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Posted: 2/6/2006 11:12:07 AM | I don't know what you mean when you say that I am "the biggest contradiction in terms."
I thought Finn was a woman?I was addressing the men who were saying that they would
date a pregnant woman.It sounded to me like these men were going to do these pregnant
woman a favour !The HOE part of that sentence was directed to all those woman sucked
in by the men and their the reasons they gave.Women tend not to respect each other
and ignore truths and opt to satisfy their own ego.Also,you must take responsability
or at least some of it when you say"good women screwed over by bad men",you did have a choice,didn't you?
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 2/7/2006 2:12:51 AM | I have my FIRST kid on the way, i am 23 year's old he/she is born april 2nd.
They think its a boy but if it's not we have, some boy baby clothes and girl baby clothe's. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 10:01:04 AM | | I am 7 months pregnant right now. I was actually surprised to hear that there are so many guys out there who wouldn't mind dating a pregnant woman. Although it isn't really what I am looking for at the moment, it is nice to hear. I actually had a fiancee when I got pregnant but when I called and told him I was having a baby, I never heard from him again. LOL. It hurt alot at first but now I have come to terms with it, and actually (bizarre as it is) find it kind of laughable. So apparently he has a strange concept of what love is. I am aware that not all guys are pricks and this hasn't tainted my outlook at all. The best thing of all? I am going to have this wonderful little baby and don't have to share her with anybody! So, in all actuality, my ex is the one who is missing out! :) | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 10:57:46 AM | | By the way, Spark389: has anyone ever told you to get a psych eval? You may have multiple personality disorder. And a whole lot of issues! People like you make me wonder how you've functioned so long in this world without anyone trying to physically cause you great harm! lol I mean, sure, that's fine that you stand by the opinion that pregnant women shouldn't date, and you wouldn't have one, whatever. Everybody is entitled to his/her opinion. But you seriously sound like a real woman hater. You are very judgemental and I hate to inform you buddy, but the world has moved on! There aren't very many women who are going to put up with the likes of you! Thank God for that. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 4:16:34 PM | It's funny how you dismiss so quickly the man you chose to have a baby with{real brainy broad} and then to say it's his loss[daddy], well your wrong again,it's the baby's loss.To
many children being raised without dads,but what the heck ,you win!Dad-0, Baby-0 Mom-won.I didn't mis-spell won.Thats exactly what you think.As far as the psych eval,it's nice to know that your also a person skilled in "personality disorder", it's a shame you didn't use
your talent before choosing your child dad.
to liongirl25 and I bet that's your age and temperment | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 5:01:58 PM | "the man you chose to have a baby with{real brainy broad} and then to say it's his loss[daddy], well your wrong again,it's the baby's loss.To
many children being raised without dads,but what the heck ,you win!Dad-0, Baby-0 Mom-won."
I agree with you on that subject because it shouldn't
be all about "the MOM", there is another lifefourm to
think, about and look out for. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2006 5:12:38 PM | To broken Soul,Your an Old-soul, wiser than most and neutral in the battle of the sexes.
I'm glad you have an opinion{watch out for the femininists} they won't like you taking
a mans opinion, namely mine: | |
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Posted: 2/8/2006 3:31:46 PM | To Spark389: I have recently read your posting in another thread similar to this one, so now I do understand why you feel so strongly about this. It really is too bad that you are having to deal with your child's mother acting how she is, considering how much you care about your child. But did you read my posting at all? Or are you just looking for any excuse to vent your extreme anger and hatred of the female gender. And NO, I am not a raging feminist. If you will notice above: I didn't dismiss my fiancee from the child's life: he took himself out of the equation. I haven't even had a chance to ask him to participate because he won't allow it. And of course it's unfair for my baby not to have a father! But what should I have done, then, in your opinion? Had an abortion? How stupid. And I think it's worse for a child to have a jacka$$ for a father than to have no father at all. I will continue to think of my ex as aforementioned jacka$$ until he proves himself otherwise, just as you have taken the liberty of lumping together and generalizing the entire female gender because of your misfortune.
I also want to add that I am in fact working towards my masters in Psychology as we speak. So yes, I suppose I would say that I am somewhat learned in behavioral disorders. Your cheap potshots at my intelligence and temperament bother me not one bit, because you are so completely biased against me. One, because I am a woman, and two because really, how dare I disagree with your radical views and opinions?
"Liongirl" is for my father. The family name. And yes, 25 is my age. I would guess that you were even younger than me by the tone of your posts, but sadly, I fear that I am wrong on that one. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2006 4:02:22 PM | Read oll the responses from the men,and how they say that they would date a pregnant woman.I think men would date anything that walked ,crawled or had to be carried in.You can find a man out there that would do anybody,anytime anywhere,Therein lies the problem.
Women have learned that men[questionable noun]think with the smaller of his two heads,
that is one reason women try to make you go through hoops before they date you.More than three quarters of the women that are on line,stay on line only once in awhile leaving only
to come back and say"I have been used again"Come on guys,get it together and kick these
HOE's to the curb.Just ask these women[questionable noun]how many men they have had.
They will lie through the teeth,because if you knew the truth you'd wonder why your making the effort.
t o spark: YOU ARE THE MOST INORANT PERSON THAT I HAVE SEEN WRITE IN THIS FORUM !!!  | |
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Posted: 2/8/2006 5:46:20 PM | Thank you mud bogger
Spark for the love of *** you need to drop it men suck and so do women! that is life we make poor decisions! but now you have gone from bashing prego women to bashing men who can see past the fact that they are prego and want to know the woman behind the belly. and for some reason you neglect to remember that not ALL prego women left the father generally he has left her. | |
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Posted: 2/8/2006 11:56:48 PM | Well, I popped back in for a look see... and while the names are changed, I can see that the temperment and stupidity level has not...
It is amusing to see that there are still those jumping in here to call single pregnant ladies, and single moms the scourge of society... (sigh) some never learn...
As to my feelings on this topic... browse the past, you can see how I feel about dating pregnant women... I have no issues with it... though some reservations as I don't want to be a rebound fill-in (happens sometimes)... and I sure don't want to be there for all of it... to have her go back to the jack*ss that left her alone to begin with (been there and done that too)...
If she is a good lady, with a good heart and good intentions... the rest is no worry... kids are fun...
As for the rest of you... Guys... be realistic... how many of your friends/aquaintences are the type that go out to the local meat market on a Friday and/or Saturday night simply to get laid... and how many have done this for a LONG time...
Now... go to the local meat market on a Friday night... and take a guess at the number of men there... Now lets say that half of your friends are the conquest type... apply that ratio to the approximate number of guys in that club you visited... multiply that time 104 (the number of meat nights in a year excluding parties for halloween, christmas, new years etc...) and multiply that number times the number of meat markets in the us... and THEN look around at the alone mothers and figure it out... People make poor decisions... yes they do... BUT... look at the other half of your single friends... how many gal pals have they had in the last 5 years... THAT is where the problem lies... they find one... date em, woo em, keep em around til they are tired... then start over... While there are a number of sharks out there... there are FAR more barracudas... or playa's and it is getting worse...
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Posted: 2/9/2006 3:57:12 PM | | I jut welcomed my son Jacoby into the world on 1/11/06. His father isn't in the picture and left me three months into my pregnancy...had I known that there were men out there who would date a pregnant woman I don't think I would have been so shy and almost ashamed around other men. | |
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Posted: 2/9/2006 4:07:33 PM | I can see shy, but why ashamed?
If you made the commitment with good intentions and conscience, not doing it to capture the guy, or get a raise on your welfare, but with the intent of loving the child and being a good parent, there is no reason for shame. The sperm donor should hang his head in shame for being so callous, shallow and chicken as to run out on you while you were in that condition.
I will say this though, while there are quite a few guys that would chat you up in that condition, few would ever try to hit on you... simply for the fact that one assumes (yes I know) that you are spoken for. Being pregnant, you would have to let folks know that the father abandoned you, without giving the impression that all men are slime... which, given the emotional state might be hard...
Yes there are guys out there that would not look amiss at that condition... and a few of us that would cherish being a part of your life and such... As I noted earlier... there is danger... but... for the right lady... well... danger exists even if the lady is lilly white virgin... there is always danger...
Meddle not in the affairs of Dragons....
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Posted: 2/11/2006 9:12:32 AM | To liongirl25 ; RE-READ the response you wrote to me , look how many times you say I .
I do understand.., I didn't dismiss...,I am not...,I haven't even had...I think its worse..
I will continue...I fear that....It's all about you ,maybe you should re-think the
Psychology thing ,your supposed to be neutral in that profession not inflicting YOUR influence on people that need your help.Please don't consider this a personal attack ,it was you that
spurred this action by saying "I do now know why you...." you my dear, know not why I do anything.Get rid of this I,ME thing , remember we are a village. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2006 9:17:45 AM | mudbogger ; it's ignorant , I almost thought you were saying important.Nice handle,
thanx for your response . I bet the girls are going to like you now.  | |
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Posted: 2/11/2006 11:38:16 AM |
VANDELAI: This is aimed mostly at the guys, I IM'ed a woman on POF that was...well, "Had one on the way" Her ad stated she didn't have any kids...which is a fact...lol She said, "I hope you don' tmind dating someone that's pregnant.
However, I said, "Sorry, not to be a stick in the mud, but no"
Technically, her statement was truthful -- she did not have any children at the time. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder; I'm a man and I find some pregnant women very beautiful. I usually presume a pregnant woman is in a relationship and unavailable, so I have never dated a pregnant woman.
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Posted: 2/11/2006 11:45:21 AM | | if i was a man i would not date a pregnant chick... i was pregnant and there is just way to much drama involved in it to involve someone who is completely unrelated to the situation | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 7:59:06 AM | | I'm sorry, but how do you know what the situation is???? How do you not know that she was abandoned by an idiot father/husband???? How do you not know that he left because he was too immature???? How can you make an accusation like that?? | |
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Posted: 2/12/2006 8:23:38 AM | You should never be ashamed for what happened to you. How did you know he would abandon you in the state you were in? You should be proud of yourself for being able to carry your child to full term and deliver a healthy baby considering the stress you were under. You are a very strong woman. You have brought a precious life into the world. You should be happy that you were able to do this. Never let anyone tell you otherwise.
There are weak and simple-minded men out there that need to grow up. Some men aren't ready for a commitment as big as a child. Some men are too selfish to understand that a pregnant woman needs extra help and that she is very vulnerable. Some men lack the caring and compassion that a pregnant woman needs. Some men have a lot of growing up to do. Some men leave when the going gets tough. They don't have the strength the make a relationship work. Some men don't have the courage to communicate with their spouse about how they feel.
I was abandoned by my husband of 4 years when I was 5 months pregnant. He left with no warning. Just a simple I don't love you anymore. He didn't tell me that he was feeling like this for a year. He cannot explain to me why I'm pregnant. He is the biggest coward I have ever met. He has no character. I will never forgive him for what he did.
At the same time, I will not bash him in front of my child. I will not place the child in the way of our broken relationship. I will do whatever to make my child happy and loved.
There are decent men out there. There are men out there who care. A pregnant woman shows that she is ready to settle down and commit to a family. Many men find this a positive quality. | |
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Posted: 2/15/2006 12:05:28 AM | ^^^Good job, and congrats on staying strong...
I have nearly given up preaching to dunderheads... easier to pound nails with a banana...
Sadly... Most men, never learn...
To all you ladies who are pregnant and alone... my hat is off to you, I wish you better fortunes and a happy valentines day...
Rub your tummy, there is a ton of love growing right in side you... and if your prince charming shows not today... he may be there tomorrow...
Never meddle in the affairs of Dragons....
~~~Dragon Rider~~~ | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 6:27:12 AM | | Yes, of course I would date a pregnant woman. I always take a second look and smile when I see them out and about. Some male , deserving or not has already made them a piece of beautiful art. Their body will never be the same, so enjoy them as they grow into true womanhood ! | |
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Posted: 3/6/2006 9:53:37 AM | Hell yeah! Aperson is the same , pregnant or not. A real man loves a woman wether they have kids or not. Children can't be considered baggage! You're not a man till you've raised a child. I can't comprehend not dating a woman because she's pregnant. If a man let's that bother him hes just not a man.
Proud father of three children!!!!!!! | |
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