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 Vitiate

Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 2/3/2007 9:17:32 PM
Women's bodies turn on other women too...straight or otherwise...a beautiful female body is like fine art.

A man's body on the other hand, does NOTHING for other straight guys. And having one thrown in the mix to see while you're trying to nail the fine art is just out of place.

Never said I wouldn't try it...but for personal reasons (most likely jealousy issues) I'd rather be the invited "extra" than the bf of whoever was the recipient of the pig roast.
 couplessharing

Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:04:10 PM
I think a lot of guys are curious about the idea of being in a mmf, but are afraid because of the implications about their sexual orientation. Guys are less open in general to being bi, its either gay or straight in their book....and being gay would make them less of a man (from a guys perspective, not mine). I have been attracted to women and men equally all my life, so I can't say much about getting over the female stigma.

Jenni
 Mato1970

Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 2/3/2007 11:16:24 PM
Personally, I would rather have one woman who is woman enough to please me on her own--without any outside help.
 Bubbles27

Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 2/4/2007 12:35:51 AM
I have no desire to have 2 men at once. Only if they focused all their attention on me. I wouldn't even want 2 naked men that close to each other.
 tinbanger59

Joined: 12/28/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 2/4/2007 12:55:17 AM
wether it is fmf , or mfm, it is all about pleasure , and enjoyment , if the girls are into it , the guy will be too , if the guys are into it so will the girl , and by the way .... 2 guys can be naked and have sex with a girl without being GAY , lol , two real guys (men ) can even touch
 Whataday

Joined: 5/6/2006
Msg: 31
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Posted: 2/4/2007 1:01:19 AM
Bubbles, just imagine what two guys could do with your hot bod
 Bubbles27

Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 2/4/2007 1:02:49 AM
One man does enough for me!! lol
I can't get past the idea they might touch at some point, and that doesn't do it for me.
 WakeDan

Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 2/4/2007 3:36:13 AM
it doesnt do it for most people.

I cant even watch guys kiss in a movie. i have to shield my eyes.

but the rewind button is wore off for all the girl/girl scenes in movies haha.
 diego_male

Joined: 2/18/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 2/4/2007 6:35:36 AM
I've done both. the 2 females and me was more enjoyable for me. the 2 males and 1 female was more enjoyable for her. No I am not gay and as long as sword control is praticed there is no chance of sword crossing.

David
 caroldarling

Joined: 11/16/2006
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Posted: 2/4/2007 6:48:47 AM
Well, you are a self-assured man! I love that!
 caroldarling

Joined: 11/16/2006
Msg: 36
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Posted: 2/4/2007 6:51:24 AM
Yes, I think the visual of 2 men is just not getting it! 2 women is a site to see....and of course it has to be most every man's fantasy....or reality, if they are so lucky!
 Bwitching_Bella

Joined: 12/11/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 2/4/2007 7:18:55 AM
I'm not into threesome at all....
One on One is more my style besides I don't think I could get the image of the man
I love doing another girl ={

Well unless a threesome with George Clooney can be arranged

Bella
 twoshadows

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 2/4/2007 10:35:33 AM
I've done MMF a few times. Set the ground rules ahead of time,stay at opposite ends and it can be a lot of fun.
 brianontario

Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 2/4/2007 10:41:07 AM
i would do mfm if she was willing to do mff. its only fair
 r90sboxer

Joined: 9/18/2005
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Posted: 2/4/2007 10:47:39 AM
Once again a bit of a yawn.Lets hear from all the MMM or FFF threesomes telling us all to go to hell and leave them alone so they can have some fun.
 mro666

Joined: 11/5/2006
Msg: 41
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Posted: 2/4/2007 11:18:29 AM
well, even though a 2 woman on one man threesome is just about every guy's fantasy, a lot of times fantasies are best left as that.

if you really care about a person, you should WANT to invite another person into your bed, that's just sick.

oh, and guys that participate in 2 guys on one girl threesomes are GAY! :D
if they say they arent, they're deluded.

 colt8301

Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 2/4/2007 11:50:49 AM
To me, i don't like the whole threesome thing period, but with a another dude, there is this rule in the book "my rule book" that there is a techincal foul when there are too many d***s in the room and two is too many, besides snakes, do you see alot of more than one male with the girl, nope i rest my case.
 bandit_37_1999

Joined: 7/16/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 2/4/2007 1:14:51 PM
too funny,,want a foursome? lol
 bandit_37_1999

Joined: 7/16/2006
Msg: 44
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Posted: 2/4/2007 1:16:47 PM
been there done that bought the t-shirt , one on one is better ..more focused attention..i multitask well but on one woman is always better and im not the sharing type lol
 jo~

Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 2/4/2007 1:25:37 PM
All I can say is.......YOU .....ahem......men..... ALL must be hung like Ron Jeremy ......And for the.....ahem......women ...........You ALL must be lacking self confidence and self love..........JMFO
 Thattallguy

Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 46
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Posted: 2/4/2007 1:47:07 PM
Its about Choice.


If a woman decides she wants another woman, thats her choice. And if the guy is ok with that, thats his choice. If a woman wants another man and the man is ok with that, its their choice.


As for the bias, I can only explain this as the difference of the sexes. Women are more open to the same sex more so than men are. For the most part I can't even count the number of bi-sex/curious women I know of, but on one finger I can think of the number of men who I know are bi-sex/curious. While the number of gay men may be much much higher than the number of gay women, when it comes to bisexualty its completly reversed.
 Nogoodnames

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 47
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Posted: 2/4/2007 2:55:51 PM
I'd threesome either way... Having another guy in the room doesn't mean you are gay. It's not like you are doing anything to the guy. Why bother getting all pissy about it?

I couldn't threesome with a woman that i loved and another guy. It would absolutely kill me to watch her being shagged by another fella.
 Confident-Realist

Joined: 2/8/2004
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Posted: 2/4/2007 3:07:36 PM
Men and women are different people, even on the sexual level. Women in general are more open to making out with another woman than a guy is to another guy. In fact, straight guys won't do it for a free margarita and attention like straight women will. It's a whole different ballgame -- and no, it's not "just due to society". We are different.

A threesome doesn't require two people of the same sex making out (or more), and I'm sure not all women who've done 2F-1M threesomes were all-out bi or gay, but getting involved in the whole thing requires being open to seeing another guy plow the woman who's gagging on you. It's something most guys won't want to do on the same girl unless she's REALLY HOT and we're REALLY DRUNK... where as many women may like the experience as they're more physically close to other women than guys are to guys.
 Meer Kat

Joined: 5/31/2006
Msg: 49
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Posted: 2/4/2007 3:30:41 PM
OP: I have wondered that very same thing. I have dated two men that were not the least bit interested in MFF but were quite interested in MMF. I guess it depends on the person. I wasn't interested in either. Maybe that explains why I am not dating them anymore. LOL

Kat
 prolibertate

Joined: 9/11/2005
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Posted: 2/4/2007 3:54:38 PM

but when its with 2 guys its all about the male orgasim and less respect


Oh yeah, being with two women is all about respect, lol...and people wonder why it's men that come up with this garbage, lol.
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