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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/18/2007 9:50:26 AM | I'm feeling a bit reminiscent this morning and decided to resurrect this thread so I could post in it.
I miss holding hands. I miss snuggling on the couch. I miss that kiss in through my car window as I'm leaving. I miss the hugs when I walked in his door. I miss the conversations late into the night when I have to be at work early the next day. I miss the laughter we shared. I miss his damn cat. I miss the sex with him.
The relationship wouldn't have worked out, we were way too different, even though on this site it says we are 97% compatible. It's been two months and I still miss talking to him. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/18/2007 10:50:17 AM | Hrmm, what do I miss?
I would say that feeling of utter relaxation of just laying together and doing nothing, but enjoying every second of it.
The smell of her hair.
knowing someone well enough that they don't have to ask what's wrong if you are not ready to talk about it, they just know.
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/18/2007 8:59:02 PM | | "sigh" today I missed having someone there who is willing to listen, pretend to understand me and offer to do the grocery shopping because I was too darn tired to do it after work. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/18/2007 10:05:47 PM | Though she was so far away I felt like she was near. My gentle hand upon her face my whisper in her ear. It'll be alright, baby dry your tears. Won't happen over night, fact is it may take years. Of one thing I am certain, like drawing back a curtain, loves light will shine upon your fears. And you'll be alright. >mak^o> | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/18/2007 10:34:43 PM | I went back several pages in search of what I miss. I did not see this which I dedicated to Cooky. I will repeat it for those who have not traveled back in time. I Miss by 2bcaptain I miss long walks, and longer talks, just laying side by side. The inside jokes, the rib pokes, when no one else was looking. The smiles, the laughs, the sudsy baths, God I miss the cooking. Come hither looks, the sharing books, the nights under the stars. Her touch, her kiss, is what most I miss, the parking in her car. I miss the spooning, the making her swooning, trembles I would invoke. The laughs, the giggles, making our bellys wiggle, at every little joke. I miss just knowing my love was growing in someone elses heart. I miss believing someone was never leaving, and we would never part. >mak^o>
I have never met Cooky. I just dedicated this to her. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/19/2007 9:59:44 PM | | I miss having someone hold me and comfort me during the rough times. I just learned my son was injured in a suicide bombing in Iraq. He's gonna be ok, but it was stressful hearing the news, making and receiving the phone calls. Wouldn't been nice to have a special someone at my side! The good news is he get to come home next week! | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/19/2007 10:11:10 PM | | Perfectanna... YOU touched my heart. Tried to send you a message but you have restrictions. My heart and prayers go out to you and your son. I can't even imagine hearing such horrible news and feeling alone. My son is only 13 and all I can do is hope we are at peace by the time he may decide to fight for our country. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/19/2007 11:10:01 PM | Anna, your son is in my thoughts. I lost my cousin there and wish every soldier over there a safe return.
Right now I miss:
Sex Having someone who I could talk to about anything | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/20/2007 9:18:10 AM | | I miss the companionship. The coming over to each others place and talking about everything and anything and at the same time, the comfortable silences. Sitting next to that person and being able to just sit and comfortably share silence. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/21/2007 1:36:21 AM | Ana,
It is good to hear it was just an injury, and not something fatal...
For what it is worth, your lad is now feeling more alive than ever before, when something really scary happens in combat, and you find yourself still breathing afterwords, it is the most amazing thing, you feel absolutely and totally alive for a brief moment, you know that whether there is a god or not, you are here.
It may sound a bit backwards, but it might just help to understand that right that moment, when he realised that he had made it, he found amazing happiness.
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/24/2007 7:41:53 PM | The things I miss the most after a relationship has ended are always the things i take for granted during the relationship.
I'm a guy, so naturally the only thing I DONT take for granted during a relationship is sex haha. But I find that when I am inbetween relationships, that is the one thing I really don't think about that much. What I really find myself to reminisce over is the sensual little cuddly moments, like spooning in bed, washing each other's hair, cuddling on the couch, etc. Unfortunately, unless I am thinking retrospectively it is hard for me to appreciate those moments. When I think about it... it really is a shame that I can't enjoy the good stuff while I'm actually doing it. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/26/2007 12:33:11 PM | I miss the emotional support no matter what when it comes to being with someone you care about. Ya know, someone who is actually there for you, no matter what.
Now all I deal with is the blame being put on me. Everything is and was my fault. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/26/2007 1:01:00 PM | i would def. have to say the exotic sex...
but on a more serious note... i miss the obsessive looks i got that told me i was their all, being late to work every morning because i just couldn't let go, the heavenly scent that only they could carry, my trophy, hearing their voice as they walked into a place no matter how large and as you turn your head you know that you are the first one they are coming to greet, they are the first on your mind when you have free time, ....damn. i think i need a new girl. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship? Posted: 9/30/2007 10:59:32 PM | | I miss having my face touched just lik e in the movies. Being looked at like I'm someone special. Having lived 3 hours from my now ex, i miss that drive i would take every friday after work. Miss having someone be excited about me for me. Feeling beautiful and sexy and wanted and desired. I miss feeling loved and loving in return. I miss falling asleep on the couch and having him carry me to bed, and waking up the next morning with him telling me what I talked about in my sleep. I miss talking about growing old together and sitting on the front porch watching our grandkids....Wow this is depressing! I MISS LOVE | |
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