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 dedilis

Joined: 7/27/2008
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 8/3/2008 3:35:48 PM
It wouldn't be that bad. to be there for such a big moment is awsome. I guess it will up to how u interact.
 TTGWTSF

Joined: 7/21/2008
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 8/3/2008 3:55:17 PM
personally no :)

I think if I were pregnant and single, I'd have bigger things to worry about than dating. That is huge.
 BRBest

Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 228
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 10/10/2008 2:57:42 PM
N 2 da O!! why would I date someone that just got "knocked up" by another guy! Let HIM date her.. HE (the deadbeat) got her pregnant..NOT me!
 MalibuSteve

Joined: 2/1/2008
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 10/11/2008 2:52:35 AM
At this point in my life, I don't know if I'd be willing to date a pregnant woman. Having 4 kids of my own, I understand how quickly and strongly you can bond with a newborn. It would be very hard on me to form that kind of bond and then have it shattered if things didn't work out with the mother.

However, I can't say I'd rule it out either. If things did work out with the mother, it would be incredible to be there for that child from the beginning.
 midnightangel0

Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 230
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 10/22/2008 8:54:14 PM
Shauna13, it's been a while since you posted. I hope things are going well now. That was a crappy situation you were in.
 missq4ever

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 231
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 1/29/2009 11:23:59 AM

N 2 da O!! why would I date someone that just got "knocked up" by another guy! Let HIM date her.. HE (the deadbeat) got her pregnant..NOT me!


"the deadbeat" as you put it, may have gotten her pregnant but for one reason or another things didn't work out. Do you have any kids, brbest?
 MelissainMI

Joined: 10/4/2006
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/14/2009 1:08:39 PM
You cant help who you fall in love with or the circumstances around it either. Either a man is a jerk and will run away even if you've been talking for months and havent met yet OR he can become one of your best friends and be a ear to listen when you need it or a shoulder to cry on...even if over the phone or online. The ones that stick around and support you and become your friends more over the situation are the ones u really want around you anyways...negative people suck so dont hang out with them!
 TeresaP1020

Joined: 6/30/2008
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/14/2009 1:15:07 PM
In all fairness, she should have had something in her profile "About Me" about being pregnant. That really is unfair to potential interests. If anything, she should be listed as just looking for friends. Being pregnant is no time to date.
 bigben1731

Joined: 1/7/2009
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/14/2009 2:31:57 PM
heck no wouldnt even think of it i would and get out of it and espescially with there ex in the picture and they will bring the drama to the guy no way thanks i would pass it up its a dealbreaker and the red needs to be raised
 hannity

Joined: 10/23/2008
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/14/2009 3:12:48 PM

The ones that stick around and support you and become your friends more over the situation are the ones u really want around you anyways...negative people suck so dont hang out with them!


And don't get pregnant by them!!!
 loft222

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 236
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/15/2009 2:00:44 PM
Why in the world is a pregnant woman looking to date people? I remember being pregnant and men was the absolute last thing on my plate of things to worry about....in fact. It wasn't even on the plate..lol. I wouldn't recommend dating a pregnant woman (unless the baby is yours) to any man.
 belfast_gem

Joined: 1/10/2009
Msg: 237
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/16/2009 5:02:32 AM
as sum1 who is pregnant and single, its an extremely lonely time and i would go on dates 4 sum affection and reassurance that im not as hideous as i feel.

but u should always b open and honest from the start!
 darekr

Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 238
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/16/2009 7:30:19 AM
Absolutely. I did this earlier. No, we didn't go all the way, but the times going for movies, dinners, etc were pleasant, and the times we could just snuggle were absolutely terriffic. It is such a wonderful time to have a friend whom you can really be-friend, as so much of our society marginalizes the expecting woman, and expects her to already have a guy for help with personal circumstances. I hope that I get the opportunity to meet another lady who is, and who is looking for friendship. Of course, they would have to live near me to really do any participation.
 Samijo2006

Joined: 2/3/2009
Msg: 239
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/18/2009 10:48:03 PM
As a women, I would absolutly not date any guy enless it was the father of the baby if I were pregnant. If I were a man I wouldn't. After the baby is born, more power to you, but I just could not do it.
 chanic

Joined: 6/17/2008
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/19/2009 10:01:26 AM
what a load of bull, the fella could have left her and to say an unborn is someone elses filth just shows what a shallow man you are .
 chanic

Joined: 6/17/2008
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/19/2009 10:05:29 AM
any way accidents happen and for those women who have said they wouldn't do it, how sad because one day you may be in that situation. i have never dated another bloke and been pregnant but i am a single mother and my children always come first some of you people are very shallow and thoughtless
 Chasing The Night

Joined: 11/13/2007
Msg: 242
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/19/2009 10:50:44 AM
Why not the woman is Pregnant,she still is a woman,why would it matter,well I would date her .B
 The rock man

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 243
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/19/2009 11:35:05 AM

you people are very shallow and thoughtless


No I wouldn't for several reasons.

1. Women have many changes going on while she is with child, and faces many different issues I would not want to be involved with.

It was hard enough to deal with my daughters mothers while they were pregnant carrying "my" child. Being supportive isn't always an easy thing to do.

Now you add in the issue of there being another guy in the picture. One that comes around here and there or calls here and there. Then comes around talking about getting back together after the babies born.
Adding to an already stressed or confused woman's problems.

2. I personally feel that once you get pregnant your focus should be becoming a parent. Becoming the best parent possible. The mothers health and child's health and safety should really be all that she should be concerned with.

Not finding another love interest. Yes everyone deserves love. And in this situation it is a truer statement then ever. Love yourself and the child!
 ~AmorĂ©~

Joined: 1/17/2006
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/19/2009 5:10:45 PM

and i would go on dates 4 sum affection


That's how she got pregnant in the first place...
 loft222

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 245
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/19/2009 8:16:27 PM

any way accidents happen and for those women who have said they wouldn't do it, how sad because one day you may be in that situation.


LOL...I WAS in that situation and with morning sickness, mood swings, work, trying to assess how I was going to really handle a baby, and trying to talk her father through the pregnancy, there was no time for romantic interests.
 belfast_gem

Joined: 1/10/2009
Msg: 246
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 3:13:23 AM
~Amore~ your statement about me wantin affection is how i got pregnant in the 1st place shows more about your character and morals than it does mine. while you equate affection as droppin ur knickers, i beleive it 2b cuddles, sum1 askin how i am and shwin an interest etc!!
 The rock man

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 247
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 4:08:54 AM

your statement about me wantin affection is how i got pregnant in the 1st place shows more about your character and morals than it does mine. while you equate affection as droppin ur knickers, i beleive it 2b cuddles, sum1 askin how i am and shwin an interest etc!!


I have to ask, is it the hormonal imbalance of being pregnant, or do you always lack a sense of humor? I really thought her comment was creative and witty and in no way an insult. Your statement just prompted the joke.

Your reply about morals and character really shows your lack of both. But then again it could just be the hormones causing the confusion. Lighten up a little!
 belfast_gem

Joined: 1/10/2009
Msg: 248
Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 4:21:44 AM
well after bein critisised left, right and centre about my decision 2 date, (not on this forum but in general), i am some what lackin in the humour department. but yes hormones are playin a huge factor in this
 Weeza258

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 10:19:08 AM
that is so rude...... i am pregnant..... and I AM NOT FILTH.... nor is any other pregnant woman. the baby's father is the filthy one. he found out and ran not becasue i am a bad woman but because he is a horrible person....,... that is very unfair
 Weeza258

Joined: 5/12/2008
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Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 10:30:35 AM
that is how i feel. i am 4 1/2 months along now and havent seen or spoken with the day in 4 .
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