| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/26/2009 10:12:26 AM | You are a "fertile myrtle"!
Definitely phone the dude and get his input. He may do the honorable thing and be a dad and he may not. He's at least legally obliged to dole out child support payments. Find out where his head is at before you proceed with suing him for child support.
Are you financially able to support the kid on your own? Any family you can call for babysitting or some other help? I don't want to advocate abortion, but it's your child and your body. Adoption is always an option. Comb the Yellow Pages and begin exploring options.
I know it's too late in this case, but in the future, RELIGIOUSLY make sure your man has a condom on it before he plunges it into you. Trojan Extended Pleasure are very sturdy. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/27/2009 9:28:20 PM | My Friend you are cruel. If there is no storm in your life hold on there is one coming and I hope people give you the same cruel advise. My prayers are that she had the child and it is healthy and both mother and child are happy.
Paul Simon | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/27/2009 9:38:32 PM | | My life has been a storm since the day I was born... My concern is for the child with a mother that stupid that at 26 she is that irresponsible. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/28/2009 7:48:26 AM | | This post is so old....she's either had the baby or aborted long ago. Whatever has transpired she has never written back so I guess we'll never know the outcome. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/28/2009 2:13:18 PM | Misspol: There seems to be a lot of info here from helpful intended people ,but if the young man doesn't want anything to do with you and from your wording he is from a different country then you won't be able to get any support from him because of international boundaries ,I know this since I used to chase down derelict dads for a living ,and getting anything from a foreign country was tough .
As far as the child ,they ask questions when they get older and answers will come that they will understand ,I raised two daughters without there mothers ,and when the time came to tell where there mommy was I was ready .
Whatever decision you make ,let it be yours and yours alone ,and your family and friends will understand even though your family may be upset or hurt they will get over it eventually, | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/28/2009 8:57:26 PM | | Thank God all you got was pregnant, as your blood tests came back OK. The world is dangerous today and so is unprotected sex. Good Luck in your ordeal . You can find out with one letter if he's going to be in your future. I suggest you make contact A A>P>, At least you will know where you stand. He may just be what you hope he is and come back to be by your side. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/29/2009 6:27:37 PM | | Well I know my opinion isn`t PC but the OP does NOT have to keep the baby she can have an abortion. Remember OP the abortion is the woman`s decision because it is your body and it is not the man`s body. I believe you still have time to terminate the pregnancy maybe you should talk to a counselor . You have to decide what is best for you. If you `feel`` you can get the support to raise this child from family, friends, then perhaps keep the baby. If you feel you just don`t want to become a mother an abortion is always an option. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/29/2009 6:31:48 PM | | Also you don`t have to tell the father if you have an abortion. It`s your body and it`s your decision OP. An abortion is actually not that invasive a procedure these days. You will require some counselling of course but you will get through it. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/29/2009 8:38:50 PM |
I swear the dumbest people live in this pond....This is almost 3 years ago!!! The OP is no longer on this site. The child in questions will be celebrating its 2nd birthday next month.....and Forest Gump said stupid is as stupid does.
This happens soooo often and I can never decide if it's more annoying or more amusing. Apparently people have some kind of blinders that make them unable to see the date on an opening post. You have to admit it's kind of funny to see people responding to someone long, long gone... | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/31/2009 2:38:53 AM | What's truly amusing, are those that change their user name in attempt to outrun their reputation, but win the Forest Gump 1st place prize for Stupid Is As Stupid Does (in this example - doesn't do..  ) in not taking down their PICS that are the same pics they were using before.
Even funnier that they then vie for 1st place Troll prize by running around dredging up dead threads, ta boot... 
Priceless.... 
** Happy Halloween, Folks! ... Thread Out  ** | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/31/2009 6:55:41 AM | Yup - she did say the condom broke.
Some people just can't contain their rush to judgement of others long enough to read the whole thread. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/31/2009 5:03:40 PM |
It doesn't really matter how the baby came about, safe sex or not. That is stupid for people to even mention, forgive them their ignorance.
With all due respect, people who go around having sex with people, winding up pregnant, and then seem shocked and unprepared for the outcome, they're the real ignorant ones. If you have sex, regardless of whether it's protected or not, you better be darn sure you're prepared for the outcomes. The sole purpose of sex among the animal species is to reproduce. Sure mankind has come up with artificial methods of trying to prevent this from happening, it isn't foolproof. If you want to play with fire, prepare to get burnt.
Aside from that, what's done is done and the OP is now pregnant. I don't support abortion, especially because of someone else's irresponsible decisions, but I'm a firm believer in adoption, which is probably the best thing for this baby. And I pray to all that is holy, the OP learns from this experience and uses better discretion in the future. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 10/31/2009 5:33:53 PM | | Dear or dear what will you do? There is no point in being angry with yourself as the damage is done and now you must face this problem. You are on your own here as this guy is gone and you must decide what is best for you - and no one can advise or tell you what to do here - you must decide on your own. A very difficult choice and one that will never leave you, one way or the other. Stay strong and hope the answer will come to you on what is right for you in the long run. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:44:21 PM | | This is an old thread - 2 years ago - Hope she made the right choice for herself. Also hoped that she at least informed the guy. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 11/11/2009 3:36:26 PM | He was visiting her country from abroad, and has gone back to his home country.
There is no way in hell the law is going to force him to pay child support across international boundaries. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 11/12/2009 12:52:23 AM | God this is sad. It was over 2 years ago. Yes lets deny her an abortion!
The poor thing.... I hope she wasn't serious and it was a troll post.
There are so many unwed mothers around now. I see these teenagers all
the time with their little kids and babies. I feel so sorry for them. | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 11/12/2009 11:26:47 AM | | Yep....well...surely you thought about that before you laid down and spread your legs for this guy....no protection...and...if you already have a child...you are so aware of the 2-3 days out of the month you can concieve....looks like you tried to trap this guy...but it failed....looks like this is a road youv'e laid down for yoursef....you may want to start tattooing the fathers names on your kids arms so you can keep track of them....Remember...there are no accidents when your unwed...and get pregnant... | |
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| One week with him and pregnant
Posted: 11/12/2009 1:20:49 PM | Nobody can make that decision for you and you already know the options.
Maybe you just need a sounding board and that's understandable.
I hope you make the best choice you can possibly live with.
I think at least you should tell him. | |
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