| why dont men want a bbw who is a damn good woman?
Posted: 12/7/2008 1:51:53 PM | this is just me okay...please dont take this the wrong way.. I dont want u to miss a treasure.. the same way token u say why dont a man want a bbw who is a damn good woman can be said about some ugly old man...
u want a man to give u a chance and read the wondeful book u r from cover to cover.
take a minute and stop and read his book too. dont judge a man by his cover.
U could be missing a really special man
I fixed my sister up with a good friend of mine... well she had a thing about she didnt like bald men and I didnt know he was bald.( he always wore a hat)
She almost killed me..... She married him and they r sooo happy..........
He is a great guy.. think what she could had missed................
It hurts a man's feelings about him not being overly attractive as it does us women about being chunky... Hang in there gurl.....
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Posted: 12/11/2008 3:13:59 PM | I'm a 24 year old male, and I can't find a BBW or SSBBW who wants to hook up. All I want is a woman who's just a freak and nasty as I am, and I can't find one.
I'm from Byrdstown, TN, and I can't even find anyone on here who's interested in me. I send messages that don't get responded, I'm almost ready to just give up, and stop looking.
In the long run, I figure that I can't find love with someone because of the freakiness of my sexual drive, but, I would like to find love. It's just that I get so goddamn horny, that the last thing I want is love, because it takes too long to get in to the sack. So, I say "**** it", and go right for the sex.
Damn you, people near Byrdstown, TN, what's the deal? Am I that screwed up? Am I that ugly? What the ****? | |
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| why dont men want a bbw who is a damn good woman?
Posted: 12/11/2008 8:06:20 PM | There's always an excuse that can be fount, too fat, to skinny, wrong color, religion, disability, etc.
Now I'm not into overweight women, but definitely not interested in an anorexic one either, there has to be attraction for a relationship to be possible. I watch my weight, don't over eat and try to remain active even when my life doesn't seem to allow it, it's not difficult to do, especially if I can do it.
I've had no interest in me, what should I claim as the excuse. Which is fine with me, one will come when it's time. | |
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Posted: 12/17/2008 10:54:36 PM | | I dont necessarily think that. I have lots of bigger guy friends i have even had sex with a big guy; however it wasnt that good. in my mind he has a over hang and i do too, he has to find mine i have to find his, hell i guess you could say im just lazy. 2 big people can not possibly have great intercourse together. just out of experience. I mean most guys that ask me out are smaller guys too, but i would never not go out with someone because he was big. we just might by pass the sex based on past experiences | |
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Posted: 12/25/2008 7:59:50 AM | | It is all in the eyes of the beholder. I have had men tell me that I was too big. Look at my profile and photos..............I wear size 10 and am 5'7. Too big for what? If they don't want you/me, then why would we want to be with them? Think about it. I won't be a mercy date. You should not either. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2009 10:33:01 AM | | During my working career, I have been a plus size model. I'm a girly girl about my hair, makeup, manicure/pedicures, etc. I don't know if it's the part of the country I live but guys don't like big beautiful women. Can someone shed some light on why this is? Thanks. | |
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Posted: 1/3/2009 10:15:59 AM | I am a bbw and I have dated thin and big men. My personality is such that people are drawn to me because I am so outgoing and I have a great sense of humor. I don't judge other people by their looks or body weight. I judge by their personality. Do they have one? I think those that just go by the person's looks really miss out on the good stuff underneath. I think there those that can be beautiful and hot on the outside but ugly as sin on the inside.
You know what they say....Beauty is skin deep but ugly is to the bone, | |
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Posted: 1/8/2009 8:29:42 AM | only 1 mac:
I'm from Byrdstown, TN, and I can't even find anyone on here who's interested in me. I send messages that don't get responded, I'm almost ready to just give up, and stop looking. Damn you, people near Byrdstown, TN, what's the deal? Am I that screwed up? Am I that ugly? What the ****? Asked...
I can't find a BBW or SSBBW who wants to hook up. All I want is a woman who's just a freak and nasty as I am.... ... and, Answered.
All in your very own post ta boot... | |
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Posted: 1/8/2009 10:39:46 PM | I lived in a small town once, the fire dept relied on just 2 trucks, one the pumper had a leaky tank and was 10 years old, the other was near 40 years old and set beside the building, non functional, unless you counted the flatbed truck with its tank for brush fires. Both police cars were new though. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2009 3:11:13 PM | I totally agree with you hun... just because i'm a big girl people think I should just be grateful and not be picky... but why can't I be picky? I'm the same as everyone else there's just more to love!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/14/2009 6:46:24 AM | I don't usually post on these forums even though I do read through them and have a lot of opinions and thoughts. But, since I am changing and finding "me" in the year 2009, I had to take this step forward.
Tonia, I know you and count you as one of my friends. You are a very beautiful person inside and out. That is what people need to look at. You know that the old saying is that "beauty is only skin deep". Believe me it is true. Some of the best looking people that I have met both men and woman have been the most ugly people inside when you got to know them. That isn't what a relationship or friendship is about.
My favorite saying is one of my grandmothers:
Some men like a lot of WOMEN, but somewhere is the man that likes alot of WOMAN!!!
And the ones that don't find us, well it is their loss!
Doris | |
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Posted: 1/14/2009 6:58:42 AM | Doris,
Has anyone told you lately what a wonderful person you are? If not, let me say it, You are a wonderful person. Thanks for the lovely reply. It brought tears to my eyes. And ditto back to you. Oh, aren't our grandmothers smart women, lol.
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Posted: 1/14/2009 12:45:05 PM | Pfft I'm fat and I don't care...
And this is my quote.
"If you can't love me ugly, You sure can't love me beautiful."=Sonnie
SO. If you don't like me for how I look now...when I drop all this baby weight...And I'm "thinner"....and you come running..you can kiss my..BEEP.
Cause honestly...if you didn't like me then..whats gonna make you like me now. You don't get to reep the awards. I'd rather be with someone who wanted me for however I looked..not when I looked hotter. :)
-Sonnie.. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2009 11:03:54 AM | Thanks for the "flowers" Tonia!
I have been both bbw and thin. But, I am the same person. My personality doesn't change or anything else, just the shape of my body. And Sonnie you are right - if you weren't attracted to me as bbw, what is the change in your attitude now? I am the same person then as I am now.
But, like I said I am bbw, got a great personality and a heck of a spirit. So look out here I come!
Doris | |
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Posted: 2/7/2009 7:17:41 AM | To nia, I've also met you and consider you a friend. You are BEAUTIFUL!!! You are very outgoing and friendly ...... the beauty on the inside. I'm also a BBW and i'm usually left sitting on the sidelines. I don't get asked to dance at the parties. I don't get the hugs everyone else get either. I haven't figured out why yet. If someone doesn't want to take the time to truly get to know ME, not just go by my size.... it's their loss!!! It's not just the men that will ignore you because you are big, women do it also.
All of us BBW's need to get together and have a BBW party!!! Only BBW's and men that like BBW's allowed!  Linda | |
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Posted: 2/7/2009 9:05:25 AM | All you ladies are beauties, so don't let anyone steal your joy or thunder.
Granny used to say, "Find someone who will appreciate you for who you are, not what you have".
I immediately pass any profile that goes into an exact description of the woman they seek.
If they are that superficial and anal about that, then gees, I can only imagine how they are about everything else in their lives.
I want to know whats on the inside... hopes, dreams......matters of the heart.
I believe God will sent the right guy, at the right time............. so I'm thinking lately, that perhaps, I'm fishing in the wrong end of the pond.
No one seems to want to reach out and say hi....no matter the size.....and what ever happened to being nice.........and flirting?
ceecee
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Posted: 2/9/2009 3:27:35 AM | | A number of years ago, I lost 40 pounds for my personal health reasons.........it was amazing how men began to treat me differently. The ones who ignored me prior to weight loss, suddenly were trying to be friendly. The interior of me had not changed. I gave them as much time post weight loss as they gave me pre-weight loss. | |
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Posted: 2/17/2009 2:02:41 PM | | I have dated several bbw and so have my friends, relatives and some co workers of mine. I have seen a lot more men date bbw then i have seen women that have date men that are fat. Most men are more likey to approach a woman thats over weight compare to someone that skinny because you have better odds of her saying yes to a dance or date. | |
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Posted: 2/17/2009 4:04:46 PM | | ok i have to say this i am a big girl always have been always will and to me men are men and women are women there are good and bad in all shapes and sizes.... but i also do agree that there has to be some attraction to a person the problem here is that people are stating thast physical attraction is everything its not ..... stimulate my mind and my heart and i am yours forever..... ok thats my 2 cents worth | |
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Posted: 2/17/2009 7:32:12 PM | Someone sent this to me and I thought I'd post it on here. I also put it on my profile.
"I'm Sorry"
I'm sorry if I'm not a whore
I'm sorry if my boobs aren't big enough to "satisfy" your needs.
I'm sorry if I'm not skinny enough for you to see my ribs.
I'm sorry if I'm not pretty enough to be "your girl".
I'm sorry if I'm not tanned enough for you
I'm sorry you care so much what others think about what type of girl your with.
I'm sorry if I'm not a playboy model so I can't act like a porn star for you.
I'm sorry if I'm weird/silly/goofy
I'm sorry that I write about you every day
I'm sorry if i don't have a dream body that turns you on.
I'm sorry if im not tall/short enough.
I'm sorry if I don't have sex with you on the first date.
I'm sorry if I'm annoying
I'm sorry if my hair is not long enough.
I'm sorry that im different from those other girls that have hurt you, but you don't believe it.
I'm sorry i won't hang all over you, and be a complete tramp to make you happy.
I'm sorry that I actually care about you
and actually call/text to see how you're doing.
But most of all...
I'm sorry that most guys can't accept a girl for who they really are.
If you're a girl and you agree with this letter, repost as "I'm sorry".
If you're one of the FEW GUYS with enough balls to repost and you would never make your girl feel this way, repost as "I love you just the way you are" | |
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i would love to be a size ten, lol !! 
