| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 3/6/2006 10:49:21 AM | | yes i would date a lady with kids its just more love for me to give i have dated women with kids i love children so i would definatly date a lady with kids | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 3/6/2006 2:57:16 PM | | My question for u is.....if u have children? How could u expect someone to step into the role of the other parent? Double standard don't u think?? Just asking............. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 3/6/2006 7:15:58 PM | | What difference does it make whether she goes back to her childs father or not......... Does the word "friendship" ever come to mind? If you go through life with ONE good friend, you've had a truly GOOD life. Friendships can last a lifetime........getting laid doesn't. I'd rather my relationship have a foundation built on friendship. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 3/6/2006 7:20:38 PM | I was single for most of my pregnancy. I had a co-worker who was interested and we went for friendly coffee once or twice, but I didn't feel comfortable dating anybody, myself.
I think that it's one of those "to each his own" things. If it doesn't bother you, fine, if it does, fine too. Everybody's different.
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 3/6/2006 7:26:25 PM | | Im single and pregnant, and dating is the last thing on my mind. I cant wait to have this awesome glow everyone keeps talking about....cause as far as i can see im more glowering then glowing. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 3/7/2006 3:43:19 AM | normally not. there is no point. she focuses on her soon-coming child and not much else. besides, in many cases the fathers return when the child is born and the women forgive them to give a second chance.
sorry to say, but I think pregnant women are not very good idea for dating....there are many others available anyway
wish happy child-births for the ladies | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 3/7/2006 4:01:56 AM | If I fell in love and she accepted the fact that I have a son,and that even though he doest leave with me that he is a part of my life,then for sure I would and hopefully I would have the money that would be something to consider,but I would do what I had to to feed my family,thats what I truely pine for any how. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 3/7/2006 4:06:52 AM | maureeng945...
you make a good point and it would be ashamed to see another man/woman come in the single father/single mothers life and start takeing, over as the kids dad or mom.
that should never happend i mean they already have a mom and a dad why would the
girlfriend/boyfriend want, to take the kids father/mothers place. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 3/7/2006 2:56:31 PM | | Don't seriously think I could unless there was something drastic that happened that she had no part of such as rape etc... | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 9/10/2006 9:54:24 AM | | Hi ladybrytt not all men are like that i wood not mine dateing a pregnant woman.you take care and have a good day. Ron | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 9/10/2006 5:55:00 PM | | I don't think I would want to date a woman who was pregnant with another man's child. I wouldn't feel right about it. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 9/11/2006 9:51:14 PM | | i was single at 6 months pregnant. never thought anyone would date me and never did find anyone willing lol even after my child and waiting for my body to return to semi-normal never thought i would get a bf. not many men-so ive noticed- will date someone pregnant or with a new born child. the father never came back into my life. even 6 yrs later he still didnt come around. didnt get another bf until my son was a yr old. now hes 6 and im still single | |
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Joined: 8/11/2006
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 9/12/2006 6:54:36 AM | I am pregnant with my second now, due in January. Being pregnant is only one of the reasons I choose not to date at the moment, but my reasoning is this:
Why would I begin a relationship right now, knowing that a monumental change in my life will be taking place in four months, something that will consume my time, energy and focus? Any time I have outside of caring for this new child will be spent recovering physically and of course taking care of and spending time with my 8 year old son. I was single when I had my first, and know what it is like having a newborn on your own, or even a young child for that matter. To begin a new relationship now, knowing that in four months I will not have the time or energy to devote to this person, does not seem fair to either of us.
Again, I have other reasons I choose not to date at the moment, but I have to say, this is a MAJOR one. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 9/12/2006 10:06:24 PM | I totally understand both decisions...I have been disappointed but not mad when a guy changed his tune after discovering I am pregnant. After all if someone has decided they are intersted in you that is a huge thing. And since this is my first child when I think about what is to happen in the next 4.5 months I am excited and overwhelmed at the same time. So it is completly reasonable that this might be to much for a guy to handle. But to I am never upset when a guy can think about it and not let it overwhelm or bother him.
I am in no way looking for a father for my child. I am looking for a companion to face life with. The ups and downs the smiles and frowns. And yes in 4.5 months my life will be changing tremendously...and if there is someone who learns to care for me between now and then and wants to be a part of it then I would be more than happy. But by no means would I even think badly of a guy who decided that was to much.... | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 9/13/2006 8:23:14 AM | YES!!!,, I dated and married a pregnant (boy) woman,, we had a great 13 yrs of marriage and a baby of our own (girl) as well,, I look on them both as mine, i was there for the birth of both and they both look equally on my as daddy,,,
HOWEVER,,,,,
after the 13 yrs we ended up getting divorced,, as luck would have it,, i got custody of both children,, she, the mother and my ex,, was only interested in living a single life again and they was more of a burden to her,,
I have been divorced for nearly 6 yrs now and the kids are both still with me,, their mother not seen them, sent them a birthday or christmas card or even paid anything towards support for them,, ive done it all on my own and proud of it.
Everyone around us always thought the first baby (boy) was mine too,,, we wanted it that way so as not to have to explain every thing,,, the problem was,,,,
The children also thought they was both my natural children,, AND,, just after my ex,, the kids mother, left our home,, she got her solicitors to make me tell him that i was not his real father,,,,,,,,,,,,,, LIFE SUCKS HUH?
It was an attempt to get to me,, but did my son more harm than anyone.
BUT ID STILL DATE ANOTHER PREGNANT WOMAN. | |
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Joined: 7/8/2006
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 10/10/2006 1:04:12 PM | | I would DEFINITELY date and marry a pregnant girl if all else was a go. I would love to share happiness all around. | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 10/10/2006 1:55:50 PM | I know there are some guys out there who do. I went on a date when i was 6 months pregnant lol. He knew fullwell that i was pregnant and it didn't seem to bother him at all. He's a great guy | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 11/2/2006 12:01:58 PM | | I'm 3 months pregnant and very much single. Things between the father and I did not work out, but we are still friends. When I meet guys I tell them right away because I think it's fair to be upfront and honest at all times. You should see the way some act like I just said "I have the plague." I am not looking for a father for my child because he/she has one. I am seeking a companion for myself. I really don't want to be alone for the next 6 months or the next 18 years; so what's the difference if the kid is already here or on the way? If you like the woman for who she is and she likes you, you should be ready and willing to accept whatever comes with it, whether it's a kid or an eccentric family period...lol (i.e. Meet the Fockers). I think it's crazy that guys with children or guys with children on the way have a hard time dating a woman with kids or a woman with a kid on the way. I can't blame childless guys for having reservations because b4 I "grew up" I had issues dating guys with children. Now that I'm mature, I feel that if there is no "drama" involved, it's not a big deal for me. It doesn't matter if I meet a guy and he has kids as long as he is providing for each and every one and actually taking the time to be a "father". Children are gifts from God who didn't ask to be here. Single moms are not aliens. We are very capable of being good parents and loving partners. All I'm asking for is a fair chance. It's lonely and hard out here for a single girl especially one with a growing belly. For men who keep an open mind, I applaud you. If you're in Alabama and don't mind dating an attractive expectant mom, drop me a line... | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 11/6/2006 9:07:28 PM | | Yes Pregnant women are hot they are beautiful I slept with one that was pregnant five years in a row. ONe kid we even made love the same day it arrived. If you are pregnant now and want to go out Here I am | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 11/6/2006 9:08:59 PM | | Yes Pregnant women are hot they are beautiful I slept with one that was pregnant five years in a row. ONe kid we even made love the same day it arrived. If you are pregnant now and want to go out Here I am | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 11/6/2006 9:12:38 PM | | pregnancy wouldnt have a thing to do with it I have been around pregnant women all my life. It has something to do with sex I think | |
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| Would you date a pregnant woman?
Posted: 11/6/2006 9:36:13 PM |
I thougth it was unsafe to have sex THAT soon after a child? I thought you are SUPPOSE to wait 6 weeks? At least that's what my doctor told me when I had my son | |
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