| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/7/2007 5:37:13 PM | Well there are quite a few opinions out there, but i have had a threesome, admittedly with my twin brother a few years ago and the experience was very satisfying, it was his girlfriend and no we didnt invovle each other too much, but yeah i can recommend it for you guys out there.....
And i was lucky enough to experience it the other way too last year with a couple of girls who i worked with and wanted to try a new experience. It was just as much unorganised is the best way to put it, who does what when. They were not about playing with each other as waiting for the attention from me as i had to work twice as hard.....
All in all 2 blokes is alot easier to deal with in a threesome and twice the fun for a girl, but twice the work for a bloke the other way around...... so there......
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/8/2007 1:11:10 PM | Well there are quite a few opinions out there, but i have had a threesome, admittedly with my twin brother a few years ago and the experience was very satisfying, it was his girlfriend and no we didnt invovle each other too much, but yeah i can recommend it for you guys out there.....
IMHO....There is just something wrong with having a threesome with your own blood. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/8/2007 1:46:49 PM | Woooow this is a good one Thanks ~OP~
Many years ago, '73 till '77 ............. Long before all this was so open. I had the gift of being in a relationship with 2 girls at the same time and we all lived together. Sex was as open and honest as is possible, but never was it mentioned that another man join us.
Myself, I'm not bi-sexual they were and still are are. I think that is the main reason that men do not wish to be involved in a MFM relationship. There is almost no way to have sex in a MFM situation without pink parts rubbing, oooooooo sure you could with one at each end kinda thing and I might go for that, but experience tells me that when a woman wants a 3 some with 2 men as a norm she wants to be penetrated by both men on the same end. To find a man that is ok with that and have him not be bi ....... well not sure that is possible.
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/8/2007 2:21:27 PM | | Since when have straight guys been consistent about anything? They often condemn homosexualtiy and then go and look at magazines containing females engaged in homosexual acts. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/8/2007 2:53:45 PM | Well first off I'm new here and just wanted to say HI to everyone.
Now before I actually answer the question I just wanted to say something.
I seriously don't understand why men like bisexual women. Most of the reason women become (if not 80% of the reason) bisexual, is because they know that men like it.
Lets be honest though, men don't really give a shit about that type of a women. They just look at them as a piece of sexual meat (wow that kind of sounds gay coming from a guy, but true)
They also don’t' understand the physiological consequences that a women may go through.
It’s not like Hollywood portrays it.
If you have a girlfriend or wife how can you allow her to do that? Obviously you don't love her. How can you?
Any man that gets his girlfriend or wife to do bisexual acts does not really love his girlfriend/wife, because you would be hurt just the same if not worse then her doing it with another man. Basically what I'm trying to say. Wake up to all the girls out there that think there boyfriend/husbands love them when they ask them to do something like that. Don’t mix sexual desires and love together.
Anyway, sorry about that I had to get that out in the open.
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If a guy wants to have a threesome with another woman then he shouldn't have a problem with another man. **** that, if I forced my girlfriend into a threesome with another women. I would definably repay the favor with another man. You should be open to both ideas. If the man says that he is homophobic. Girls laugh at him, because he’s basically saying I don’t give a shit if you are not a lesbian, I’m not gay. How is that ok?
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/8/2007 4:11:36 PM | There will always be bias against it, just as there will always be more porn directed towards men than women... (or maybe our gender can take a stand and get that corrected! LOL) It's been a fantasy for many men for all time..and has always been more socially acceptable. Times are changing, but they're not changing fast enough for most of us today... Do I agree with the bias? Nope, I sure don't. Would I allow a guy to 'force' me into a threesome? No..I wouldn't.
If you're comfortable with it, and want to go for it..go for it. If you want a threesome with two men..go for that too. I think..maybe I'm dead wrong...but I think much of the hype is just the actual 'taboo' thought that goes with it..the whole 'kink' factor..and the fantasy that's dreamed up. Sure, people will talk about it, and even desire it, but not all HAVE to have it happen... Conversely, there are those that won't live without it...leave them to be with people that feel the same. It's all about choices when it comes down to it...
As long as we're humans with two separate genders, there are going to be biases in evey facet of our lives... We have the power within ourselves to reduce their overall effects.. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/8/2007 4:30:03 PM | | I've had a couple threesomes and they have all been MMF, so I have no issue with it. I've yet to have a MFF. Lately I've been more interested in 4 or 5-somes...but I guess that's another thread all together. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/8/2007 4:32:35 PM | | Many men are homophobic so the the 2 guys and 1 girl thing ain't gonna happen typically. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/9/2007 11:58:45 PM | | I am straight. I have no homophobic bias, but its not for me. I have been in more than one MFM threesomes. The other guy(s) was straight too. The female had her fantasy fulfilled and loved it. Not a big deal to get upset about ..... nothing homophobic about it. It was for the lady and about the lady....nothing more or less and very erotic. I have been in a FMF threesome with 2 straight females. They did not "do" each other and it was fun. I have been in them where the females "did" each other and that was fun too. Its a matter of what is acceptable to the parties onvolved and knowing the others involved well enough to engage in the activity. Its only homophobic if thats what you want. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/14/2007 2:16:33 PM | I agree. I do think that it should be open for discussion, but 50 styles has it right when he describes the difference physically. Women are soft and smell nice, and we really aren't shy when it comes to touching eachother... we play w/ eachother's hair and dress together and what not. Guys really don't touch eachother or cuddle etc. It really does make them feel gay(ish) to be next to another naked guy. just my opinion.
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 2/14/2007 2:51:21 PM | | I have enjoyed the pleasure of a threesome on two different occasions and both were MFM. Neither of the guys were gay or even interested in that. We were both about giving the lady what she wanted which was her husband and someone else in a safe environment. I have never had the opportunity to enjoy a FMF, but don't think I would say no if asked to. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 6/1/2007 4:38:54 PM | actually, i lost my virginity in a mmf threesome.
the other guy was a friend. anyway, we were in a bar downtown and met his older brother and his friends. one of the girls was known for her liberal proclivities. so the group get me and my buddy wasted on tequila and send us to walk her home.
i;m in the kitchen with her making coffee. we come out and my friend is lying on her bed in his underwear.
we exhausted her a bit. we were teens wired on tequila and caffeine. it was fun. she was on the bed on her back with her shoulders and head on the headboard. we took turns but were in her at the same time. every now and then one of us would yell "switch". | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 6/1/2007 10:51:49 PM | MMF had nothing to do with being gay. I have been in A MMF situation and there was no guy to guy activity, she got all the attention :) . Im not gay and have no interest in going there.
Some guys are just not comfortable in a MMF threesome, maybe it is insecurities, preference, or what ever. To each there own I guess.
Women are usually more comfortable with other females, so maybe the FFM situations are more common, i have met some women who are not gay but have been with other women, just an experience i guess.
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 6/2/2007 12:51:03 AM | | I would rather date a man that has had or would want to experience something like that. I actually am turned on by men who are bi or bi curious. Why not, it's so friggin hot. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 6/2/2007 2:58:05 AM | I would agree, MMF has nothing to do with being gay. I have been in that situation many times and with no man-to-man activity. But for the woman it is a hugh high as she gets all the attention, what i have noticed is this type of 3 sum is more common with the 40's, and i think this is becuase they are much more relaxed with themselves.
But with the FFM, younger woman are more comfort able with another woman, as they get to control the man.
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 6/2/2007 5:35:01 AM | | Well I have been with two men(both Bi) and a man and a woman(she was bi) and both times it was awesome and look forward to more of it. The options are endless and the turn on is amazing. Don t knock it unless you have tried it. | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 6/2/2007 6:35:10 AM | The 'bias' is fairly easy to explain.
The 'ole "Macho Man" BS stream runs pretty DEEP.
Spelled a bit differently it comes out... "Fragile Egos R Us". | |
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Posted: 6/2/2007 6:46:57 AM | My ex always wanted a 3-some. I told him he could bring another woman into our bed the day after we had another man. Needless to say, it never got that far!  | |
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Posted: 6/2/2007 7:00:53 AM | That is a cool answer, i must remember that one.
But what if he had of said ok we can have both at the sametime!
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Posted: 6/2/2007 7:05:33 AM | | Maybe I would have gone though with it (have already had a 2-gril threesome before). But I knew I was safe. He was a Latino filled with machismo. No way was a man getting in our bed! | |
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| Threesomes...why the bias?
Posted: 6/2/2007 6:16:07 PM | Why the bias mmmm ok why the bias in other areas of life like for example when two parents get divorced whp most likeley gets the kids the mother, if a man and a woman are at home who has to answer the door should a serial killer come knocking its the man, these are just a couple of differences i point out and why may you ask well hello man and woman are different.
A few have said here that if a man wants a threesome with two chicks he should be open to one with two guys, well sorry ladys not so not many men respect a woman who does that with two guys it has nothing to do with homophobia (well maybe for some) he basically just thinks of her as a whore and he has every right to just like a woman has the right to think of a man as being dirty for having one with two chicks, woman dont tend to think like us tho cos hello we are different, i think if anything she will think more of him as from our early ancestors woman will share a man who is dominant but a man being dominant wont share.
Really we could go all day at this one for the reasons behind this but it really dosnt matter, just like the poor man left crying cos he's wife has taken the kids from him which we know may not be fair but thats the way society is and for that man it isnt really a matter of that being right or wrong but his wife gets custody of the kids and unfortunatly thats just to f@#%&ng bad but for his ex wife thats just one of her joys of being a woman i guess.
Well just like that a mans ability to have threesomes with two chicks and to not be looked at in disgust is just one of his joys of being a man im not saying thats fair or not or should be fair but thats just the way it is and im sorry but thats just to f@#%*ng bad, we man accept the unfairness in life dealt to us but woman have to just cause so much of a stir over these things , get used to it cause it isnt gunna change anytime soon or change it and as for changing it ill come back to another one of (just many) societys unfairnesses which is the the farther who had his kids taken away i say the same thing to you woman as ill sa to him you can try to change it and good luck to you.
Get a life, its unfair but compared to all the other double standards there are in life for men and woman this is one unfairness you can easly get over im sure ladys and its much easier than alot of other things all as you have to do is get your hand off your clit and stop thinking about two****, if thats so hard for woman to understand then i give up, im sorry but so many woman winge about so much shit and think there so hard done buy when there are other things they should consider men are proberly just as hard done buy, but we dont seem to winge as much.
I hope this sheds light. | |
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