| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 2/1/2007 3:05:01 PM | True enough JMTJ..I've had plenty of bad expieriances.. But honestly I don't have a negative attitude going into a new dating expieriance...But... Putting myself out there and opening up my trust completely would be crazy..SORT of set myself up for some to use my trust against me..I think watching, waiting and seeing how the person is really helps that trust thing come out...a bit at a time.. Geez I'm trusting someone just by going out with him.. Hoping he won't just leave me there with no ride home and trusting him to be a gentleman and not be a serial rapest or a stalker....As far as trusting him completely..Sorry buddy he has to earn that..I've had enough bad expieriances here at POF to know,..TRUST AND RESPECT are definately something that is earned..Too many crazies and losers out there IF e1 here was a great person with no hidden agendas and could be a normal nice guy.. Giving my trust wouldn't be so hard.. And Trust comes hand in hand with Respect...JMTJ....Maybe you could give lesson to the many losers here how to treat a woman on a date..Since your such a trusting guy..Maybe they will take your lessons well That's just how I see it and that's just my opinion... Anyone care to agree or agree to disagree???
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 2/1/2007 5:24:35 PM | I would have to say MEN are Shallow and Cold Hearted,,Its just in there nature to be that way.  Im not being mean, im just saying the truth, NO i havent been burned lol | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 2/1/2007 7:38:39 PM | | No,we're transplanted aliens,screwing up the planet so our inter-galatic enemies will leave us alone. Just stick to the deeper waters when "fishing".Men can be shallow and cold-hearted sometimes,just like women sometimes go through that monthly natural "cycle" too. Go "fishing",might start a fire. | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 2/2/2007 11:44:51 PM | | Categories are for Jeopardy. There are many brands of apples,Golden,Delicious,Spartan,Crab ,Rotten,Split."Life is like a sack of apples". Picking Apples is like Dating.Sometimes they get all mushed or just mushy. Sometimes they find thier way into Crates and boxes.They also float and/or are known to sink sometimes too. | |
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Just A
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Joined: 1/14/2007
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 2/4/2007 12:37:01 PM | It all depends in your point of view. I don't think there should be a difference in gender because really it just a judgement. You are who you think you are and everyone is different you can act in anyway you want ,but you can only be who you are. | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 3/1/2007 3:53:23 PM | ok here is my 2 cents on this.
both sexes are cold hearted and shallow. plan and simpler. nothing more to say
shallow..... if you are not what im looking for and i have no interest in you although you think i should than to you i appear shallow
if i dont open my self,life and world to yo than i seem withdrawn and cold hearted.
people are different on a person to person basis.
i have no bias i hate everyone equally. if your a good person ill like ya if your a pushey, closeminded, judgemental person i definatley will not.
internet dateing is set up as to allow us to limit who can contact us and who we contact.
besides you have to consider the medium. so easy to lie on here and misconstrude the truth as alot do. so if you meet someone from here and ya spot lies on the first hour pack up and leave. what happens in our lives is our responsibilities and no one elses.
ok that was more like a quarter lol | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 3/1/2007 10:00:41 PM | Sorry Mizz but this is the way I see things on this planet. There is good and bad everywhere. Some guys are good and some are bad. Women are no different. And that is first hand experience. I gave up on the bad ones long ago and began to reach way higher. No difference there. Discouraging? Friggin betcha. So we look and we look. And we look some more and some more and some more. Are we happy yet? no.
All men are the same? All apples are red too then.
Personally I don't do bars or go with girls who do. Nor do I meet in bars.
Wanna hear what I have seen women do/say in bars. How about the fights caused?
Are we still here? But really I do NOT do bars myself. The best ones are harder to catch and are not found in bars especially. | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 3/4/2007 3:49:21 PM | ==hazel69:would have to say MEN are Shallow and Cold Hearted,,Its just in there nature to be that way. Im not being mean, im just saying the truth==
Are you serious Hazel? I think both sexes share this award.
Want to see shallow and pure cold-hearteness in women. Ask a woman to date a short guy and the true shallowness comes out. The response these guys get range from "I don't date shorties" or "short guys". Imagine a guy responding by saying "I don't date fatties or fat girls."
So let's test your shallowness Hazel. Have you or would you consider dating a guy shorter than yourself? | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 3/4/2007 4:13:24 PM | Well we cant be cold hearted as apparently we dont have a heart to begin with. As for being shallow both sexes are as bad as each other as other posters have said.
From reading umpteen forums all over the country I sometimes wonder WHY we even put profiles on a dating site. Its a tool to POSSIBLY meet that other if you want a guarantee then go to Best Buy and purchase a DVD player. | |
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Joined: 12/23/2006
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 3/4/2007 6:35:46 PM | Both sexes can be BOTH...
but women have the tendancy to be more shallow and men have the tendancy to be more cold hearted | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 3/4/2007 6:54:31 PM | Ok ..I know I shouldn't and I am a lot smarter then this , in posting what I am going to say ...BUT sometimes I read what certain people (ladies ) write and just have to swim deeper waters and respond so here it is.....LOL...my story...
How about a first date meeting at a pub in South East Vanc....I pick her up because I am a gentleman and don't drink which allows her to drink and not worry about driving ...good start..we get to her pub and sit and start enjoying our selves and talk...cell goes off...hmmm...few male friends come up and chat...hmmmm...talk a bit and cell goes off again..hmmm I go to smoke room for a butt while she is yaking to a guy...she comes into smoke room and sits at a different table and lights up and talks to the locals (men) hmmm I sit there with a grin and start looking at my watch...
Go back in to our table ....she finishes and joins me at our table ..cell goes off a few more times and we finally order something to eat ....I notice the place is kinda crazy and make a few BAD comments like OMG am I in Surrey (no offence to Surrey folks as I am one also) me still looking at time and watch..hmmm...a few more guys come around and stop to chat ...hmmm I say I am out of here..going back to Chilliwack....oh please don't...I stay ..another smoke and still not sitting together in smoke area...I say I am out of here again and grab my jacket...oh please don't ...food arives after a few more conversations with locals and the cell phone...I am laughing my ass off now and wondering how to get the hell out of there...
Have a small problem with a local that sits at our table and starts eating our food..nothing I can't handle and he gets kicked out..Smoke time after eating... still sitting at a table by myself while my date is conversing at another table with the locals...LOL..I say ..I am out of here again and grab my jacket..please don't go and this time I ask if she can find a ride home with all these friends that are there.....she can't so I say I am going and if you want a ride lets go ...I drank coffee and half of food ...$10.00 maybe and throw in $ 20.00 for bill...I drive my date home in between the more cell calls to her and say good night and it was nice meeting you ...and I run (drive fast for Chilliwack ) ...I hear from friends later that I was a date from hell...LOL..
Men shallow and cold...not all of us and thank god not all of you ladies are like that date ...enjoy ... | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 3/4/2007 8:48:49 PM | | In my life I have meet more shallow women then men...... typically men are the ones being scrutinized....and really it should be the women! I know that sounds odd coming from a women but its what I see on a regular basis. Regardless of what sex you are if you are true to yourself and kind to others, kudos to you! Good luck to all:) | |
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Joined: 1/13/2007
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 3/4/2007 9:20:52 PM | My Grandmothers' advice(the wise old girl), 1-Play the field ,2-Live today to have no regrets tomorrow.
Obviously schit happens sometimes so...Crosby Stills Nash and Young say it best- "Don't let the past remind us of what we are not now".
These posts remind me of a popular book from a number of years ago, called something like "Women are from Mars, Men have a Penus"
Just kidding......sorta | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 4/23/2007 1:19:32 PM | | yes they are very shallow all they think with is the wrong head, they look at whats on the outside not inside men give us plain janes a try u might be surprised we treat our men like kings but u treat us like we are disgusting oieaces of dirt the old saying goes dont knock it till u try it | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 4/23/2007 2:23:38 PM | "WOW!!!...i am quite suprised that there are so many replys on my forum...lol but yeah i know i watch all ages of men and trust me if men can't deal with prego then screw them.."
I don't think it's the pregnancy that makes most guys shy off, more the fact that some other guy's baby is inside of you. Even more so, some other guy's baby will soon be coming out of you.
Raising a baby is hard. Latenight feedings, financial responsibility, no social life... that's a lot to give up. An honour if you made the baby, maybe not so much if it is not yours?
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 4/23/2007 3:08:21 PM | now this is funny!
are men shallow? yes. some are. on the flipside, some women are too.
let's review typical dating. man and woman go out, man pays. they go out again...chances are pretty damn high the man pays...
so if one were to generalize, one could say that while men might be shallow and/or cold-hearted, women can be self-centred and looking for a free ride.
but you have to remember...all generalizations are wrong. | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 4/24/2007 9:48:15 AM |
both sexes are cold hearted and shallow. plan and simpler. nothing more to say
shallow..... if you are not what im looking for and i have no interest in you although you think i should than to you i appear shallow
if i dont open my self,life and world to yo than i seem withdrawn and cold hearted.
Finally someone who understands...
I don't think I could say this any better (I'll forgive the grammar issue, it's the idea that matters) | |
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| Are men shallow or just cold hearted?
Posted: 4/24/2007 6:56:49 PM | I read a few of them here and I must say age is a big factor here. As you get older u know what you really want and try to get it, but never hurting anyone,,,,welll there are a few who think only of themselfs...there will always be a few of them around.
As for the 'fish' and how aggresive one is ...i go for the laid back one... the more aggressive he is the more I tend to feel he is a 'plyer and out for 'one' thing'. You have to be wise and keep ur ears a nd eyes open. for what they say and what they do.....
everyone has different taste and this 'dish' likes to be savored! | |
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