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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 10/29/2008 4:20:05 PM | I'm 21 and I'm purely talking with a greek MILF in my city, she's 47! You have to have confidence and you have to be strong I guess, lots of older women like younger men. Maybe you just have to have that "thing" about u, it's probably confidence and even lots of intelligence in women and people. They don't necessarily want slow passionate sex, maybe you're whole mindset about that isn't right since EVERY1 is different!!! some chicks no matter how old or young, they might want rough passionate sex or I don't know. Anyways, just to say it's not impossible to find an older woman, just be a man you'll find one | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 12/14/2008 5:05:04 PM | Well, I can say that I am an older woman and I only want to date younger men. I have a very difficult time though, finding a younger man of quality and substance. I don't one some flighty unsure of himself and his desires "boy". I want a younger MAN.
All too often guys that proclaim an interest in older women ae curious and looking for a quick hookup and not a woman to date, get to know, and thoroughly enjoy. A lot of the guys eventually admit that they think older women are an "easy mark" and that because of our age and lack of "marital status" we are in some way DESPERATE for male companionship. I am never desperate.
I simply find that I do not nearly as much in common with guys my age as I do with men in their 20's and 30's. I also find that the guys my age are boring and have difficulty keeping up with me. I just can't do night after night after night with a guy of cooking dinner and watching him doze on the sofa, be glued to some sports event, or cnn and me left to entertain myself while he does these things! If I have to entertain myself ... I may as well be alone.
And no, I am not a "high maintenance" woman. My main thing with a guy, any guy, is time with him. And I am very easy on what we do together.
So? Where are all the young men of substance?
Peace!
Amy
Baton Rouge, LA | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 12/20/2008 7:00:10 AM | I hear you Amy! I feel exactly the same way and am in the same position as you. In addition I find myself being judged by my peers because I'm attracted to younger men, which I find extremely frustrating. It seems to me that society deems it both acceptable and normal for older men to date much younger women, but heaven forbid an older woman wanting to date younger men! I am sick to death of people having problems with me enjoying the company of younger men.
Let me clarify something - I am not attracted to younger men because of their "stamina" etc (although that is an added bonus) - I am attracted because I look, feel and act much younger than my 38 years and I relate on their level. I have pretty much always found the guys my own age (and sometimes even several years younger) to be old, boring and set in their ways, and I much prefer the company of guys who share my interests and enthusiasm for getting out and enjoying life. Of course, they must also have the prerequisites of maturity, integrity, substance and intellect, and I absolutely can't consider being with someone who can't communicate effectively, both in person and the written word (what is going on with grammar and spelling these days?!). I'm sure there are plenty of younger guys out there who possess those qualities, but where are they? Already in relationships? Gay? In the priesthood?
As much as I have thing for younger men, I also have a bit of a problem with them; I am pretty much always approached by much younger men because they think I'm in their age bracket, and yes, there are some who think I am "the older woman" (ie they are 20 and think I'm 24) and they want to hook up for that reason alone. Luckily I have the level of awareness to pick them from the genuine guys pretty quickly. I just wish I could attract the attention of younger guys a little closer to my own level of maturity and life experience.
I would love nothing more than to go out with a guy somewhere between 28 and my own age (if he's similarly mature yet youthful in appearance and outlook), but for some reason I only ever get hit on by guys in their early 20s or by old men (and I don't have daddy issues so you can imagine how I feel about that)! What I want to know is, where are the decent guys in the mid 20s-30s age bracket?! If there are any guys out there who fit my description above, I'd love to hear from them =) | |
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| Why Dont Older Women Date Mature Young Men?
Posted: 4/2/2009 5:39:35 AM | Mate, like some others have said, I wouldn't worry too much.
With some women, they simply aren't comfortable with the thought of being with a younger guy - either as a sexual relationship or a committed, long term relationship.
Despite there being a lot of women that aren't interested in dating younger men, there are women that are interested.
Personally I seem to attract more older women than younger women. And usually these women are the kind that are either young at heart, look younger than their actual age, and even in some cases prefer younger men themselves.
I have been with several women who actually preffered the younger man to the older men, and also women who had never been with a man younger than themselves before.
It all depends on what kind of woman you're looking for, and it also depends on the woman herself. You must have realised that not all women want to be with a younger man, but trust me, there are women out there that would be interested. You just have to keep searching mate.
The best of luck to you | |
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