| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 1:29:28 PM | not a (dirtyword) chance.
I mean can't she wait till AFTER the baby is born to replace daddy???
Good lord!!! | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 7:35:13 PM | | LOL I'm not the one pregnant, with a baby daddy who left me, looking to date to get "sum" affection :) I do not think my morals are in question. I also do not immediately equate affection with sex - except in this case. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 8:00:11 PM |
I'm not the one pregnant, with a baby daddy who left me, looking to date to get "sum" affection :)
We know, you saved yourself from that type of rejection by conceiving a child with out the help of a man. Good thing you where able to foresee the future and avoid the inevitable rejection and change things so you could be so righteous and condescending to others!
Does it get lonely being so perfect? With no one else in the world being as good as you "think" you are?
I guess I was wrong and your first comment was meant as an insult. So she was absolutely correct in her statement about who's lack of character was being shown.
Lets not get into the moral issues of bringing a child into the world with out a father in an unatural way. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 8:00:23 PM |
Only if she was carrying my baby.
So are you saying you would date yourself, or is there something else about your anatomy you'd like to share with us? | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 8:05:04 PM | I was thinking more like her being my b*tch AND my surrogate mother,, lol.
Her body, my eggs, sperm donor, you know, the usual. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/20/2009 8:22:00 PM | I started dating when I was about 4 months pregnant and was with that man until she was a year old. Granted it was someone I had known since I was younger and I trusted him but still....we were together until she was a year old and I still love him dearly as a friend and see nothing wrong with me or him dating while I was pregnant with another mans child.
And I never tried or wanted him to go into the daddy position. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/21/2009 10:19:00 AM | LOL Rock. If stating I am not pregnant, dumped, and looking for affection while pregnant makes me have a lack of character, I think you need to read some of the posts in these forums and revise your definition :)
I never claimed my child was born of the immaculate conception ;) I have always said my child does not have a dad and I have never been married. Being responsible and mature and self-aware and independent and financially sound as a single parent sure doesn't get you points on this forum LOL You get called righteous, perfect, etc. I'm not the one posting these types of issues here, remember. There are a handful of great single parents here I think are wonderful - they successfully raise their kids without these problems. If you believe that by being a good parent without these issues deserves these comments, I can't change that, and I don't really care. I am very far from being lonely - I surround myself with good people and am really happy :) Some people will always try to diminish the accomplishments of others because they are jealous their own lives are lacking, because of their own doing. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/21/2009 4:26:10 PM | Single Dad in Fla,
your not alone! I think that there is nothing on the planet more beautiful than a pregnant woman! I was so attracted to my ex when she was pregnant with our son and she couldn't believe it.... I guess it's just such a natural beautiful thing! | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/21/2009 5:44:50 PM |
Being responsible and mature and self-aware and independent and financially sound as a single parent sure doesn't get you points on this forum
Not when you use those great things from your life to insult and put others down with.
Your life accomplishments could be better used as a tool of education to give hope and maybe even be a beacon to those who may be lost or could use inspiration.
Rather then a bat to beat those who would aspire to be like you down to make your already great status in life seem even better!
That's the difference between those who make mistakes in life and those who haven't.
People that have made mistakes are not as judgemental to those that haven't!
If your looking for an ego stroke or a pat on the back for being such a successful person, you might want to move your own hand out of the way.
Single pregnant mothers already have to deal with their choice in men and the situation they are in. Pointing out the obvious serves no purpose at all! | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/21/2009 6:03:08 PM |
Would you date a pregnant woman?
I'm going to have to go with an emphatic "no" on this one. I wouldn't be inclined to date a man who had a baby on the way either...
Just too much potential mess and drama. You can't really know what kind of single parent lifestyle one is going to have until AFTER the baby is born and the dust has settled. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/21/2009 6:32:27 PM | | I would say that at least Belfast has stated on her profile that she's expecting. I don't see that on your profile anywhere Weeza. Do you not think it's important? | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/21/2009 7:09:13 PM |
that is so rude...... i am pregnant..... and I AM NOT FILTH.... nor is any other pregnant woman. the baby's father is the filthy one. he found out and ran not becasue i am a bad woman but because he is a horrible person....,... that is very unfair
I would not have a problem dating a pg woman. But if you can suggest you nor any pg woman not being filth but your ex lover is...well I might suggest you are no better.
Maybe he ran because he saw the truth...maybe he ran because of your so obvious double standard where all woman are golden and men can be the villains?
You throw insults or labels..one would perhaps be prepared to have it returned?
After all you are the one suggesting fairness? | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/21/2009 8:38:36 PM | I'm not going to date pregnant women! Of course I'm a woman who prefers men so I guess I'm allowed to say that and not get slammed for it.
I wasn't going to post on this thread but Amore, I really do get where Rock Man is coming from with the way you come across in these forums, not to mention that one e-mail you sent me standing in judgement of me. Whether your intent is to be condescending or not, that is how I perceive much of what you write. You could be an inspiration for other women and I'm sure that to some you are and sometimes I do read what you write and agree with your position and appreciate the tone of what you have written.
I'm assuming that you actually did visit a sperm bank to get pregnant the way you speak of your child not having a father. That in itself is not exactly commonplace and it could explain your apparent lack of compassion for women with different experiences. I have no problem with anyone having a different opinion but it is in the way that opinion is expressed that can come off as being condescending. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/21/2009 8:55:13 PM | This is interesting to me... hmmmm...
I recently found out that I'm pregnant, and I totally agree with the honesty thing. I mean it says on the "has kids" part that I don't.. but I state CLEARLY in my profile that I have one on the way.
For me it's not a matter of looking for a replacement father, because even though him and I are not together now, he's still the father of my child. You know? It just wouldn't be fair.
Mind you, if I magically found the man of my dreams, I wouldn't drive him away. I'd still allow him to be in my child's life, but I'd want my child to know from the start that it's not his father type-thing.
It's all about being honest with people. If not, what do you have really?
Besides a very confused child... | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/21/2009 10:54:15 PM | | LOL No I did not conceive via a sperm bank :) The regular old fashioned way - I chose to leave him when I was pregnant and have not once regretted the decision. He was not someone to be a father, and I was quite capable of raising her on my own, my child therefore has no father. People can call what I say judgment if they want - someone posts their woes or problems and I respond, telling it as I see it. I see no value lacing replies with sugar or saying something to be likable on these forums. If I say suck it up, grow up and take responsibility for the actions they have caused, perhaps it seems harsh but reading these forums some of the posters require a good dose of reality and the truth sometimes hurts. I'm not one to say something just because someone wants to hear it. I have a lack of compassion for women who don't rise to the occasion concerning their children, or those who have an expectation others will take care of their kids because of poor choices they have made. Most of my posts do offer suggestions, a lot go unheeded because it's easier for some to sit in misery and look for people to agree and feel sorry for their lot in life, by their own choosing. When it comes to single mothers, it brings me to tears when I read of the issues some of these women have brought unto themselves and wonder why are they not DOING something about it???? In certain circumstances I am empathetic - life can be hard and when you are a parent you have to just find the strength and do it. It was certainly not easy at the time, but you do what you must to ensure your child has the best life possible. Call me condescending if you choose to see my responses as such. I can't control how you perceive my posts. The women I work with, volunteering my time to, appreciate my frank statements to them. I have dedicated a part of my life to aiding pregnant youth and helping them find the tools to rise above their circumstance and be successful at parenting and life. Being anything less does not help them. They need to hear the reality of their choice, and work to ensure their family's lives are the best they can be and that it won't happen by pity, sense of entitlement, or blame. The inspiration I strive for is based on the life I lead, the child I raise, the commitment I have and if one single pregnant mom can take anything from me, it's to see a strong woman and know that with guidance, the truth, commitment and work they can achieve anything they want. So I am fine with the perceptions some have on me on here - I am confident in what I say, I practice what I preach and live the results. It does not make me better than anyone, but I would not change my life for anything. I do not post my issues for commentary here, because simply I do not have them. I made sure of that. I appreciate where you are coming from, but can't make apologies for what I say, although when I am wrong I will say so - and have, even on these forums. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/23/2009 1:01:55 AM | | no that would be the last place on earth getting involved with a pregnant woman they would have to much hangup and maybe she dump the ex boyfriend and she playing the field and seeing what avaviable out there and theres issues with that as drama would probaly would get involved best to avoid at all cost dont even give them the day you would have to ask why is she pregnant and why is she in a hurry looking for love for me the pregnant woman would come last | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/26/2009 8:14:23 AM | | I firmly beleive that if your with a woman,,,and you want a careing relationship,,,,ya look over the fact that she is pregnant,,,,,and yes,,,,,,,you are responsable for that child and careing for her,,,,,you took that responsability when you started dateing her,,,,,but......i'm pretty sure before things got too seriouse ,,,she would tell you whether or not she wanted you to take care of the child. and i think pregnant women are very sexy,,,,,, | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/26/2009 8:24:30 AM | | Absolutely not. I have two that take alot of time to raise, I wouldn't want another, especially someone elses kid. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/18/2009 11:07:46 AM | | how can yo say that tho thats just wrong am pregnant my babys father is too much af a fuk wit to stand up to his baby nd be a dad and pregnant women yes ther emotions are all over but that dose not mean the shouldnt be loved nd yeh your response back to this mite be dont get preg but i was on the pill so contraseption dose not always work if men didnt run then pregnant women would not look 4 a man to spend tym with | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/18/2009 12:49:47 PM | | I'VE BEEN REALLY WORRIED ABOUT THAT CUZ MOST MEN FEEL LIK UR GONNA EXPECT THEM TO TAKE ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY THAT THE PATERNAL FATHER IS SUPPOSED TO HAVE. BUT THAT'S NOT THE CASE. I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED AND U DEFFINATLY HAVE TO TREAT MY CHILD RIGHT, BUT I DON'T EXPECT U TO SUPPORT MY CHILD IN ANY KIND OF WAY.THE BABY'S FATHER WAS BASICALLY TOO IMMATURE TO TAKE RESPOSIBILITY SO HE'S OUT OF THE PICTURE. PREGNANT WOMEN NEED LOVE TOO.. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/18/2009 4:21:26 PM | Only if I were the Father of the awaited child, and the reasons should be obvious to everyone.
Barring the death of the Bio-father, were is He. Assuming He is the father and alive then you must have "dated" and or slept with Him rather recently dont ya think? and Eww by the way. which means you either did not love each other or may still in fact Love each other and are not commited to being un-commited to one another. Have I made My self totally un-clear? Simply stated it's too soon for her to be dateing anyone, unless you just like being the rebound guy. Also you should be aware that in Her emotional condition you may not last in a long term situation with a girl in this situation. That being said if I were to do so I would with an understanding that if I am in any childs life I take some responsibility or I would not do so other wise. It takes a village to raise a child you know.  | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/19/2009 12:08:10 PM | Seriously, I would wonder about a woman who first priority is DATING rather than giving birth.
Sounds so.....skanky, yanno? | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/19/2009 1:40:31 PM | Is this a joke? Or is it the simple explanation as to why you wouldn't want to date a (young) pregnant woman?
how can yo say that tho thats just wrong am pregnant my babys father is too much af a fuk wit to stand up to his baby nd be a dad and pregnant women yes ther emotions are all over but that dose not mean the shouldnt be loved nd yeh your response back to this mite be dont get preg but i was on the pill so contraseption dose not always work if men didnt run then pregnant women would not look 4 a man to spend tym with
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 4/20/2009 11:10:11 AM | Yikes! Ok, running through all possible scenarios.....
Is the father of the unborn child the victim of a horrible unforeseen fatal accident or swift moving terminal illness? Maybe then, but even so she still will need time to grieve so I'll have to be a friend. | |
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