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Engr
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 3/16/2007 7:22:15 AM | I prefer conservative. And not just because I'm looking for something serious atm. If a girl wants to go to bed with you the first night, she's trouble. I prefer a more conservative girl who can also be agressive (not promiscuis) at times during our RELATIONSHIP ( not first date) lol. But then I am a conservative kinda guy =P | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuous girls? Posted: 3/16/2007 11:55:47 AM | June Cleaver around the neighborhood / house, but Heidi Fleish in my bedroom! This is where my comment came from. Mr. Cleaver around the neighborhood/Bruce Willis in the bedroom. Works for me!!!! | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 3/16/2007 12:30:44 PM | Personally I like women who dont worry about a label and does what she wants to do.
I am not saying sleep with anything that says hello... but if she wants to get a stiff one in her then its her business! I would never think worse of a woman for having sex on a first date with me, because I was there too and I like me just fine :) | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 3/16/2007 8:20:24 PM | is a promiscuous girl one that if she likes a guy will sleep with him pretty much right away sometimes? or is it someone who sleeps with people they don't like? or they sleep with lots of guys as a sport i guess? i have done the former more than once. but i am not a ho sleeping with guys left right and center.
for me i guess i have been a bit easy at times but only if i feel like it is what i want to do. i am not like having sex with multiple partners or anything. sometimes it goes on to something more long lasting and sometimes after sleeping with the guy it is over, but then again that doesn't matter how long i wait, sometimes sex is the beginning of the end. | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 3/17/2007 10:29:58 AM | As the saying goes.
A lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets.
There is a time and place for promiscuity.
Give me a girl with manners, discretion, and respect for others, but also can release her inner desires and fantasies behind close doors. | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 3/24/2007 1:41:28 PM | | Actually I prefer my woman to be liberal. I will take a promiscuous girl if I am in need. I will even take a conservative promiscuous girl if I am in need. I will take a monogamous girl if I want to get married. But a conservative monogamous girl? I don’t think so... maybe? | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 10/17/2007 6:12:27 PM | Conservative Woman! I need a girl I can trust and that will be a good mother! Not some psychotic unstable nutbag.
i hate this freakin thread~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
a woman has a right to whatever sex life she wants. period. enough of this sexist CRAP
Yeah you have that right, just don't get mad when guys treat you a certain way for it.. Honestly women like this are stupid. Do you really expect a guy to treat you like a lady when you act like a little nympho? If you want a guys respect you gotta hold off the sex stuff and prove to him that you are worthy of marriage, otherwise stop complaining! | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 10/17/2007 6:50:31 PM | In all seriousness, I'm not getting younger by the day. I am a huge flirt but it's just being a flirt. Now, I'd love to find a respectful woman who likes monogamy and something to move forward through life with. Just seems I don't find those women at all. If I had I'd probably be married and the father of children by now. I am still looking for a woman who can be herself but yet carry herself according to the surroundings. A woman who can be civilized at a black tie affair and be outgoing when we're just hitting a club to go out and dance. Someone I can flirt with and who understands we're together, and what that entails. Long term would be nice but there aren't many women who will put up with some of the things I do. They're not bad things, they're just time consuming. | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 10/17/2007 7:21:43 PM | Oh, theres something a bit off about this thread,.. Whats all this lady on the street and freak in the bed milarky? Soooo, what quite a few of you men are saying, is that you want a woman to 'act lady like in public,.. whatever that means.. and be adventurous in bed? if you really want a woman to 'pretend' to be one thing, but really be another, then you're setting yourself up for a dishonest relationship. By my own personal definition, 'conservative' women wont be freaky in bed, because they're not sexually experienced.. so if youre after a truly conservative woman,.. dont expect a porn star in bed.. if you want porn star bedroom antics, that will come from a lady who's very secure and experienced in her sexuality,.. she may, or may not be promiscuous,.. but its the 'acting out of two roles that gets me. When can we just be ourselves? I wish we could get over this Madonna/whore complex. its very telling when some posters say, ' a lady in public, a whore in the bedroom. A whore?? really? how insulting to women. cant a woman be sexual without being a whore? cant a woman be conservative or sexually inexperienced without being a prude? DAx | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 10/18/2007 1:01:25 PM | Promiscuous with me, ultra-conservative with every body else. I'd prefer she be a down right, uptight, blue nosed, Nazi prude with every body else ! But, all things considered, I don't really expect absolute fidelity. I know how people are. Just so long as I get what's fair for me. | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 10/18/2007 1:16:18 PM | which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? If those are my only two options, then it's a no brainer and any guy who disagrees is probably lying - I'll take a promiscuous girl over a conservative one.
oh and also who do you respect more..if thats a factor In my experience, I've most often ended up respecting the promiscuous girls more. The conservative girls are usually just sheep. | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 10/18/2007 1:43:27 PM | I want a whore in the bedroom, and a lady in the street. That being said, my experience was that the nutjobs who were not good kissers, had had a LOT of partners. All the stable, reliable, fun women, who were fantastic kissers, had had very few partners. My mate married a virgin and she's a freak in bed. I'm sticking with the a whore in the bedroom, and a lady in the street. That's the conservative woman. Hands down. | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 10/18/2007 1:50:20 PM | a) I prefer promiscuous women who use protection than conservative women who do not. b) There are no promiscuous women, only promiscuous men, of course. c) Since I am promiscuous, I prefer conservative women, of course!
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 10/18/2007 1:58:09 PM | I wouldn't call it a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom.
It's more like a woman who is honest, straightforward and comfortable with herself. Knows how to adapt herself to certain situations. Won't come off as disrespectful or unlady like when in public. A woman who choses to be with one man and one man only. That man does the same for her. Now when alone together, be it at home on the deck, in the living room or in the bedroom she should be comfortable enough with her man to let loose and know he will not judge her on anything done together. She can be a nympho one day and a prude the next. She should just be able to be herself, be direct and know how to approach a man with just about any request or need. It takes a while to get to that position but it's well worth it. | |
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| which do you prefer conservative or promiscuis girls? Posted: 10/18/2007 2:15:21 PM |
promiscuous adj
1. Indulging in casual or indiscriminate sexual relations. Thesaurus: lewd, wanton, licentious, libertine, depraved, debauched, dissipated, immoral, of easy virtue, abandoned, loose, wild, unchaste, dissolute, fast; Antonym: chaste.2. Haphazardly mixed.
Derivative: promiscuity noun
The quality of indulging in casual or indiscriminate sexual relations Thesaurus: immorality, lechery, wantonness, licentiousness, libertinism, depravity, profligacy, debauchery, looseness, permissiveness, promiscuousness, abandon, amorality, dissipation, laxity; Antonym: chastity.
Derivative: promiscuously adverb
Derivative: promiscuousness noun
Etymology: 17c: from Latin promiscuus mixed up, from miscere to mix.
The opposite of promiscuity is chasteness, not conservativeness. ENGLISH please...it's not that difficult in this age of internet dictionaries.
Chasteness implies virginity and or monogamy, purity.
Promiscuity implies wanton or indiscriminate behavior related to sexual relations.
Both terms are pretty outdated in our society, and lack a modern definition...and the funny thing is neither of these terms are used (or rarely..wait...Sir Galahad was described as being chaste and pure..when was that..umm..1100's? 9th century?) when speaking about men. Therefore I submit that these words are inflammatory, sexist and probably invalid.
Forgive my pedantic meanderings over the semantics...but good communication requires precision.
The question then becomes: would you prefer a woman who was sexually active with a lot of men over her lifetime, or one who was not?
oh...oops, I'm not a guy...never mind
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