| Guys mentioning sex too soon
Posted: 4/18/2007 7:24:18 AM | I think it depends on what you are looking for. If people are looking for intimate encounters, then the subject would be there right from the start. For myself, I am looking for a long term relationship, so I would only broach the subject or expect him to do so after we had gotten to know each other and progressed in a relationship. I think when you start with that, you don't bother getting to know the person, and whether or not you like them. It's already on the table  so to speak! | |
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| Guys mentioning sex too soon
Posted: 4/18/2007 8:37:57 AM | | if they wanna get lucky with me they'd better be good and patient. i'd hurry to hump no one i want to really be with. if thats their ultimate goal, its better that you can get them out of your life without ever meeting them. | |
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| Guys mentioning sex too soon
Posted: 4/24/2007 7:09:44 AM | | But it is a double-edged sword too. Women claim it's a turn-off for men to talk about sex, but they are expecting it and if the guy doesn't, good bye! When I chat with women I make it a point to say that I don't want or desire normal sex with them. Well, I get the "You must be a real weirdo" speech. But for a normal guy not to bring up the subject of sex with a woman is like a woman going to the mall and not wanting to shop! | |
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| Guys mentioning sex too soon
Posted: 4/25/2007 9:58:17 PM | You say you want men to be honest...? well we want sex, so what's your problem?
if you want a guy to be a gentelman hes also going to be a lier.
So do you want an honest guy or a gentleman | |
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| Guys mentioning sex too soon
Posted: 10/29/2007 9:33:38 PM | Ohhhh....*vent* *vent*
Just yesterday, I took the "unhide" off my profile after being out of commission for a few weeks. Within the first few hours, I received my first psychogram! Oh yes, the joys of reintegrating myself within the general POF population. 
The guy IM'ed me and we chit-chatted for less than 5 minutes. Then he feels the need to let me know that he could "get sex anytime he wanted". Yippy. Skippy.
So, I told him that I thought that was lovely but it was time for me to log off. I wished him luck in his search. (Notice I was polite and didn't tell him what I really thought.)
Then, I receive this email informing me that I'm arrogant, thick-headed and....I didn't read any more and blocked the guy instantly. Now, I'm accustomed to guys implying that I'm thick-headed. Actually, isn't that a veiled compliment within the context of online dating?! But arrogant? Because I saw right through him? That's just over the top...
Urf. What a nice welcome back to online dating.... | |
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