| Strippers and Lapdances
Posted: 9/30/2009 8:04:18 PM | | It's been a while. It can be interesting entertainment if you have nothing better to do. Lapdances are a waste of your money almost always. Better to flick out a tip now and then for the entertainment and you may get an interesting chat, but usually they only want to see how much money they can get. Look at it as entertainment have a drink and spend a few dollars and expect nothing more. | |
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| Strippers and Lapdances
Posted: 10/1/2009 7:04:18 AM | it's all depending where ur at and rules/restrictions...it varies from state to county to...oh u know...some places have a 4 ft rule...others have a foot...and i've seen guys gettin "extra"....and some booby bars have alcohol restrictions...i worked at a club in wichita-topless side was full booze while the fully nude side was 3.2 beer or soda..
all in all-if ur out just to have a good time with no expectations-yes lapdances are worth the hype...but just think on this....if ur thinking she's going to give u "extra" just remember she does that for a living and thats some dirty vagina!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/1/2009 7:08:11 AM | btw-the last time i heard -the correct pc term for a stripper was "adult entertainer"
thought u all might get a kick out of that!!!!! | |
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Posted: 10/8/2009 12:53:30 PM | my husband and i go all the time weve had a lapdance where she was on us both it was
great she even gave a massage. no she was worth the money | |
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| Strippers and Lapdances
Posted: 10/8/2009 2:02:24 PM | | Yeah, lapdances can be fun, but I'd only go if you can't figure out anything else to do with your hard earned cash. I've been to a few of those places, and the reality is that the girls job is to pretend that they're interested in you and provide you with a bit of fantasy. It's all about money. If you go into the club and one of the performers comes to talk with you, just say right off the bat "I'm not really interested in a dance right now, but you're welcome to keep me company, we can share a drink together". The girl will walk away 100% of the time and ignore you the rest of the night unless she sees you spending some $$$ on her coworkers, at least that's been my experience. You learn quickly that you're worth nothing more to them than money, but if you can accept that and you're willing to part with your money, you can go to the club and have a good time. | |
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| Strippers and Lapdances
Posted: 11/24/2009 2:27:23 AM | I've been to strip bars a couple of times with the gang when I was in college. Everyone thought it was so edgy and cool and at the time I probably did too, but now it just seems sad and gross. I've known a couple of girls who were strippers too. I'm not sure what's sadder -- the drunken douchebag stumbling out of a strip bar with a stain on his pants, or the 20 year old chick with a drug problem grinding her ass in his lap to get his money.
A lot of the girls just strip and don't even do grinding lapdances, but all clubs have at least 1 or 2 girls who will do anything, if not in the club then outside the club later.
When I went with my friends I had strippers all over me. I tried to be a good sport about it but it made me really uncomfortable. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 2:46:49 AM | | Once in strip club I tried to have Lab Dance and the girl propositioned me for oral sex for double I passed. I am terrified from STD | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 4:35:39 AM | I have nothing against a naked chic sitting on my lap doing a dance.......
........I just hate going home with a hard d*ck and an empty wallet  I like my money too much and masturbating just doesn't get it  | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 10:49:03 AM | been quite a while since i was into the stripper bar thing -i think it was more group mentality -we got time to kill lets all go see some strippers...
as far as the lap dances, rules don't mean nothing if the girl likes you or thinks she's gonna get some money out of you -just make sure you wash your hands before you touch your drink again.
i would compare them to slot machines in an indian casino... - lots of bells, whistles and flashing lights, however they were designed to take your money and seldom pay off... | |
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| Strippers and Lapdances
Posted: 11/24/2009 11:08:29 AM | | In Quebec you're allowed contact dances, so for 20 bucks you can get about 5 minutes of all you can grab. Most are in private back booths and you can get more if you want. | |
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| Strippers and Lapdances
Posted: 11/24/2009 1:41:01 PM | There are classy joints, and the dives that attract every guy looking to score. We have both here in NJ, and most of the higer end 'clubs' do not have gals working for them that will even let you touch them, let alone take you in 'the champagne room' for a little Dom Perignon nookie. I've DJ'd in a strip club, and have friends that have done the same, and in most places it's (stripping) just a job...in other places, it's a hookers paradise.
It's all about the Benjamin's. I've seen guys coming into the place thinking 'oh man, I guarantee I'm gonna get so-and-s0 to come home with me/have sex with me later' and watched them walk off with their friends, with nothing more than blue balls and lint where their cash used to be. As long as you realize you're nothing more than a walking wallet to them, you'll have fun. As far as lapdances go, meh...it can range from a casual dry hump, to an all out friction burn...lol. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 5:02:59 PM | | God I love lap dances ...and pole dancing ...I'm addicted ... I go almost every weekend and sometimes during the week... but it is my wife that does the dancing ...she took a pole dancing course ...for exercise...and I put a pole in our basement ... guys you should try this...and I almost every time get lucky with the dancer | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 5:31:56 PM | | At my local strip clubs there is a no touching rule ... however ... I am sure some of them break it. My goodness, the things some of these ladies do to you while you are on stage, you almost have no choice but to touch them. I remember going with a pal of mine and she was up on the stage, the girl made her lay down and the stripper put her crotch over my friend's mouth and my friend said she could feel her lower lips on her facial lips lol. Oh and our strippers spank ... I dunno if they all do or not, but its entertianing none-the-less | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 7:36:06 PM | Strippers are experts at making you feel like if you get a lap dance, go to the VIP room, Champagne Room, or where ever you are gonna get something you can't get in the regular part of the club. But as you'll soon learn, it'll cost you a lot more money than a dance in the club. Do some people have sex in these rooms, away from prying eyes...sure sometimes it happens, but you can bet that it's not far from the prying eyes of security or the bouncers. That said, looking at beautiful naked women is never bad, and if you can tolerate going home smelling like Kiwi-Strawberry body wash and covered in glitter, lap dances can be fun too. Just remember in the end it's only entertainment. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 9:30:13 PM | | I worked in the industry for a while and it's just a better way to torture yourself... getting teased by something you can't afford to get. The private areas sometimes have some xxx going on, but you better be ready to drop ALOT of cash. Just tip at the stage with your buddies and buy a few overpriced beers. $20 for a 3 minute tease is not worth it bro! | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 9:49:38 PM |
Man whoever pays 1000 dollars for a girl is ****ed.
I pay $900 a month for a woman I don't get to have sex with. It's called alimony. | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 9:54:22 PM |
the strip clubs that I've been to have an area for private lapdances... Is that an area where other things may happen or is it just so other patrons can't get a free close-up look while you get your paid dance?
It really all depends how much money you got and how far those women are willing to go for how much. and those rooms are not private at all. there are always cameras recording there with a bouncer watching at all times for their safety. either obvious cameras or hidden cameras. they're always watching.
it's not cheating if it's just a lap dance. not at all.  | |
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Posted: 11/24/2009 11:57:23 PM | | Yeah, what the first guy said..I've heard alot of guys say they prefer it from their partner...but what the hell, you only live once..may as well try it and see. I wasn't all that impressed with mine but there were reasons for that... =) | |
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Posted: 11/25/2009 1:40:56 PM | | I have to be honest here...I really don't get the draw of strippers and lap dances. Yes, it's flattering to a man's ego I suppose, but what I don't get is the whole paying some woman to pretend she is attracted to me, like I don't know it's the fact I'm jamming $40 in to her garter or g-string that's making her shake her money-maker. Now if a girl I'm dating likes me enough to do a teasing sort of dance...that's a different story. | |
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