| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/26/2007 12:01:45 PM |
I'll sleep with Asian women, black women, whatever. But I would not get married and have children with them. I wont scatter my seed with no thought as to what this child will be, and what groups he will identify himself with. Thats low and degenerate. I would value them too much for that.
I may not agree with the views from this post but there was an idea posted. What about someone who wants to preserve their cultural identity?
I don't see anything wrong with that but that is a different thread. The one here is about people who abandon their kids who don't happen to be of a "pure" race. People can try to preserve their cultural all they want. It's a futile attempt in my eyes as culture is not a fossil that sits and waits. It is like a living organism that changes day it and day out. How can you preserve that? You can't bottle up a culture in an tubbaware containers. As well someone who is that concerned about preserving their culture should not be leading other people on. If they are that set on preserving their culture and are dating people outside of their culture, they are most likely using them for sex.
As well you state that love is temporary, I hate to tell you but so is life. No one lives forever so on your short time on this planet you should try and make good choices. As well, no one is talking about love, they are taking about responsibility. If you help conceive a child they are your responsibility be them pure, half-breeds, genii (the plural of genius.) , mentally delayed, physically disabled, physically fit or any other variation. People need to take responsibility for their actions even if they don't like the outcome. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/26/2007 1:43:29 PM | The same can be said of a lot of the black women that I've dated, though not to the same extent as the Asians I've gone out with. In fairness though, for both Asians and blacks, it seemed to be more of a concern for offending other members of their particular communities than about a personal agenda.
Racism goes all ways. I had a similar experience as newwayhome. My ex and I seemed to 'trouble' the Chinese community in our hometown (if you couldn't tell, he was the Chinese one  ). When he told his mom he wanted to marry me, she cried because she felt sorry for any children we would have. I always hoped that if I did have children that she would be able to move past that and see them for the beautiful bundles of pudge and slobber that all children are, but we never got to that point (and honestly, I'm glad I didn't have to take the chance).
It was sad to know that their community looked down on his mom as being a bad parent because her son was dating a black girl. It was as if I might infect him with my negro-tendencies or cause a pandemic attraction among their children for the darker-race.
His aunt once asked him "Couldn't you have at least dated a Jew?" Its just stupid not matter what color mouth it comes out of.
Its a little frustrating that they have yet to question his new (white) girlfriend or put her through half the shit I went through. But after 7 years of being with him and dealing with it, I learned that there isn't anything you can do about other people and their hang-ups. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/26/2007 6:27:16 PM | What kind of an ***hole can say things like that about their own children?
I think half asian half white women are so hot. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/26/2007 7:48:59 PM | Well,
I don't give a rats ass about the topic.. Gheez I can't believe that there's still so many issues on inter racial dating... People grow up... If you love someone then go for it no matter if the relationship is interracial...
Am I the only one that couldn't care less????? Or is it because I'm not American but Dutch.... Besides we are living in the 21st Century... In my opinion this shouldn't be a topic anylonger.... :smile: | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/26/2007 11:08:13 PM | Race is not anywhere close to the set-back it was 20-50 years ago, most of the racism I see is between lower-class minorities. In most middle -class areas (where I would likely be raising a kid), diversity seems to be the norm. I would not have a problem with any race of kid, if I was attracted to the mother enough to sleep with her it would be very hypocritical to shun any children.
I dated a black/indian mother who had a 5 yr-old half Hispanic child (need a diagram?), one of the coolest kids I have had the chance of meeting. Made me realize that I eventually wanted kids, and he didn't scare me off. Me and mom had a bit of a culture clash, but all kids are beautiful. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/27/2007 5:57:26 AM | I have only been with white women so if the child was born biracial, I would call her a whore and toss her out the window | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/27/2007 7:21:29 AM | My only response to this can be.
If he is that concerned about biracial kids, he best keep his p8nis in his pants or wear an overcoat to bed.  | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/27/2007 7:31:25 AM | I don't know why I'd find it "repulsive." If she's good enough to date, she's good enough to have a child with. Besides, I'm actually bi-racial myself---I'm part German and part Cherokee.
All things considered, it's actually (from a legal standpoint) an advantage to be "minority" these days... | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/27/2007 11:28:35 AM | Would you not want to have babies with me, because the babies would be "half-breeds"?
Are you kidding me? Your race wouldn't be an issue and the race of our children wouldn't be an issue. Love you but not our kids? That's insane.
And I am not talking hypothetically. My last major relationship was with a woman of mix race (50% Asian, 25% Hispanic, and 25% White). One before that was Chinese from Shanghai. One before that was from Cameroon, Africa and as dark as this text. One before that was from Norway and as white as snow.
I don't know where you picked up your racist ex but avoid that hang-out in the future. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 3/27/2007 12:14:30 PM | In my opinion, this guy had some serious issues.... like being a complete ass.
To me there is nothing more sexy than an attractive asian woman. Where I come from there is so very few asians that live here(lots of tourists) that I doubt I will ever be placed in that situation. That said, If i am to bring a child into this world, he/she will be loved regardless of what they come out of its mother looking like. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/5/2007 8:48:23 PM | I went through 3 years of this shit, too, including 1 year of lying to his mom behind her back. He said he just couldn't do it anymore. I wasn't white enough for her half-Chinese/half-White son. Well, hey, I have like 8 races in me. My mother is pure, never mixed, European from the carribean. My dad is mixed with everything. She met my mom once for 2 seconds when my mom picked me up from his house, and assumed she was some black uneducated Jamaican (not that there is a problem with that) and I'm some ghetto girl that sleeps around.
What the hell...
Some people are so friggin racists!
Then last week, I had a fight with a 30+ year old black woman pushing me around, and behind my back she tells her black friends, "This white **** is only giving us a hard time because she has a problem with people of colour."
EXCUSE ME!?
The nerve of some people... every culture has racism... I am so sick of it. Seriously.
Guys message me, "You're so nice, let's hook up." Then I get asked where I'm from and what I am? DUMPED!
Man... grow up world... I'm not checkered and I'm proud of my heritage. Maybe you have a problem with your own, racist people! | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/5/2007 10:20:59 PM | I would Never go out with much less be intimate with someone if I wasn't ready to be a father. They sound like they're afraid of what others will think, but they don't care if everybody thinks their getting something exotic.
My sister married a Filipino man and they have 5 kids, and they are all very cute. Yes, their mixed and it's real obvious - so what. People use to bother them about it, but it's not like they married them, so why should they even have say about it?
These guys sound more than a little racist, and in (my opinion) abortion is murder, if you don't want a kid put'em up for adoption.
If she gave me children period - I would love her all the more for putting her self through that kind of pain because I couldn't keep my hands off her. I would cherish that we had made something together to show our love to the world. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/5/2007 10:24:58 PM | If I wasn't willing to have children with someone, I wouldn't be dating them.
Sounds like you just dated some of the wrong people. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/5/2007 11:22:50 PM |
But I ask this question because these men had a REASON to feel the way they did about their children's race
The reason being that they are ignorant and racist.
Ignorant and racist - sorry, redundant.
My bad.
And from way up there somewhere:
Aboriginal means the same thing everywhere.
An aboriginal person is a member of the indigenous or earliest known population of a region; a native. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/11/2007 1:56:04 PM | | A lot of people put an emotional value on having kids that look like them. I don't know that there is anything wrong with that - it is probably a natural, genuine feeling. It seems common among all races, not just white people. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/29/2008 2:15:08 PM | | The poster who said (and I am paraphrasing here), that if you don't want "biracial" children, you should stay from between a non-white woman's legs" most accurately reflects what I feel about the whole thing..... | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/29/2008 3:41:26 PM | Biracial? Not repulsive to me at all. However, the thought of having children at all at the moment still scares the ever loving **** out of me.  | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/29/2008 5:06:56 PM |
I have only been with white women so if the child was born biracial, I would call her a whore and toss her out the window
I don't typically date non-white women...although I have always had something for Aboriginal women or at least "half breeds". Haha.
I wouldn't sleep (continually and w/o a condom) with a woman whom I was fearful of her having my children. Thats a horrible thought. Regardless of race...I've slept with a few white women who I have no desire to ever have children with...yuck poor kids. Haha.
Half breeds are usually pretty damn sexy...little bit of white...little bit of whatever...good mix:
1) Alicia Keys
2) Olivia Munn
I always thought Shania Twain was actually part Native but I just Googled to verify and it turns out she's actually Irish and French. Haha. Ignore her...
The other two are certainly "half breeds" and I would absolutely let them have my babies.
Quite honestly, I think a relationship with someone of at least part non-white background would be interesting...I certainly say things which are inappropriate and who better to challenge me and help me change than the woman I love and possibly our offspring???
I could never hate anything I produced...I love myself to much...
I think the only way we will ever eliminate racism is if we continually produce half breeds to the point that they no longer are aware of their ethic origins. I'm already Irish/Scottish/English/Polish/Ukrainian so if I could throw some Asian/Native/Italian or Latino to the mix...my kids would have no choice but to consider themselves Canadian and nothing more. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:45:04 AM | Do I care if I have "mixed" children? No. Actually in genetics hybrid offspring usually have the best features of the parents, and fewer of the weaknesses. Since apparently whites are the only majority then all other races would be a minority( though I guess you haven't been to DC since I definitely am a minority here) then all children of non Caucasian descent would he "half-breeds". Most "halfs" are quite beautiful looking people. Alot of models are "halfs" or more or less. Shoot tons of African-Americans in this country aren't "pure". Shoot I would have to say a majority aren't pure.
Mixed children are not an issue for me. I have 2 half-sisters that are half Caucasian and half Asian, they are beautiful girls and I am not one lick ashamed to call them my sisters. I have 2 nieces and one nephew that are, Part Asian, Caucasian, Filipino, Hispanic, and African, and I have no shame. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/30/2008 1:00:14 PM |
being aborigional is more acceptable than being chinese.
*LOL* be part of a dying culture or be part of a culture 5000 years old that is on the verge of reclaiming its dominance. Hmmmm tough choice. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/30/2008 2:22:20 PM | | Well here is my 2 cents, multi-racial people are usually some of the best looking I have ever seen. A relationship takes 2 people and if it bothers you if your children are not white then you have missed out. The children from multi-racial unions seem to do very well, just racism to really deal with. | |
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