| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/30/2008 3:08:46 PM | I can perhaps better respond by citing two references for you to check out if you're interested:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race_%28classification_of_human_beings%29
https://www3.nationalgeographic.com/genographic/atlas.html
AFAIK, there's only one human race. :) | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/30/2008 3:28:40 PM | First of all no offense but I still dont know why people date guys that obviously are not into them, especially their culture, and then they have kids with them. USE PROTECTION!
People choose terrible guys, then they act like they've been victimized. If someone "kind of" gets into white supremacy, thats kind of like being in a gang. Women; especially young ones, make terrible mistakes. They think your great to have sex with, but not much else of meaning.
There are several people with mixed race kids; look at all the athletes; Tiger Woods, Charles Barkley, and several local newscasters have mixed kids. White society has no problem accepting them.
Half bread just means your of different races and most people are half breeds in the U.S.
Your way of thinking; that white men do this; is naive at best. Most of my friends are white and all I know is that most love latina girls for their curves. 3 are now married to latin girls and they are great friends and their kids are fantastic.
I dont think white guys care at all; I think the white guys some people are choosing do, but dont' paint all people with that brush or your just as bad as the guys you had kids with. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:17:54 PM | | I am irish and native american and my ex-husband is part korean and part mexican. Our daughter got all of our good traits and she is beautiful. :) | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 5/1/2008 11:26:33 PM | "Biracial children are beautiful"
Awww, thank you, ciaobaby71....lol. I've seen lots of multi-racial children in my years, and not only that: I happen to be biracial myself. As I said earlier in the thread, I'm part German and part Cherokee (for those of you who are Canadian, you'd call it "aboriginal"). | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 5/2/2008 9:01:27 AM | | racist simple you should have saw that.now everything is okay yea write now hes showing his picture to his marine buddys funny.you will al ways have this problemwith him.what happens if your son marrys a latino or a black women storey to conclued. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 3:02:21 AM | Holy crap, I didn't expect to come back and find pages added to this thing. I guess I got honest answers, although they weren't the ones I was looking for. I don't think there were more than a couple of caucasian men who actually came out and admitted that they would avoid having biracial children... whoever mentioned that those men would be highly unlikely to admit that fact was pretty much right.
Mostly the sort of "honesty" that I'd gotten was people telling me how stupid I was for dating the man and how it was my fault for not seeing his racism to begin with and to stop acting victimized. Thank you for your wisdom, O self-appointed internet life-gurus! Your input, as always, is as short-sighted as it is unasked for. Bravo.
That said, I feel bad for making any of you think that I was painting all white men by the same brush. The thread was, in part, an attempt to find reason to trust again in this respect. I appreciate the ones who were trying to help me change my mind without offering insult. And to all the ones who told me I was stupid, I guess that's even stronger proof that you're men who don't want to be painted by that brush... which is cool. Still, you were total assh*les.  Good night, everybody. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 4:09:25 AM | Well, I don't want any more kids of any color or description!!!!
BUT, that being said, I find that Asian/white kids tend to be very attractive people...
Maybe you shouldn't be sleeping with these ***holes before you find out they are bigots. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 4:57:37 AM | I live in South Korea, and there are thousands of Canadians and Americans over here. Many of them have Korean wives and girlfriends and some have Phillipina wives and many of them have children and think the Asian women are gorgeous and have no problem if the kid has small eyes. Most people who are from a major North American city who had educated parents don't really have a problem with that. I generally prefer to date a Caucasian female, but if I met a great Asian woman, and I slept with her and was married to her, I would be more than happy to have a child with her. A human being is a human being. You must have dealt with some white trash.
I might tend to date Caucasian women, but if a great Asian girl came along, I would not mind having children with her, marrying her... Finding a compatible mate is a challenge, and if I found one who was Asian, I would say bring it on. Most Caucasian males date Caucasian females, but usually the ones who date Asian females are very into Asian culture. It's better to date someone who shows he knows something about Asian cultures. Did the guy you date show any knowledge about Asian culture or show any major interest in various Asian cultures? If not, it's not good to date the person.
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 6:15:09 AM | I see this issue as being similar to how some people will have sex with people they would never marry. Having children with a person is a permanent commitment to them in some form and those who are closet racist (typically of the I have a black friend but would have a problem with half black grand children variety) aren't too happy with having a mixed child.
I myself am mixed (my mom is black, my dad is hispanic) and have encountered racism in various forms. Full black females calling me outside of my name, black males telling me they'd date me over a full black female (wtf??), white males telling me they thought "darkies" were promiscuous when I refused to have sex with them, etc. etc.
The merging and creating of families is typically where you see closet racism rear its head.
A person can say, "I'm not attracted which is why I don't date that race," and most will understand. This breaks apart though when you ask if they would be fine with having bi-racial grandchildren. Attraction is no longer an issue in this case.
I feel many people are racist without realizing it because they believe racism means you "hate" another race. Racism is defined as the belief that race is the primary determinant of human characteristics.
My experiences mirrored the experiences of other mixed children I met where the father had no problem with us being mixed, but one or both of the extended families did have a problem with it. My father never seems to even realize my siblings and I are mixed. *lol* When he introduces us, the person will often stop with this doe-eyed look, smile uncomfortably, shake their head then resume being normal. My dad will then get a confused look on his face, tilt his head, shrug then keep talking. To him I'm his daughter, not his half-black daughter. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 6:33:50 AM | | I'm sure that other races may find it just as repulsive if their son/daughter had a half-white baby. Ignorance isn't exclusive to one race. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 8:30:27 AM | LOL
What kind of moron claims white supremacy and then dates non-whites? This isn't really aimed at the OP but just me speaking out loud
You'll lose your Stormfront pass doing that stuff. My son is biracial and it was never a factor though I admit that I always envisioned myself having a non biracial child.
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 9:05:26 AM | If I dated a black girl, asian girl, hispanic girl, melanesian girl, or anything other than caucasian, I'd be most miffed if the children she gave me weren't biracial.
The fact is that anyone who dates someone of a different race, yet doesn't want mixed-race children has no business dating them. They know its doomed to fail, so why would they get close to someone when they know that you're just going to hurt them emotionally? I mean, aside from stupidity? | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 10:35:28 AM | | Many Asians have a hard time dating white women, because they are ashamed to tell their parents. I am sort of interested in this girl, but this Asian guy is dating her, but he can't tell his parents, so he only sees her once in a while. Basically, it goes both ways. Many white girls were dumped where I live, because in the end he couldn't bring a white girl home to mom. There are plenty of exceptions, but small-minded exists everywhere in the world, believe me. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 3:37:14 PM |
...small-minded exists everywhere in the world... Very true.
Japanese are tend to be very ethnocentric, or so I hear. Other Asian cultures are nearly as bad.
From a genetic perspective, I believe people of mixed race have certain advantages.
From an aesthetic perspective, mixed-race people tend to be very attractive.
Things are often different from a cultural perspective.
lypiphera,
I think the answer to your question is that a man would not want to have a child that was disadvantaged. If a Japanese person of high cultural status were to have a mixed-race child, that child would have great challenges and have many doors closed to him in Japan. The "dishonor" would also reflect on the parents, making their lives more difficult.
To a lessor extent, we have the same cultural problems here in the US.
Personally, if I were in a position to have a family with you, I would not have a problem with that at all. I bet your kid(s) are beautiful. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 3:41:25 PM | LMAO
I'm sorry, but I had to laugh. After I read the first few sentences, I came across the key to your rant, "USMC."
Men in the military are ***holes. They are trained killers. They are taught to ignore their humanistic instincts and to kill without emotion or feeling. Now, ask me how such a person can be a racist and your answer is already provided to you. During wartime, it is common among men in the military and through military leaders to make the enemy out to be less of a human being . . . it's easier to kill them that way. If you don't believe me, look at the old war propoganda videos that make the "Japs" out to be rat-like people hell bent on destroying all Americans (perish the thought!). I can guarantee you that no one in the military stands up to his colleague when they refer to the people they are mercilessly slaughtering in the mideast as "sand s." The answer to all your troubles is in the "USMC" part of your rant.
Ladies, pay attention to the statistics when they say that military men are 3-5 times more likely to beat their spouses than other men. They are also much more likely to cheat, etc. Save yourself some time and heartache and avoid military guys like the plague. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 8:46:33 PM | Yo: white male here, giving honest answers.
Having a child, my own or anyone else's, which was bi- or tri-racial, I wouldn't call it a big deal. So what. We're all humans. I'd say the same thing if my Chinese wife gave birth to a half-Chinese-half-African baby. I'd be proud that she turns other men on, too. It's always nice to have a good-looking, attractive wife, who is liked and loved by everyone.
But if my wife gave birth to, say, a half-porcupine-half-praying mantisse, or of she gave birth to a half-coniferous perannial and half-pre-Cambrian slate rock, I'd call the papers and CNN. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 9:03:28 PM | | You should love the person, not the color or race. A man who wants to be with you and not have interracial children does not truly want to be with YOU. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 9:38:47 PM | OP, sounds like you live in Texas or something.
If the guy doesn't let you meet his family, don't have sex with him.
And that is true for girls and boys of any race, because there are people out there who look down on whites and blacks too.
In Toronto Canada, for example, Chinese parents often disown their children if they live with non-Chinese. Italian parents get very upset if their kids don't marry kids descended from another family from the same village in Italy.
In India the Hindus have this 3,000 year-old caste system, where you are shunned by society if you marry outside your caste. It is falling out of favor amongst modern young people, but they did follow it for 3,000 years.
Up until 5 years ago, you could be fourth generation Korean born in Japan and still not be Japanese, and still not be able to work for the Japanese civil service.
I venture to say racism is very common in old cultures that haven't moved forward
If the guy doesn't let you meet his family, don't have sex with him. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 9:40:03 PM | I would have absolutely NO PROBLEM having biracial kids. Shit, i can't even think of a reason this would be an issue for people. He's already WITH someone of another race, why would he be offended by having a mixed race child?
Isn't it also true that mixed race children have a lower incidence of birth-deformities/malignancies? Since the 'gene pools' are further away from each other, in a manner of speaking. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 9:51:29 PM | I'm 53 and truthfully I'm not planning to have children now with any one of any race.
When I was younger though, and living in Toronto, this was a issue.
The thing is, mating is very visual. Humans, like other animals and instincts, get a lot of queues for mating visually.
Girls in Winnipeg during the early 1970s, were usually either blond or dyed their hair blond.
When I moved to Toronto it was a totally different ethnic mix. Almost no blonds. Fewer blond females than blond males, which means blond women were dying their hair other colors.
I made do with the tiny number of blonds and red heads.
It took me 5 years to finally give in and date a brunette.
And then you get body shape.
I mean, the average guy, and I've talked about this with men from other countries and other races on this many times, is very particular about the shape of woman he is willing to have children with.
In other words:
1. Just because you are the same race as the man, does not guarantee he'll have kids with you.
2. The closer you are to the kind of girl he saw and wanted during his pre-teen and teen years, the more likely you are to be what he is looking for.
So, for me it was: oval face, slender, hair down, blond or red head. After 5 years the hair color didn't matter.
There were 2 Chinese girls and one Phillipina that I tried to date that I would have had kids with. The Chinese girls parents wouldn't let them date me. It just didn't work out with the Phillipina for personality reasons. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/25/2008 10:07:42 PM | I suppose I can't really expect for people to have read much of the thread this far into it. It feels sort of awkward to reiterate, but I guess it's my fault for necroposting...
Yes, I met his family. I grew up with him, we attended the same church ever since I came here from the Phils. Racism wasn't a part of his upbringing. He was a good boy from a good family. Yes, we dated from the age of 16, got pregnant at 19. That's close to three years, and a long familiarity before then. Hence the rolling of my eyes at the comments from people assuming I naively let myself get duped by a skinhead that I didn't know very well. And no, the USMC was not the root of his racism problem. It began before he enlisted, and it seemed to play a big role in his overcoming it.
I had previously felt the need to post this thread because I knew he was a decent man, and if someone like him could make a complete 180 and become a racist, then I was afraid that any white man could. Backhanded thanks to those of you whose rudeness let me know how my logic offended you... although it was coming from a place of hurt and I don't hold that logic anymore. When it all came down to it, it seems that my ex was never really a true racist. Someone once told me that "real" racists are brought up with those ideas, but there are others who may succumb to peer pressure. They will eventually snap out of it, and it was the case here. He has apologized many times, saying that he had a crappy way of dealing with his fears of becoming a father. It's not an issue anymore.
As for our son, he's happy and loved. And being a perfect blend of myself and his father... yes, he's gorgeous. | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/27/2008 9:33:11 AM | Bi-racial is fine.
*LoL* One of the first Army assignments I was in a lady gave birth to twins. One was pasty, pasty white, and the other was like the night sky. Alas, both she and her husband were very, very white.
Oops!
In that case, bi-racial was not OK.  | |
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| If she gave you biracial children?
Posted: 7/27/2008 10:20:08 AM | | I'll admit that looks fishy, but a DNA test should still be conducted to be sure. There are such things as recessive genes. One of my black families ancestors was a white slave owner, so such a case has popped up before. My grandmother has two dark as ebony parents, but she herself was born with white skin, blonde hair and blue eyes. | |
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