| We've all read nice guy threads - what about nice women?
Posted: 1/27/2007 12:18:50 PM | The bars are full of women willing to take advantage, here its a matter of being expected to accept someone or be accepted on the basis of what they say in some cases without being allowed to see what someone looks like (yes looks do matter for most, accept it or not), and you can't even flirt at work these days without fear of being slapped with a sexual harrassment complaint.
All this argument back and forth about whats nice and how you spot it is kind of pointless. It all just seems to come down to being in the right place at the right time for an awful lot of people. | |
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| We've all read nice guy threads - what about nice women?
Posted: 1/27/2007 1:15:40 PM | | I sit back and watch two people in a relationship and wonder why so many guys choose to be with women who treat them like crap. Nice guys don't like nice women, mostly because they go for looks first. He would rather be with a supermodel who looks good on his arm than someone who will be nice to him. It is a visual society, with women and men, but there are more shallow men than shallow women. Guys who don't have anything going for them with their looks, can be shallow sex freaks too - sometimes they are worse. | |
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| We've all read nice guy threads - what about nice women?
Posted: 1/27/2007 3:16:03 PM | I didn't start this thread to veer into potential male bashing.
I was just honestly curious at the lack of "nice women" threads compared to the abundance of the "nice guy" threads.
Though so far, I am re-considering my use of the words nice as it seems to have lost some of it's meaning or become more of a "damned with faint praise" term.
Perhaps I shouldn't want people to think I am "nice" - perhaps I should be more concerned with them noticing my myriad of wonderful qualities (and maybe the "nice guys" should too).
*shrug* | |
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| We've all read nice guy threads - what about nice women?
Posted: 1/27/2007 5:49:27 PM | I sit back and watch two people in a relationship and wonder why so many guys choose to be with women who treat them like crap. Nice guys don't like nice women, mostly because they go for looks first. He would rather be with a supermodel who looks good on his arm than someone who will be nice to him. It is a visual society, with women and men, but there are more shallow men than shallow women. Guys who don't have anything going for them with their looks, can be shallow sex freaks too - sometimes they are worse.
to quote looking4honesty1
well I have been officially offended along with countless others who did nothing to deserve it, maybe time to end this thread and start another so we have a new chance to screw up
I need a break from threads for a bit anyway | |
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| We've all read nice guy threads - what about nice women?
Posted: 1/27/2007 11:38:48 PM | SC I wasn't slamming your thread just our poor judgment on what we post in general. The thread usually starts fine and somewhere along the line we mess up.
I was thinking about the Ontario forums and it seems to me the ones that use it the most are most likely the nicer ones that were hurt by a bad partner. This is an assumption on my part but the intimate encounters and players I don't think use the forums, they keep to themselves so as not to be exposed.
So here are a bunch of nice people that end up venting on the wrong targets, I've seen that and know it's true enough. I don't know if my theory on forum user majority are the nice people is right or wrong, you can all think on that one and form your own conclusion.I think it makes some sense since the majority of the posts are from a small percentage of the members and mostly regulars . This said we should be the good people but seem to have found a way to beat ourselves up without help from the bad people.
Should we not all be leading by example so we don't become like the ones we complain about? Please note I included myself since I have been guilty as well.
Food for thought at least, might be fast food junk or brain food I'm not sure you can all carve it up chew it and spit it out then decide. | |
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| We've all read nice guy threads - what about nice women?
Posted: 1/27/2007 11:44:15 PM |
Nice guys don't like nice women, mostly because they go for looks first. He would rather be with a supermodel who looks good on his arm than someone who will be nice to him. It is a visual society, with women and men, but there are more shallow men than shallow women. Guys who don't have anything going for them with their looks, can be shallow sex freaks too - sometimes they are worse.
@looking...what are you talking about nice guys don't like nice women and that they mostly go for looks first. i'm sorry, you're very much mistaken there. not all men look for barbie dolls or supermodels...there are many guys out there that look beyond the outter appearance of a woman to their inner beauty, to their hearts to find out what kind of a woman she really is, just as the women also look through the brawn of a man...the 6 pack abs that some women dream of but in reality they're dreaming about the man that doesn't have the prefect "v" shape body and the 6 pack abs...what the woman sees in front of her physically may be a man that has a few extra pounds on him and isn't perfect but what she mentally sees is the heart inside of the imperfect body. as for men and women being shallow, sure you might find them from time to time but that does not mean that every man that you try to contact or even contacted personally is shallow nor does it mean that women are shallow either. as for men not having anything going for them that also does not mean that they can be shallow freaks in the bed as well.
the sexual appetite of every man and women differ from each other and does not mean that their shallow.....they just have their own sexual preferences. as for nice men and nice women, they're all over the place....it's not what's on the outside that counts but in fact it's the inside that really counts. it's the beauty within each individual, it's the individual's heart and soul and the spirit within that makes us who and what we are. the only people that aren't so nice (men and women) are those serving a crime for something that they've done, but then again, some of them may be nice as well.........remember, it's the mind, soul, and spirit of the person that determines whether or not we're nice, not the physical appearance. | |
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