| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/19/2007 10:10:29 PM | I agree with everything that you said, I might only add this, someone to dream the impossible dream with. My question is why do most men in their 50's think that dreams are for someone else? It's never to late to have wants and desires and dreams to share with a special someone. Good luck to all of us searchers, go after the dream!  | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/20/2007 10:07:06 AM | I miss ~~
Trying to figure out what will make him grin
Trying to figure out what will make him laugh
Trying to figure out what will make him say: Gosh, I love you!
Trying to figure out what will make him sigh
Trying to figure out what will make him just get up and come over and hug me
Making food he loves
Making love he loves
Going to sleep on his shoulder
The first look in the morning
The "Honey I'm home!"
The lovemaking
The hospital visits
Bringing him home
Making sure he keeps his feet up
Making love
Making tea for him
Sharing food, books, movies, music, friends, walks
Talking all night into morning
Falling asleep holding his xxxxx
Holding hands when we're walking
Holding hands when we talking
Holding hands in restaurants
Holding hands, watching DVDs
Listening to his day, his past, his stories
Playing with his friends
Undecorating the Christmas tree
Laundry, folding his underpants and tees
Washing dishes
Setting the table
Waiting for him to come home
Helping him get ready to leave
"Anything I can bring you from the store?"
Making love
Taking the Staten Island Ferry
Making love
Love
His smile
His tears
His rage
His glorious messiness
Him
Watching him on stage
Making love
Him
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/20/2007 2:06:58 PM | | What I miss is being able to share everyday experiences with the person that is the closest to you. Looking up to a person and trusting their judgment on issues and daily life. Sharing those opinions and working through life together. All the ups and downs that life can bring. But, when you have a partner life seems to be able to take on a whole new way of hope. Everything is just far better when shared. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/20/2007 3:48:42 PM | Many things..
Companionship sometimes is made of little things..
Cookie crumbs in the bed..a warm glance across a room...a thunderstorm watched from the back porch..arms intertwined.. drying her tears.. a pillow fight...a "come hither" look.. many different things actually..that combined to make the whole..
That's what I miss.. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/20/2007 5:59:30 PM | I would have to say the food thing. I love to cook and it's hard to justify cooking for myself when I can stop in at a restaurant. I broke up with my gf 4 days before xmas so I still have a giant frozen turkey in the freezer. I was going to do my famous orange turkey. I stuff it with organic oranges and inject it with chardonnay and my top secret herb butter mixture.  | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/20/2007 6:30:50 PM | | Mega_Chulo2007, You must have had some bad experiences with relationships, someday you'll run into the right one and want more than a friendship with her, I'd like to see your forum after that happens | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/20/2007 8:28:54 PM | In the simple terms, all I can say is, "I miss being in love and loving the most wonderful person in the world who deserves all my love."
O my soulmate! Where art thou? | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/20/2007 9:45:44 PM | Someone to look forward to when you get home. Animals and computers don't count.
Going to a restaurant without being looked at. I work odd hours, often have to eat out alone between assignments. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/20/2007 10:13:44 PM | i miss touching. Gentle brushes past one another. The light hand on the back or shoulder or thigh. The holding for extended periods of time. The rubbing of cheeks. The kissing of ears and necks. Tickling her in the spot that makes her wiggle and laugh almost violently. When she would sit on my lap. When her hair brushed any part of my body.
Every part of her was soft and sweet.
And mostly, when her lips lingered softly, yet firmly, with mine.
Touching.......
Yeah, that's what i miss.
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/21/2007 4:13:27 AM | | I miss "making love" with my man; totally losing myself in "the dance". And as mama used to say......If God had made anything better he'd have kept it to himself. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/21/2007 9:01:58 AM | Imiss the companionship
the touching
knowing shes going to be there when i get home
someone to give me a hug and holding it
I miss the mushy things and we all know what i mean by that
I just miss you. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/21/2007 9:20:20 AM | I remember she would always call me Darling, for example, she would say something like, Darling take me or show me something or someplace I've never been....So I showed her the
Kitchen...I miss her wonderfull cooking, "you ever heard of Bones in toast".
I miss roughing it with her, that's when "Room Service was Late", I miss watching Her go to
"Jazzersize" just to dry her nails, I miss being so sore after fixing up all 5 of the Houses I owned that the real neat Judge said I have to give her, I miss her Vacumming , by my head while I was on the Bed suffering from a "Hangover", being out with all my friends she so dearly loved (yeah,right!). I just miss it all....."Have A Nice Day Folks"
Your Private Angel. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/21/2007 10:07:35 PM | wow.. this is probably the most depressing forum on this site,
ditto to all the crap that people said before me,
but after reading forums like this the thing i miss most about being in a relationship is
not being on sites like this, man dating sucks. | |
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| What do you miss about being in a relationship?
Posted: 2/22/2007 3:31:01 AM | I can't say that I miss anything about being in a relationship.
It's very hard to mesh with a new person and you have to weed through many people to even begin to mesh, even a little bit with someone. There's getting through the polite stage, where both parties do thier best to not offend one another, then there's they get comfortable and go back to life phase, where you go back to truly being yourself with all your little quirks and then fight it out about them yet striving to survive it relationship-wise. Then there's the makin' it forever stage, where you factor in everything from the last stage and try to discover if you can live with it, learning to let go of the petty and the major issues,, trying to decide if it's all worth it. These processes take a long time, last but very important is learning to actually share your space for longer than sex and blowjobs last, meaning to actually share your space and be a part of theirs, this is also difficult, everyone needs space and has a right to be who they are and comfortable in their lives.
Relationships are JOBS, because it takes solid work for hours everyday for as long as they last. That is unless you find and marry a carbon copy of YOU in the opposite sex, they are taxing on the spirit and the mind.
What do I miss about relationships? Perhaps it's actually meshing with someone. | |
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