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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/24/2007 11:10:58 PM | | Ok ok. I'm going to step up and call BULL SH1T on this. The whole thing is just far too hokey to be believed. Are you actually VeeDub in disguise? Are you his sister? I don't buy it and you sell it rather poorly. No offense, just saying. And if it really WAS happening, he'd have chopped you into teensy tiny pieces by now................ You're just as nutzo as he is. | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/24/2007 11:22:52 PM | Teach him a lesson.......find a way to turn the tables on him. Personally, I wouldnt
bother...the guy is obviously sick in the head but you´re not that far behind
obsessing over him....go off line for awhile and do something youd enjoy. | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/25/2007 1:51:15 AM | | Yeah role playing might be fun but you arent doing that, this guy isnt romantic, he is insecure. you need to get your brain back in your coconut and ditch this goober. And if you go to meet him and he asks you to bring a cleaver or axe, i would reccommend having mace, tazer, bazooka, etc. just in case this feller gets frisky. (dont meet him, i was kidding) | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/26/2007 9:10:07 PM | Like some others on this thread, I'm finding it a little hard to take this too serious but I'll try.
For the "computer part": If your computer is hacked like that (assuming he sent you a trojan horse or rootkit dropper) the only sensible thing to do is wipe it, and reinstall. At this point, trying to clean up the mess isn't a viable option anymore.
As for the "Relationship part": I'd say the only sensible thing is to break any and all contact. What are you thinking?! Do you want to end up in the psych ward? | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/26/2007 10:12:05 PM | yeah - the moment he hacked into your computer is the moment you should have realized he's a nutjob.
RUN - run far away - usually I think other people on POF are being harsh when they give this advice but, lets just say I hope you haven't met in person or let him into your home. | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/27/2007 2:51:13 AM |
I KNOW HE CONTROLS MY COMPUTER BECAUSE IF I GO SOMEWHERE WHERE HE IS CHALLENED BY ANOTHER MAN OR SOMETHING, HE SHUTS ME DOWN
And he didn't shut you down on this site?
This whole story does not add up.
If there's anything real to the story... then both parties need to get taken to the nearest rubber room. But, more likely its a total fabrication.
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Observing reality and it does not exist in the OP's posts. | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/27/2007 9:15:13 AM | | You need this spelled out for you? Run like Hell, this guy is a control freak and is asserting control over you. He hacked into your computer? Hello, Run Like Hell! | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/27/2007 9:24:39 AM | It's a strange world today. More complicated than many would admit to. With the creation of online dating possibilities, seeking a potential relationship has gotten a bit more perplexing. I've been on this site for a short period of time and have observed an interesting microcosm of perspectives. Many people would not look twice at a persons profile, simply based on what is written or the picture offered. And yet, in real life, who knows what would've happened if they met and had a one-on-one conversation.
I think its far too easy for men and women alike to play games on here. Now while there are some who are truthfully hoping to find someone special, there are those who use this a self-gratifying means to build the ego, with no intent of pursuing a worthwhile relationship. So it's a catch 22 to a degree.
I wish everyone the best of luck, but, like any other forum to meet people, be cautious and ask plenty of questions.
Best of luck
Michael | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/27/2007 5:18:22 PM | Creativguy- Your posts on this thread are AWESOME!!!! As usual, you rock.
OP........I don't even know where to start with you. I really don't. So I won't. I can't believe this whole thing is real, and if it is, you appear to be a far too willing participant.
My advice........
stop talking to him.
take your computer outside and burn it
Disinfect the desk where it was sitting
Move to another state
Change your name
Get a sex change operation
Change your name again
move again
buy a new computer
then I think you should be safe. If not, repeat all of the above steps.
Multiple times | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/29/2007 7:12:22 PM | Hey there;
I read through most of the commentary regarding your issue. I have to agree with some of the comments where there were suggestions that you look within yourself for resolve on this issue.
For some reason you "need" this dramatic/and very unconventional relationship to feed off of.
There are 2 excercises that come to mind.... 1st is that you pretend you are hearing this drama from your best friend - how would it sound to you if you were not in the midst of the situation.
The 2nd is that you ask yourself two questions - am I am in love with the way things are or with they way things could be? My guess is that you will have more answers listed under the second question.
I wish you lots of luck. I am sure you will figure this out.. the good thing is that you are reaching out... you just need to "hear" the things that have been said to you...
Ciao. | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/29/2007 7:49:46 PM | | it is amazing how women will screw with a weirdo and wonder...why is he weird...you know what, you should marry him...jesus! | |
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| Am I being played as a fool?
Posted: 1/29/2007 8:36:10 PM | I'm not a man, but this individual sounds like a full on freak to me.
Toss your computer in the trash and get a new identity quick before he drains your bank account! | |
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