| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/12/2005 1:53:49 PM | If scars are a deal breaker then I'm in BIG trouble. I dare you to find any two square inches of my body that doesn't have a scar on it somewhere. Yes even there. And there too! Hey wait a minute that could be a lot of fun. Find the scar and I'll tell you a story about it!  | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/12/2005 1:55:13 PM | your welcome sweety, now hit that caps key one more time so ya dont seem to be yellin at the ones who love ya....... ....
btw....i have been divorced for 10 years and only accepted a couple of dates in the last few.......once ya get over bein nervous...........hahahha, listen to me, i m still nervous on a date..........anyway....do somethin ya enjoy on a date and it helps the nerves..........and dont worry about the scars....grab some markers and name em as places ya want him to visit..........kinda like an international smorgasbord..............
hint: dont ask me how i know this, but the permanent sharpie markers are not good for this..................especially during beach weather......... | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/12/2005 3:15:53 PM | Remind me never to pass out on the beach near ladydi! When I was a Junior in High School I passsed out at a party. When I woke up a girlfriend to be had created a Masterpiece ALL over me.
I have some serious scars inside and out. Is it a problem for attraction? Sometimes. Affection or Love? Absolutely Not friends! : | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/12/2005 4:15:06 PM | Personally speaking , if the scar bothers a man, then he is probably not looking at your inner beauty, and is strictly looking for the outer appearance in a woman. Scars are not anything to feel ashamed about nor should they ever be a cause for concern to you.  | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/12/2005 4:18:39 PM | | Blue, I don't have a problem with such things. I have a few scars too. But many by far are inside. It is how scarred and the effect of internal scarring that can make us men or beasts. Personally, I am the Good, the Bad and the Ugly. I seek no more encounters. Your outer scars are only the tip of the iceberg. | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/12/2005 5:53:56 PM | | lets see. scars. if you are into people like i am, then look at it like this. every scar tells a story about that persons life, and im all about getting to know people. now, about what people think and say about scars, they cant help they are ignorant on life. they are the ones that walk around with their eys shut and their minds closed. I'll admit , i do look at the appearance of a woman, but not to find flaws, but to find something to compliment them on. listen, scars is a charcteristic of that person. accept it and be non judgemental. people can be rude at times. dont let what they say or do annoy you. if you got it, flaunt it. I hope this makes sence. | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/13/2005 1:46:26 PM | hey reachin out and bein friends where i come from means ya tell it like it is.........with love......and blue tears....ya learn as ya go...................good to see ya and i hope yer gettin alot outta this thread cuz even tho i play alot...i have read some great stuff from everbody on here.................. | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/13/2005 6:09:50 PM | | yep, there has been some really good advice and great stories. makes ya feel that you're not in that boat alone. | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/13/2005 7:01:52 PM | By now I'm sure you've got the idea... Just adding my vote for the "scars not bad" column. Scars may be a turnoff for some, but speaking for myself only, I think the following characteristics contribute to female physical beauty the most:(sorry if this is unwelcome)
shape/curves (doesn't have to be the "hourglass" figure though)
expression (glint in the eye / smiling or pouting mouth, etc...)
naturalness (makeup, more than one or two items of jewelry, implants, are all turnoffs...)
stature and how she moves/behaves in general?
Of course, intellect is more important... (but that is off topic) | |
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| can you get email that was intended for someone else?
Posted: 4/26/2005 4:30:14 PM | Do you mean in general or on this site in particular?
The answer to both would be "theoretically" I guess.
But practically, regular email that uses SMTP, IMAP, and POP is relatively insecure and can be hacked if somebody knows what they are doing (sniffing traffic for username and password for example - after all, an email transaction is essentially just a telnet session). On this site, the messaging/email system probably doesn't even use those protocols (more likely to be SQL based?!? <-- wild guess there) so it would probably be more difficult to do. It would still be possible though. This is all in my humble and relatively uneducated opinion as well...  | |
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| can you get email that was intended for someone else?
Posted: 4/26/2005 4:35:19 PM | | as i have mention on other threads..i have a lot of scars for someone so young...that damn sun! the one disadvantage of being a real blonde....skin cancer isn't pleasant....it used to bother me to even undress in front of a man for fear of what he would say or ask..but now..i have noticed over the years that men don't see that sort of stuff..whats that country song? Chicks Dig it? well apparantly Men Dig it too....it shows you are strong....it shows that you are human and not the cliche air brushed model that NO ONE is..not even what we see in the magazines are real ...the amount of makeup that those people have to put all over their bodies before a shoot would make Max Factor blush! so no worries..if a man is for you..then he is for you no matter what you look like on the outside..its the heart that matters! | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/26/2005 4:43:17 PM | bluetears
I think most of us have scares and even inside. If I am attracted to someone and we hit it off and if I saw the scare, I would not break up because of it. Hell I have a scare the length of my leg, maybe I should show it on here.
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 4/26/2005 6:29:01 PM | Just my two cents....from having gone through surgery and bearing my own physical scars...
I say bear your scars proudly, hold no shame.
They are the sign you survived, healed and came through something important.
Be proud of everything about yourself. :) | |
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Posted: 5/15/2006 8:43:36 AM | Scarf are awsome ^^ i saw a girl once that add on that was passing trought her eye. I know it sound od but it was sooo freeking hot. i almost went blank just seing her comming the restorant (( i went for a snack whit some friends )) and the best was she actualy turned toward me to ask me a question. i was literly frozen. like you know whne your in paradise and youdont wana come down on eart. Unfortunely my friend ruin the moment by brweaking in and telling her what she needed to know (( the **stard ****ed my shot. ))
Well like i said ^^ scars are AWSOME. it give that bad girl attitude that some guys love seing on a women. For me ;) the one that go straight across the eye was to good to be true T_T to bad i never saw her again  | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 5/15/2006 8:56:57 AM | Sometimes scars serve as roadmaps to the good parts!
Show me a person who has never known pain and I'll show you a person who doesn't appreciate pleasure | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 5/15/2006 9:00:17 AM | | I'm sorry, I got as far as the bellybutton post and had to chime in; not trying to be mean or disrespectful, I just thought about this from when my kids were little...my brother told them if their bellybutton came unscrewed their butt would fall off...at least you don't have to worry aobut that! honestly, even though the OP is gone, scars are alla bout character; all mine have a story, I'm sure yours do too.... | |
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Posted: 5/15/2006 9:04:43 AM | | Scars are superficial and I am not. They would not concern me. I've gone after women with tatoos before and a tatoo is just a scar that someone made on themselves on purpose. At least you have a valid medical reason to have your scars. I see nothing wrong with it. I say post your pic, cause eventually, you'll have to tell someone about your scars, anyway. Best to be upfront about it and not waste your time on guys that won't accept you as you are in the long run. | |
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Posted: 5/15/2006 9:51:40 AM | hmm well I have this cool scar from that knife fight in Fresno nooo wait that is my gallblader scar... well I have that big scar on my butt from when they lasered off the property of Fathead tattoo.
Who cares ?....when you get to be my age your gonna have scars damn I have scars above all my knuckles oh ya thats the time I stuck my hand in the fan. | |
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| HOW DO MEN FEEL ABOUT SCARS?
Posted: 6/4/2006 12:18:27 PM | I have five, long, surgical, hypertrophic scars on my abdomen that go around my navel down all the way to my pubic bone. They ends of which are covered by even my smallest bikini. I used to to be so embarrassed by them that I would not undress in front of a male or where my bikini in public. I have not bin with many partners, but men tell me they show character! They say that they make me very interesting because they do not see where they end, and they want to know. I do get asked. I get attention because of them. Men seem to like them so much they wil fill them, kiss them, lick them. It always embarrasses me and yet it makes it better for both of us. They do tell me they really like them, which has made me accept them somewhat. I know say that if they do not like them they are shallow. Hope this helps.
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I was hoping someone would say something. I was about to go look for a thread on the subject to vent on. 
