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| Something I was told about the average guyon site
Posted: 2/3/2007 11:05:43 PM |
If you treat the guy like he is an amalgamation (btw, my spellin is attrocious) of all the bad found in men, then you'll get that nightmare date that seems to the dating all the women on this site (btw, this guy must really get around, all you ladies seem to be complaining about him).
Heh, he's a cheater, alcoholic, drug addict, broke, selfish jerk with no job who is only interested in sex!
Not sure how he affords the drug habit if he's broke with no job, or how he manages to actually find women to cheat with, or on, in his drunken/drugged-out stupor, but apparently he gets around! 
Seriously, everyone is different. The worst thing you can do is prejudge people based on a few experiences. And if you find yourself having the same experience over and over, then its really time to evaluate *your* choices, and how *you* manage to pick them in the first place. | |
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| Something I was told about the average guyon site
Posted: 2/3/2007 11:16:24 PM | Hey guys, there really are some awful guys out there (just like there are awful women). One thing I can tell you is that after meeting some of those guys, you NICE guys look better all the time!!
OP. Not all men are "just" after sex. There are several men that want a relationship, just like a lot of us women. My friends that have met him tell me how "hot" my brother is. He will not have sex with a woman unless he plans on having a relationship with her. He is not alone. I think most people want it all - a wonderful relationship that includes good sex. | |
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| Something I was told about the average guyon site
Posted: 2/4/2007 4:14:50 AM | He doesn't know what he's talking about. Lots of us are looking for serious relationships.
Of course, if we run into a woman who's just looking for sex, most of us are ok with that too...we're men. | |
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| Something I was told about the average guyon site
Posted: 2/4/2007 1:16:02 PM | | For those of us that are older than our 20s, we are on the site to find people of similar interests. Whether it be for dating, or a companion to hang out with (activity partner), which could be called a date. The more you enjoy someone's company, the more you wanna be with them (hang out), companionship. And yes sex does change things, for both sides. The art of communication, open and honest conversation To See How You Both feel about it. | |
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lorie1
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Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 57 | |
| Something I was told about the average guyon site
Posted: 2/4/2007 8:11:37 PM | Wow,what alot of responses....Most really seem to be honest,I don't know about certain ones that sound a bit like they have personal axes to grind....I have met up with some decent guys,for coffee,many wanted more than that on a coffee date...
I guess what floored me was the bluntness and what seems to be conferred by most here is that it is a pretty sad thing to hear a man run down women and his own sex -it DOES say something for what's part of the person's mental and emotional make up.I don't know,but when remarks are made that kick the dignity out of the human race,and it comes so "Out of the Blue"like that,it's too bad.I wish people would realise that they need to be accountable for their own actions.It's not just rude run people down on dating sites,it's really a depressing read.Especially when those remarks came from someone I kind of thought was reasonably trustworthy to ask for advice.
I spent 19 years in a monogamous relationship,and even before marriage I was too busy earning a living,teaching or studying,and kind of square on dating.Its strange to be out of it so long.
What I do notice,is that there seems to be alot of emotional instability in how people react online.I even wondered if the guy that wrote the intial disasterous email had been drinking or godknowswhat happen that day,No matter what,when it goes down in writing,it's good to be careful as possible.
To the people that said,"it's just one person's headspace",well, it is true.I am just glad to hear not everyone has so much debris in their's... | |
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lorie1
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Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 59 | |
| Something I was told about the average guyon site
Posted: 2/5/2007 7:51:37 PM | | It depends,about the ego boost thing.I do think using people's intersert for ego's sake tells me that the users are pretty sick.Your email posting sounds like bitter grapes,as your question dosen't really respond to my intitial question.So ,thanks,but no thanks,not from this lady. | |
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