| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 3:04:11 PM | Does thinking about it a lot almost count??? LOL The longer I stay single, the more appealing it sounds! | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 3:09:15 PM |
Has anyone ever met someone with the pre-conceived notion that sex was the ultimate outcome of the meeting and when you met either they weren't what you thought, or vice-versa you weren't what they were lookin' for? If so did either of you bail.
well........when it comes to sex I have never had anyone "bail" on Me,I'm just to dam sexy for that!!!......... if two people are attracted sex is bound to happen sooner or later. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 7:53:44 PM | | I haven't yet here but wouldn't be repulsed by the idea if I knew the person for a bit. Can't imagine a "Hi, wanna F*ck" kinda email or how I'd respond to it though. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 8:23:09 PM | I met a guy online and our first conversation turned immediately to sex! we were both attracted to each other instantly. I have never ever done that before, but this time it worked.
I was curious to see if our attraction would be the same in person....and it was!He came to town a few days later and we hooked up...then he went back to his city. We live far away from each other so none of us was expecting a relationship....just fun!
Hasn't happened since, though. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 8:49:47 PM | Go back and res what he said. Gaining a lot of weight is a deal breaker worse to put a pic that is a lie. I am a homily man but i put myself out as being who I really am. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 8:53:03 PM | | i travelled all the way to montreal... she wasnt what I expected.... but hey.. i stayed.. and Im glad i did... | |
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| Okay, the jerk is apparently this guy:
Posted: 3/10/2007 9:03:12 PM | I think u r over reacting on this girl having a pic on that is 75 lbs lighter. I just want you to know that I have a pic of me on site that totay does not ook like me. with out the make up I look much different. And take for example you your pics are showing mostly breast shots of you. When I look close at some pics it looks like your breast are firm and actually belong up there. But, look closer and yu can tellyour breast are saggy. If a man were to take your bra off and found that your brest are really not firm and sag almost to your knees and dicides he doesn't want to touch the flabb how would you feel. Probably like the girl that had the pic up that made her look 75lbs lighter. So, common give the girl a break. And as for the man that did that too he I saw you could only attract someone like angloffurdreamz so don't complaine about someone haveing a few extra pounds you don't look that small yourself
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Gail | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/10/2007 9:14:30 PM | I must confess that I hooked up w/ a woman in San Antonio via another adult personals website during my divorce, and I have no regrets for that 'liberating' experience, even if she was a few pounds heavier than her description. Besides learning that there are women who know what they want ...and know how to get it w/o too much advance deception, I learned for the "Pittsburgh Broil".
Whenever I go out for dinner and am in the mood for steak, I'll order what I was turned onto by my San Antonio trysts for liking it well-done and even burnt on the outside, but still pink and rare on the inside. Hmm. Not too unlike her nor myself for nastier-than-needed divorces, even if I was already convinced by then that my own was necessary for my long-term sanity. As my friend in Fort Worth responded previously for this post, there's not much difference 'tween prowling for sex at a bar and agreeing to meet someone for it via the Internet. I still consider it 'just dessert' on top of a few enjoyable encounters w/ a person that I still consider as friend in need ...who answered my own then as well. In hindsight, I wasn't ready then to move on ...or in w/ her, but we seemed to respect one another's human nature, and hers 'in the sack' was enough to assure me that moving on beyond her also was in my own best interests. | |
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| Now I guess it is my turn..........
Posted: 3/10/2007 9:30:22 PM | | Sure I have! Hasn't everybody? I didn't even realize it was unusual. Thought it was just part of being on an online dating site. And, yes, I throughly enjoyed it & would do it again. | |
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| Now I guess it is my turn..........
Posted: 3/10/2007 11:06:35 PM | nope I haven't.
Basically it would be weird for me to call some stranger and be like,
"yeah let's have the sex"
"ok!"
"cya later bye"
I mean I guess whatever floats your boat :) | |
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| Now I guess it is my turn..........
Posted: 3/11/2007 5:13:34 AM | | I did meet a guy on here. His pic showed a well-dressed clean-cut good-looking guy. When he showed up at my place, he was wearing track pants, a ball cap over his unruly long hair and had about 2-3 weeks growth on his face. BUT, since we connected so well on the phone - I felt I knew him already and didn't turn him away. He turned out to be one of the best lovers I've had in a really, really long time. We broke my bed frame. And yes, I saw and am seeing him again. Don't let appearance fool ya. Now, if we were meeting in public, I probably would've ran - but since it was casual, if he had showed up in his PJ's it wouldn't have made a difference. It's just for sex, right? | |
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| Okay, the jerk is apparently this guy:
Posted: 3/11/2007 6:05:44 AM | I think the jerk is the one who sets out to be something they are not but this could come from a genuine lack of self esteem. I was recently in Canada and met a POF lady who was terrific and if I had been able to stay in the country and not have to return to OZ then I could see myself developing a relationship that could last and we were perhaps both not what we hoped in the first instance but she could suck a golf ball through a garden hose, magnificent and I am just waiting for a long term working visa to come through to return so yes it can happen and it was GREAT and I for one was grateful for the love and her open and giving nature, wonderful girl who I hope is very happy.
PS.......... why is it that very few people on POF proof read their mail or can spell, it's so annoying on these FORUMS to have to try to work out what people are trying to say | |
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| Okay, the jerk is apparently this guy:
Posted: 3/11/2007 6:40:37 AM |
PS.......... why is it that very few people on POF proof read their mail or can spell, it's so annoying on these FORUMS to have to try to work out what people are trying to say
^^^ bit rich isn't it? Ever thought about using punctuation?? ha ha
OT
Couldn't imagine agreeing to sex without even meeting them once - surely its about chemistry and you can never tell that in an email. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 7:52:42 AM |
There is a lot of maturity involved... I agree with Honeydew64 (msg 21) There is a lot of maturity involved... and to add (to what he well said) not old enough to say 'yes' if you can't also handle saying 'no'. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 8:31:38 AM | | No way--not my style......Plus,what if you didnt like the look of each other.....could be very awkward....but,whatever floats your boat.....!! :) | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 11:23:59 AM | | I stopped meeting for a while because I knew that the only reason most of the guys wanted to hang out with me was to have sex, and I didn't want to go down that road again. Sometimes I was stupid and met up with a few and it ended up in sex, and no further convesation after that. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 3:22:34 PM | | No, this has never happened to me, bc I actually meet someone before and determine right then and there, whether I want to sleep with them the next time I see them. I just don't do the " blind date " thing for the sole purpose of sex ( is this what you are talking about ? ). I just don't like to put myself in uncomfortable situations where the person you are meeting is so unattractive in real life and you would have to bail. | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 3:27:53 AM | | oh yeah i`ve met a few women just for sex,and didn`t bail,and still seeing some.just for sex.and its sooo good,looking for another **** buddy.any takers? | |
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| meeting just for agreed upon sex
Posted: 3/26/2007 3:25:30 PM | | The girls I know only meet with me if I agree NOT to have sex with them. Gee, the nerve of some people!!! :) | |
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| Thank You for that story
Posted: 5/5/2007 11:07:22 AM | | Thatz hysterical..love the pork chop comment. I know many are out there misrepresenting themselves. Please People...Letz KEEP IT REAL!!!!! | |
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