| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 5/24/2007 4:12:45 AM | | Well.. In my past few years i have dated only older women.. As they are easy going, mature, no games, speak their heart, comfortable ... For me its the same.. since i am a lot mature for my age i prefer to be with someone older than me.. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 5/30/2007 4:59:55 PM | Hey sweetie. You are being bashed for having a legit question. The fact of the matter is that most older women have children your age. It is just not normal for most of us to want to sleep with a man that is the same age as our children. If you look in the right places you will find many younger woman, your age, that are quite mature. Trust me sweetheart, women my age would eat you up.
Now my question to you and all the other young men that hit on me is WHY? God if I could be 19 again...
You will find the one for you. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 7/1/2007 1:14:27 AM | | Hi my name is Mike I am taking care with cousty of my 2 red headed boys . I will be 40 in Aug and I allways dated older women . They are more mature , dont play games , and sence they are older they know their own bodies . That is what the sex part of dating a older women is the best . Older women really know how to treat a man. They are careing and giving to soooooo much love and life . Which a guy like me urines for. They are great all around . As a guy like me that likes to kiss ,cuddle love to be with as a best friend is like being in heaven.If you are a older women you should try a guy like me that is full of love . Thank you Mike | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 7/2/2007 11:03:26 AM | you are talking about Cougars: older women who dig young guys.
If you have to ask the question, "Why don't older women date younger guys?" then you are not old enough to date them and you probably never will be.
get a dog | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 7/2/2007 11:13:01 AM | let expand a little...my last post was a little mean.
If you come across as even a little self-conscious then you are done with the older crowd.
If you come across as indecisive, you are done.
If you come across as whiny, you are done.
You must show confidence first and then have the ability to be indifferent to what the outside world might think....even a little**** helps.
There are a lot of older women out there who would love to have a good time, but the second you come off like a little boy, you are done.
I have seen other posts on this thread talk about "older women don't play games". Very true, keep that in mind when it is YOU who is trying to play. Leave the bullshit at the door.
Hope this helps. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 7/12/2007 2:09:35 PM | | Honey you are just picking women that are too much older than you are. I have grandsons your age. Secondly you aren't even 21 yet. What could you possibly offer a woman my age? What common experiences could you possible bring into a serious relationship with an older woman unless you are looking for a mother figure? | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 7/24/2007 4:15:16 PM | | Nighynurse he had mentioned up to 45 yr old ladies,your 57,I don't believe he meant that age,ofcourse he couldn't offer you anything,and ofcourse you have grandkids older than him,45 was pushing it I agree,but 57 is a big difference from 45,well its triple his age,he wasn't talking about older grandparents I'm sure,hes talking Cathrine Zeta Jones type older lady ofcourse shes only 39,thats the fantasy pic he has in his head | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 7/26/2007 10:08:02 AM | | Well darling thats because you didn't know he emailed me. So he's not limiting himself to women under 45. He's casting too big of a net. And that was exactly my point I am a grandmother and have a grandson who is 18. So I wasn't just horning in with no frame of reference. So I would have to seriously question his process for selection of women to contact. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 10/29/2007 8:37:37 PM | | I just got onto this site, and happened onto this old discussion, and maybe nobody cares anymore...but I will tell you that I am a 36 yo woman, and I would happily date a younger man, if he was really and truly mature, and looking for the same things in life as I am. I think that loves comes in many, many forms and faces. Why limit yourself? If you are truly compatible, than who cares how old you are (within reason, and within the law of course...!) Why place artificial limits on love? | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 3/2/2008 3:56:25 AM | | Theres nothing wrong in dating someone older. I'm 46 and I have dated younger and older. When I was 40 I dated a younger man who was 24 for 6 months and when I was 42 I dated a 26 year old for a year. I have dated ages from 24 to 58 and I believe it all depends on the man. As for women not interested in it, well as the old saying goes "different strokes for different folks" theres nothing you can do about it. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 4/25/2008 9:16:17 AM | | I met one woman on POF that told me she only dated younger men and gave me the reason. Hinted that they were more active in the bedroom. I just listened and never even bothered to say if I was or was not active in the bedroom. Now, is that why women date younger men, just for the sex? | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 4/25/2008 9:19:38 AM | | not all of us. i like younger men because i get along better with them. we can laugh and really have a good time. alot of the younger men are more grown up than the older men. jsut what i have gathered from chats. i do not act my age by far and young men and me hit it off quite well. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 4/25/2008 9:39:35 AM | | Kitten, take this as a compliment. You don't look your age. With the one I talked about and others, you might be an exception to the ones I've come across here. This is just my experience and might not apply to all. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 6/7/2008 9:35:22 AM | Just off the top of my head, I'd say the reason older women don't want to mess with younger men is cause they don't want to babysit. A man's idea of mature is totally different from a woman's idea of mature. But I could be wrong.
My ex was 6 years younger than me...the older he got in age, the younger he got in reality. By the time I left, I felt like Mommy, but was relegated to the position of Kid. After all,,,,he was so mature. 
Is it kosher to trade the "younger " guy in every time they get uppity like a little kid?
In actuality, wouldn't mind having a relationship with a younger one....less health probs, more energy. But there's that darned midlife crisis the younger ones have to go thru. Pain in the ass. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 6/7/2008 9:42:41 AM | | personally I think the younger men are wonderful. I would date them if I liked them. the guy I fell for yrs ago online was 12 yrs younger than me. And he was the sweetest , kindest thing God could have created. I do not let age interfer unless the persons age is too far off like 18, 19 or 20 since i am 41. I really dont wnat anyone under the age of 26 | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 7/11/2008 9:42:55 PM | | I JUST WANT TO SAY I AM 38 YEARS OLD AND HAVE DATED ONLY 1 GUY MY AGE IN THE LAST 5 YEARS. I LOVE A YOUNGER MAN... I JUST RECENTLY BROKE OFF A RELATIONSHIP WITH A 25 YEAR OLD WHO I LOVED DEARLY. OUR AGE WAS NOT THE PROBLEM AND WE HAD A VERY ACTIVE AND FULFILLING LOVE FOR EACH OTHER. BUT.... HE HAD TO RETURN TO HIS HOME STATE AND I DIDN'T WANT A LONG DISTANT RELATIONSHIP.. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 8/6/2008 6:56:18 PM | I have dated younger men and here is a few reasons not to:
1) When I drink my morning coffee I don't want to see someone setting across from me eating cocoa puffs. ( my son is grown)
2) When I come home I don't want to see clothes from where he played basketball all day on the floor. Nor do I want to come in and find him playing video games instead of working and sharing in the bills.
3) I don't need for someone whom I don't know to ask me if that is my son, nor ask if I happen to be his mother.
4) If I want to go some where he has to be of age ( casinos) I don't want to turn around and come home, nor do I want a bunch of young thugs hanging in my home.
My ex is 11 years younger than me and we had great fun and that was all it was fun! If I want to have fun then I will go see my neices or nephews. I also want to say right here I don't want to correct their spelling , if you want some one older go back to school and get an education, learn not to put persons whom you know nothing about down. If you want a mother go home. | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 8/11/2008 6:17:58 PM | | i think older will love to be with young men but they think about there age because i was with couple older women they will be like i wish i much younger ok love older women because they know how take care of there men i did not mean a sugar mama because as most see y with older w he have sugar mama some time maybe but to keep me the sex got to good and for me older women are better ok trust me | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 8/11/2008 7:23:02 PM | I can tell you why. Because usually they just want someone to take care of them like their mothers and will eventually leave you for a younger women. Not a problem, if your older and can help one female get a break, then its worth it. Although your right about one thing females do have a higher sex drive at older ages, probably because they are no longer wanting to have children and basically hormones.
Not at all bitter just telling the truth, people change every 1o years or so. What you think you want when your 20 is not the same as what you want when your 30, 40, 50 etc.....
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 8/15/2008 7:25:37 PM | On a personal level, I've never had a "serious" relationship with a younger guy (not that it can't happen). I've been out of the dating market since I was in my early 30s, though, so now that I'm in my 40s I would probably stretch to, maybe, ten years younger than me. My DDH (who was older than me) had a son who is now 28, though, so dating guys in their 20s would feel... odd to me.
As for the "sex" thing... well, younger guys have nature on their side as far as hormones and such, but I do like an older guy's tendency (if he's a nice older guy) to spend a lot of time on foreplay, which includes romancing and conversation as well as the slow hand. I'm much less in a hurry to get to home base, I like to enjoy the journey around the diamond.
Now, I've met some older guys who don't have any problem knocking it out of the park, though, and in the strangest places! So you can't really generalize, but I don't honestly believe a guy is who he is supposed to be until he's at least 25, maybe 30 in some cases. | |
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