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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 8:54:37 AM | | I don't think I'd use the word that way. It seems to me that a f-buddy is a buddy - a friend, someone on whom you can rely and vice versa - with whom you have sex (reasonably frequently). So it is a kind of a relationship, but it doesn't involve "being in love". | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 9:34:15 AM | For me..
A f*ck buddy is someone who I have incredible lust for and can not keep my hands off, the guy your not to shy to be naked infoornt off and can follow your wildest fantasies with....but maybe not the worlds most amazing conversation. A **** buddy relationship is based on SEX!The relationship guy you get the sex AND everything else.
The guy for a relationship is different, he feels different, he's a bit "safer". He's the guy who stays in on saturday night while I boo over xfactor and makes an emergancy dash to the garage because I crave chocolate at 3am.... | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 9:36:36 AM |
I don't think I'd use the word that way. It seems to me that a f-buddy is a buddy - a friend, someone on whom you can rely and vice versa - with whom you have sex (reasonably frequently). So it is a kind of a relationship, but it doesn't involve "being in love".
i think that's the most sensible answer i've seen on this thread, though i didn't read through most of them after reading the drivel on the first page!
i had what i suppose would be classed as a f-buddy a little while after my childrens father died. we weren't a couple and hadn't been for a few years but as some of you will know, i did have him come and live with me when diagnosed with terminal cancer. the emotional and physical cost to me was huge, and left with with not much to be able to give anyone for quite some time after. but that didn't wipe out the fact that i still needed some sort of emotional and physical comfort. it was with someone who was a fair bit younger than me so i knew that it would never become a long term thing, and i didn't want that anyway, and i knew he didn't want it either, but we did find each other attractive, we had fun, and he was extremely understanding and sympathetic.
it was a transitional period when i knew i couldn't get into a relationship, but still needed 'bits' of a realtionship...it's a halfway point...
it isn't about shagging the arse off someone who doesn't give a stuff about you or you them, or about one person calling all the shots...it's about friendship, respect and sex. | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 10:13:03 AM | | i think the term f buddy is possibly when one partner is unsure , scarred , etc non committed and the other one is a bit more full on , the term is a type of monogamous arrangement by two adults where sexual chemistry is very acceptable , remember sex is addictive , most men are ruled by their d***ks , to those of you who deny this your either vicars, smarmy b****S trying to impress the female gender thus work your way into their knickers or your gay! I like my sex drive and had a FB but have realised that she means alot so have made alot more of it. for a time i was being bad like a sexual preditor but have decided there is more to life than sex , but dont get me wrong if the right person put it on a plate hey ho! im single careful and i believe a nice guy but what hugh grant said about not picking me to be your daughters godfather because when shes 18 i will take her out and try and hit on her holds some truth . hey ladies if i can make you laugh and squirm its better but i blame it on hormones yep they are bad . fb normal progression towards something longer , you dont buy fruit without trying it . one night stands if good you would want again true? fbs happen again. i love life! remember a clever person learns by the mistakes others make a fool by his own , on that basis i am an idiot luv it! | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 10:26:05 AM | I think the term ****buddy implies convenience, like calling for a takeaway.
We all know we should go for the healtier option but once in a while its ok, as long as it's convenient to me, I guess thats my take on it.
It also implies to me that I would not have to remember his birthday or his childrens names or his mothers wedding anniversary, and heaven forbid would never ever have to meet them all for sunday tea/lunch.....shudders!!
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 2:12:56 PM | Im no expert because i have never had one because i tend to get attached once we have slep together, but my friends have had one and basically to answer your question in the way it was put by my mate is:
basically when she is too rough to be your girlfriend and seen out with, but not so rough that you wouldnt have sex with them! | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 2:20:41 PM | Maybe they’ve come out of a bad relationship and can’t/won’t commit to another one? Maybe they know they are going to move 200-2,000 miles away in 3-6 months? Maybe they don’t want a relationship – their lifestyle makes having a relationship difficult? Maybe they have some mourning or closure to deal with? Maybe they fancy a little intimacy and sex without the emotional entanglements? Who knows?
What I will say is that people who have FBs and are open about it when they start seeing each other seem pretty honest – there’s no hidden agenda is there? No one conning or smooth-talking someone into bed, no deceptions or lies. And it’s probably a lot healthier than having several one-night stands/sleeping around? | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 2:46:09 PM | I think Mr Grumpy said it very nicely...they are a friend and a lover, and it's a little derogatory to call them F**k Buddy.
It's better to be honest with someone you want to sleep with, though see no long term prospect with them, than stringing them along for a few months then dumping them.
We all to a certain degree meet people who for one reason or another are not what we're looking for long term, but they have certain characteristics, attributes etc which makes them extremely attractive...so why not. | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 5:14:04 PM | I had FB for a year after my seperation. I needed to know that I could still have sex confidently after sleeping with the same person for so many years. I didn't think I had any more to learn but trust me I did. I found this person physically attractive and had a great laugh with him. We'd known each other for years anyway so there was never any awkwardness from the word go. We both understood each other well enough to not have to worry about emotional attatchment. After that year I rediscovered myself and found a new confidence in my approach to life, love and happiness. He's a good friend but a born player so we both moved on easily however I know I can knock on his door any time if I choose to.
I think this is a good way to get over a nasty brake up as long as both parties have a good understanding of where they stand.
As for one night stands well I see no harm in that either. Personally am not saying that I've never had one night stands but I don't make a habbit of bed hopping with strangers. This is where men and women differ me thinks. I am choosy even if it's just for sex but from what i've seen most men are not to choosy as long as they get there end away. Each to their own at the end of the day. | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 5:40:03 PM | Hi fellow forums fans... I have never had a **** buddy either !! had one nights stands way back when tho. I am also an avid sex an city fan & like the idea. if I meet some one & have good sex with them BUT would be totally impossible to ever try having a proper r/ship with them I wouldn't say NO to good sex. Who would ?? Just at least until some thing better showed up perhaps. ??  What dya reckon. ?  | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/14/2008 6:00:13 PM | dear bootilicious ; never had a fu.. buddy turn into a serious r/ship no - but have had it the other way round {a long time ago}. A long term / proper, loving r/ship turned into a f..k buddy situation - Which was great for a while, then upsetting !! ?? ha haaaaaa   | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/15/2008 1:16:01 PM | | isn't it just to adults that enjoy havin sex but don't want to have a relationship with one another. its not like an open relationship where you both have different parteners . its sex wid no strings attached just wid that one person. Some people prefer it that way. its a called a 'booty call' now innit lol | |
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| What makes someone a potential F>ck Buddy & Not Relationship Matieral?
Posted: 10/15/2008 1:27:25 PM |
...and how do you select one person as a F>ck buddy and distinguish them between someone you would be happy to date?
Havent read all responses,but....
A F>ck buddy is maybe someone you are happy to f>uck, whose company you probably enjoy and who is probably a good f>ck but whom you have no intention of introducing to your friends and family because THEY may think this person is not quite your standard... just my thoughts... no, no, not bitter or anything.... | |
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