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Posted: 2/6/2007 11:09:31 AM | | Tell these "friends" there is a time and place for everything, neither of which is when they are at your house in your bedroom. Tell them to get their own room, not yours, and inform them they are not invited back to your home. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 11:10:34 AM | Maybe I'm just a little less strung than some ~ because although I find their actions were disrespectful and overtly tacky ~ it's not the end of the world. And I do wonder ~ how drunk were they?  | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 11:35:00 AM | call me a tight ass, but i don't think it's respectful for "friends" to clandestinely or otherwise get naked and bump uglies on my property.  | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 11:54:16 AM | If that is the OPs idea of friends I would say that you need to take a step back.
Anyone who would disrespect me like that would be shown out. Both out of the door and out of my life. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 11:54:23 AM | | i'd say it exceeds my 'ick factor' tolerance level. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 12:07:08 PM | | BEST FRIEND: A REAL FRIEND WILL ASSIST YOU AND WITH UNCONDITIONAL ASSISTANCE. tHERE IS NEVER NOTHING FINAL BETWEEN FRIENDS. A FRIEND IS THE ONE WHO WILL ALWAYS UNDERSTAND NO MATTER IF YOU DID THE RIGHT THING OR YOU DID THE WRONG THING, THEY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE, THEY MAY DISAGREE WITH THE WRONG, BUT TO ERROR IS ONLY HUMAN. A FRIEND WILL BE THERE AND COME IN WHEN THE WHOLE WORLD HAS GONE OUT...........................i HAVE A BEST FRIEND AND WE TRUELY LOVE AND CARE ABOUT EACH OTHER THERE ISN'T ANYTHING WE WOULDN'T DO FOR EACH OTHER. IF SHE DID WRONG AND I DISAGREED AND SOME HOW I WAS PUT IN THE POSITION THAT IN ORDER TO PROTECT HER I HAD TO TELL A LIE FOR HER...I WOULD.. I WOULD UNCONDITIONAL ASSIST HER. I MAY CHEW HER A$$ AFTERWARDS. I MAY BE MAD OR UPSET, BUT IT WOULD NOT CHANGE ANYTHING AS FAR AS OUR TRUE FRIENDSHIP GOES, AND THEY DID IT IN YOUR ROOM, AND WENT AGAINST YOUR WORD, SO YOU SAVED HER OR HIM THE COST OF A MOTEL, WHAT ARE REAL FRIENDS FOR? MUST I GO ON? I HAVE A REAL BEST FRIEND AND THAT SISUTATION IS TRIVAL TO OUR FRIENDSHIP. I AM 47 YEARS OLD SHE HAS BEEN MY BEST FRIEND SINCE 9TH GRADE THATS 33 YEARS. WE HAVE DONE SOME REALLY CRAZY THINGS AND DARING THINGS TO HELP EACH OTHER THREW OUT THE YEARS, THINGS THAT NEITHER ONE OF US MAY HAVE HAD THE COURAGE TO DO ALONE. FEELINGS COME FROM WITHIN, MINE DO AND IF I DIDN'T REACT THEN, THEN IT WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN THAT BIG OF A DEAL SO WHY POUNDER ON IT NOW. UNLESS YOU NEED TO ALL RE-EVALUATE IF THAT IS YOUR BEST TWO FRIENDS OR NOT. I'M SORRY I DON'T SAY THIS TO BE SMART BUT SINCERITY, FAITHFULLNESS, SUPPORTED, UNCONDITIONA IS THE KEY WORD TO TRUE BEST FRIENDS.......THEY SAY IF YOU FIND ONE TRUE FRIEND IN YOUR LIFE TIME YOU ARE BLESSED. I AM BLESSED AND THANKFUL. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 12:10:43 PM | | WOW WHAT A FRIEND I CAN'T HELP IT I CAN SEE TELLING THEM WHAT YOU SAY IF YOU FEEL THAT BUT TO TELL THEM THEY ARE NOT INVITED BACK REMEMBER IT DOES SAY BEST FRIENDS, NO BACK BONE IN YOU AS A FRIEND .THIS MAY BE A OLD THREAD BUT MY GOODNESS ALL OF YOU IF A PERSON DOES SOMETHING WRONG YOU SAY FORGET YOU i'M OUT OF HERE! YOUR NOT MY FRIEND ANYMORE! WOW I'M GLAD YOU GUYS ARE NOT MY FRIENDS HAY i RATHER BE DISLIKED FOR WHO i AM THEN LIKED FOR WHO I AM NOT. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 12:12:19 PM | | Yeah, I would tell them if they wanted to spend time alone together, they should do it someplace else. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 12:29:02 PM | HEY WHITEMAGNOLIA I NEVER SAID TO DITCH THE FRIEND. please stop shouting
This is a no-brainer.
I wouldn't get into fights with my gf and go to my friend's home to have make-up sex.
I would expect my friends to have similar dispositions.
My friends wouldn't expect my domicile to be their "Boogie Motel" whenever they had make-up sex.
I don't want another dude's man-seed all over my comforter.
I don't want another woman spreading her legs all over my bedsheets.
I don't want the by-products of their love-making left behind in my bedroom.
I would UNCONDITIONALLY expect my friends to have a certain "couth".
This isn't the the free-love 60s anymore.
WOW WHAT A FRIEND Exactly. What a friend to totally disrespect my space and my property by sexing it AFTER I TOLD THEM HELL NO DON'T DO IT IN MY HOME. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 12:47:29 PM | WhiteMagnolia
It is not he fact that they had sex there. It is the fact that they had sex there after the friend told them NO. That is the disrespect everyone is getting at. What kind of friend disrespects their friend like that. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 1:04:42 PM |
LMAO ... I know that can't be funny to you, but I envisioned them in your room having wild monkey sex and you sitting in the livingroom all alone with a bewildered look on your face like ...
"WTF? ... What is happening here?"
LOL Glad I'm not the only one. In my visual they walked from the front door to the bedroom without saying anything. LMAO | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 3:14:40 PM | Thanks for the support guys.
I thought that both of them were my best friends, clearly I was wrong. I was so pissed, I couldnt say a word.
Him I dont really mind not ever talking to again. Too many times he proved to me that our friendship wasnt as important to him that it was to me.
But her, I work with her and we get along so well. We did talk a bit about it, and she did say that she was stupid and appoligized. She sworn that they didnt have intercourse, that it was just fooling around...but only god knows waht happened in there.
But yet I cant seem to get over it, and I dont think I should. I just want to be sure I am not over reacting. | |
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Posted: 2/6/2007 3:42:40 PM | | I am at loss for words here. People have no respect for others any more. i would have no problem to stop talking with these folks. That was total disrespect for you. | |
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