| Okay, the jerk is apparently this guy:
Posted: 1/30/2007 4:41:27 AM | | Yes to the question have you met for pre arranged sex and she it was fantastic and an encore would be most suitable.....lol | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 1/30/2007 6:21:29 AM | For me I usually know the people first before just meeting and having sex. It is a safer way also if they are a friend then you most likely know them. I wouldn't meet up with someone for sex and not know what they look like or at least met with them before to see if the pic matches the person. And if they did not look like thier pic I would bail, after yelling at them for wasting my time. He knows what I look like, he better not mess with his pic. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 1/30/2007 8:12:07 AM | yes and yes...
I met up with someone who was not quite as advertised and as we were talking she was more interested in a relationship where she did not have to be faithful than a simple hook up.
I bailed, politely and lost her number...
It happens, sometimes we do not know what or who we want but we want to be wanted and that brings some confussion...so what do you do?
you bail and hang out with your friends instead! | |
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remo54
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Joined: 1/26/2007
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remo54
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Joined: 1/26/2007
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 1/30/2007 9:34:51 AM | | o yeah ,I met a lady from the people store one time for sex and she looked like big foot ,so I bought her a tripple cheese burger and bailed.lol... | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 1/30/2007 9:43:52 AM | | Yeppers, I've done that a couple times. I have a few chat buddies from here. If a lady and I are attracted to each other but are looking for different things, we become chat buddies. I've had a lady or two that was looking for "long term" and while I wasn't, we ended up chat buddies. Then one day when we're chatting she'd ask me if I wanted to meet up for sex. We had chatted for awhile. Nothing sexual in it, just friendly chat. It was explained to me like this. We had been chatting for months. I was respectful and funny. We got along great. Just looking for different things. Finding the "one" it seems is hard to do. So she hasn't had sex in awhile cus of that. She horny but refuses to just have sex with some random guy from here or from a bar. She liked me and felt a bond of trust. The first time this happened it floored me, didn't expect it at all. We meet, we had some pretty damn good sex. Then we went to being freinds. It amazing what can happen when two people have respect for each other. It's not the same with the woman I'm with now, not nearly as deep but was great for what it was. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 1/30/2007 8:47:26 PM | | Yes, I have done it before too.... When two adults can openly discuss Sex and the precautions for it ... why not?... I'm Single Adult, I am not cheating on anyone... so what is the problem.... we all have needs and we all want to have fun, I guess I just loved the anticipation of not knowing........ I don't know if It will happen again, But I must admit.. I have had some wonderful surprises come at night.....To eachs own.................... | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 1/30/2007 8:55:24 PM | ya i did a few times:)it was great:)no ties................................just some fun with friends:)
are you interested angel,lol:) | |
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| Now I guess it is my turn..........
Posted: 1/30/2007 10:21:19 PM | | Been there, done that........never had a bad experience......thank God-okay........Knockin on some serious wood here. No I don't do it often, but I have done it, and at this point in my life it seems the most logical choice. I do know some people who have had completely horrifying experiences. You know though, the worst date ever in my life was with someone who I did know, we were on a bowling league together, and we were the only singles, and the league was to go on a cruise......so this nice Christian guy decides that since we are gonna be rooming together, we should get to know each other as 'friends'. So we go to Universal Studios, and he is trying to grab my hand and kiss me the whole time, this guy is repulsive, okay. I literally had to keep pushing him off of me, I even slapped him at one point. The 'date' only got worse from there, as he took the long way home and still wouldn't leave me alone, and then even tried to kiss me goodbye. What planet was this freak on? He gave me a card the next day saying that it was the best date ever in his whole life. Needless to say I had to quit the league and change my phone #. The point, and yes hallejulah, there is a point here is that you can know somebody and not know them. The guys who I have met up just for sex have been ones that I got to know on-line first, and it just progressed. I am still 'good friends' with them too. | |
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| Thank You for that story
Posted: 1/31/2007 4:58:02 AM | | I was finding that agreeing to meet for a coffee , ment agreeing to have sex to some men. I have had this happen to the point that i had to lay charges. this guy was somsething else or u ahve them come to ur house to pick u up after talking for a few months and they bring sex toys and automatically ask where the bedroom was cause before they paid for dinner they wanted to try out the goods .. lol on my profile it says not looking for just sex go figure not sure where they think it means come over i will drop my pants for u | |
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Posted: 2/1/2007 2:49:13 AM | Yes, but sort of.
If by talking on the net, and meeting up nail each other.. not really. Not sex with a stranger, with someone I know but that's different I suppose.
One time I did see this girl in a store, she was a friend of a friend and we made eye contact, while we circled each other.. it was wierd, like we both knew that I'd be plowing her. Never before had I felt such an intense, arousing feeling fully clothed!
So... I thought I had just put her in my spank bank, and went on to party later that night. Well, turns out that she was at this party and, sure enough we tucked out down the hall back to my place to smoke (as I used to back then) and .. yeah.
heh, so if that was what you meant then yes.. if not then, enjoy the story? ;)
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| Meeting for consential sex can be incredibly fun
Posted: 2/1/2007 3:11:43 AM | I have done this many times. There is no games going in, both people know what they want so both can spend their energies on making the experience a memorable one. Obviously care must be taken but the rewards can be fantastic. There are so many erotic women in Calgary and I hope to meet many more. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/9/2007 11:01:47 PM |
Never have, never would...although I get a kick out of reading the "casual encounters" section on Craig's list! It's SOOOOO funny to read people's desperate attempts at getting laid! I've seen more genitals on there than a free porn site! Hahaha!
Hahahaha, me too! You have to wonder what some of the people who post there are thinking - and if people really respond to some of those! | |
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Posted: 3/10/2007 9:08:32 AM | "johnnynoname" should be ashamed !!!
HE SAID , "years ago i met a girl online ...... her picture was about 75 lbs. ago. needless to say i wasn't going to go through it. ........... i told her to wait outside of her car. i told her i was in a black tahoe and i was really in a white civic. so i was able to drive by, check out the goods and keep going. she should have been ashamed".......
what a KindCaringHumanitarian***hole....ENOUGH SAID........ | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 9:22:02 AM | ^^^^Oh come on you lot, the guy was honest! If you are just meeting for sex then you have to be upfront and straight, and that means about yourself as well as your intentions. She wasn't. I don't condone what he did, but at the same time, can't really understand why a girl would think that by showing an out of date pic she's gonna win some one over. Lets be straight, meeting up just for sex isn't exactly the most caring sharing thing in the world is it, she knew what she was letting herself in for. If you make a bargain then both sides should keep the agreement. why flame the guy who didn't when the other party didn't either.
Oh yeah ... and for all he knows it was her heavier sister who was checking HIM out first!! ha ha | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 9:40:03 AM | Question, when all of you came to this site, what were you looking for? Please be honest to yourself. Friendship? Relationship? Hanging out? Two things I will say I give openly and freely with no regrets: respect, and honesty. That being said, I have met women online and in real life and some became really good friends, others went much deeper and one or two became like family to me. There is always feelings involved in every so called encounter, what you do with those feelings with respect to the other is what's important. Respect and honesty is all I ask for, everything else we take it one moment at a time.  | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 10:14:14 AM | I have. Of course I made sure that it was known that either of use could back out at anytime. If your not comfortable with a person and the 'sparks' aren't there at that first meeting then there sure as heck should not be a forced sexual encounter of any kind.
That said =
I've has some of the most amazing sexual experiences of my life with people I've met. (heh, obviously) | |
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Posted: 3/10/2007 10:31:17 AM | I wouldn't want them to be a COMPLETE stranger.... there are a lot of psychos in the world. At least one or two dates is necessary... I don't want to end up in someone's freezer. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2007 10:34:11 AM | sure i have! tho my profile says 'dating', anybody who reads my posts or takes the time to chat with me for 5 minutes will be under no false illusions about my attitudes regarding casual sex. i'm comfortable with 'intimate encounters' provided both individuals are being honest about their expectations...no players or manipulative lines thanks! on the other hand, i won't actively list myself as seeking an intimate encounter (tho i seem to have more flings & fwb, than i do dates). as i told a friend recently, doing so would be like putting a fresh piece of meat in a den of hyenas! *lol*
as for the OP's question. i've had good experiences and bad. if a guy misrepresented himself or is an a** why the h*ll would i want to f*ck him? there've been a few guys who've been turned down for just that reason.
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Posted: 3/10/2007 10:48:18 AM | years ago i met a girl online and we agreed to hook up for sex. i asked her what the quickest she had ever hooked up w/ someone after meeting him. she said it was like 10 hours. i said we should try for 10 minutes. she agreed. i drove an hour to pick up this girl and found that her picture was about 75 lbs. ago. needless to say i wasn't going to go through it. fortunately, i had learned from a previous bad experience. i told her to wait outside of her car. i told her i was in a black tahoe and i was really in a white civic. so i was able to drive by, check out the goods and keep going. she should have been ashamed
Johnnynoname (message #10) , I don't condone what she did - I'm a big gal myself and am honest about it - if a guy has a problem with it, it's HIS loss, not mine - BUT what you did was just as bad. You are no better for lying about what car you'd be driving and not stopping and at least telling her that you were no longer interested. | |
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