someone who told me he needed to deal with his ex, so, I told him to go be with her. I think he was seeing her while seeing me and someone else as well on the side.......disgusting. Whoever is involved with this man needs their head examined, seriously. | |
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