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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 5:33:06 AM | ^^^Champ^^^
Bucsgirl is right...this thread is NOT about you. The subject is as I've correct someone else in a previous post, "Why are older women NOT into younger guys?" and I think you misread the subject and think it says, "Why can't The Champ get any women?" Get off of YOU and get on to the subject the OP's started.
Start your own thread to get answers to your "wah wah" problems. 
On subject: I WILL date men 38 and up, depending on their maturity level...so to answer your question OP...I AM into younger guys as well as guys around my age and WILL date younger guys if they can keep up to me intellectually and are financially independant. 
Last day of 2006...HAPPY NEW YEAR, EVERYONE! Stay safe and DON'T drink and drive. See you next year. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 6:38:55 AM | I have dated younger men who were/are at least 4-5 yrs younger, but I had a 5yr relationship with an older man who was 6 yrs older. It's not a matter of younger men over older men, it's a matter of choice. And, like what babydoll272 said as well as numerous others on this thread (banging head on wall!), no matter what the age, it's the intellect and maturity of that man.
EVERYONE HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR and stay safe!
Now onto more important things.....got my outfit tonight, car gassed up, party favours in check! I'm good to go! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 6:54:12 AM | Hell Im 41 and cant get a guy my age that I find attractive.
My last 2 "partners" have ben 18 and 23 ( pray hurl abuse if you wish)
Both guys were fun, taller than me, and knew how to enjoy themselves.
I would actually quite like to "road test" a relationship with an older man, but I never get chatted up by men my age, and I just think younger blokes are generally tons better looking!!
Its not about the men in my life...its about the life in my men!
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:27:49 AM | are we talkin a couple years younger or mary kay letourneau young?
I can handle a couple/few years younger but at this stage in my life (almost 30) I'm not really into a lot of the things that a 20/21 year old might be (clubs etc) | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:34:27 AM | Well I still like to go out and party, I go to lots of gigs.
I think I am too much like hard work for older men to cope with ( no-one can keep up with me)
I actually genuinely enjoy the company of younger men, but I think thats cos I have a young outlook maybe myself.
Dont knock it unless you have tried it.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:39:32 AM | | How old are the older women you're trying to date. The problem you're facing is that women do mature faster than men as a rule, so even a woman in her mid twenties is likely going to be much more mature than a nineteen-year old. Honestly, honey, what would a grown woman have to talk to you about (unless you're an incredibly mature nineteen-year old)? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:45:40 AM | | 19 is not even legal age to drink...and how much older are these women you are talking about?? 21 0r 30 plus. The major factor here is that it is against the law for someone your age to drink!! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 10:34:58 AM | Well I still like to go out and party, I go to lots of gigs.
I think I am too much like hard work for older men to cope with ( no-one can keep up with me)
I actually genuinely enjoy the company of younger men, but I think thats cos I have a young outlook maybe myself.
Dont knock it unless you have tried it.
There is that phrase again "no-one can keep up with me" ya whatever honey. You for sure will never be able to keep up with me I will bet on that and I am 37...oh nooo I am not considered younger am I? Being 4 years younger. Usually younger is like 10 years right?
Start your own thread to get answers to your "wah wah" problems
Start your own thread too about the youngins you would date if they could impress you..wait that is what the 10 million older women/younger men threads are about.
LOL Others make a mention about themselves in a thread and it is never touched on, and I made a "sarcastic" comment and I get the rocks thrown at me for talking about me. Will not mention anything of my experiences then in a thread...but then is that not how you get your views from?
On topic:
Wherever someone got this older women are not into younger guys from must be living in a town of 300 and limited access to the internet and TV. It is well known, popular, socially acceptable, and more common to see this nowadays.
Women will more and more prefer younger men...for the politically correct ones out here I will word it this way ..NOT EVERY WOMAN WHO IS OLDER WILL DATE YOUNGER...MANY OLDER WOMEN WILL PREFER DATING YOUNGER..notice no generalization there.
Reason those WHO DO DATE YOUNGER MEN is usually from past experiences with men their age who do not impress them so those guys or just that one guy even will set the precident for that/those women's views about men their age and the guys or guy that they date who is younger and does impress them will set the precident for the that/those older women views about younger men.
So guys watch American Pie and at the end the one cop says "Stifler's mom, what a MILF" and that was just before that label became popular as now it is commonly used and is all thanks to the internet for that.
Also when women say 'I don't know why I get all these young guys liking me' you cannot tell me that you ladies are that naive at all. No way. You all know why those young guys like you. There is no way you don't know why. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 12:12:43 PM | Been there, done that --- it's called a fling. It suited the purpose for the time, but as far as having things in common (other than sex), we were worlds apart!
Sometimes it can work if both parties, despite their age difference, are really on the same page. That's a rarity, but when it happens, I'm sure it's amazing! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 12:37:23 PM | | it all comes down too life experience......an older woman has probably been through the possessive realationships, jealousy blah blah blah......now she is looking for a stable realationship......and truthfully a 19 old just can't offer her that. Are you ready too make sure the mortgage is paid? You thinkin about RRSP's or do you have them? Have you watched your kids grow?.....A more mature woman has probably been through this dating shite before and wants out of the pond where you should be swimming still.......have fun with these 19 year olds man cause soon they will want nothing too do with you!LOL....HAVE FUN WHILE YOUR YOUNG!! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 12:46:53 PM | i was just reading the post ahead of this one, and i wanted to mention i dont date 19 year olds. they are way toooo out there for me. but i do like 28 and up to my age.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 6:58:22 AM | Yeah, hate this banana and other green bananas too.
I personally love to date younger men. Why? More adventurous, still looking for the partner who will help him live his fantasies....and who will help me live some of mine...(some will have to remain fantasies because that is where they belong.) Older guys, translate that into guys MY age, usually have done things the same way forever and it tends to be more about them and what they need than me and what they need is usually just, to put it crudely, "Wham, bam, thank you, ma'am"...younger guys who want to date older women understand that there is a world of experience there, and I appreciate a man who understands that and wants to tap into that energy
I realize this started over a year ago, but I am venting, okay????. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:24:19 AM | I can't believe this thread is still going on. And on and on.
People will date who they want to date regardless of age. Why does it matter? Everyone is an individual with their own maturity level, life experiences, etc. I've met immature 40 year olds and mature 20 year olds. Everyone is different. Can't we just move on?  | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 9:30:22 AM | I am 41 and obviously I cannot date you, you are too young LOL
However, younger men ask me out all the time, and for the most part I say no, why? because they are much younger, late twenties and such, what would a young guy like that do with me when I am 60 and he's 40? GROSS!!! I'd feel like a child molester and he'd feel like he was doing his granny!
The youngest man I'd date is about 5 years my junior at most. But as well 5 years my Sr. and no older. Its just what feels right to a person......... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 9:39:16 AM | | I hate those bananas too lol.Ive never dated anyone older than me.My last long term relationship was with a guy 25 years younger than me.I wouldn,t date a guy that young now.I mean, hell, i,m gonna be 51 in 2 weeks!What would a young guy want with me It always seems to be the younger guys though that are interested in me,so whats a girl to do? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 2:08:01 PM | okay, I'm 40 that makes me the older woman in almost all cases. lol
I am not looking for the younger men, but I am not closed minded to think that there is not a mature younger male that could make me happy.
I perfer to date those a bit younger. I am independent and have found that the older men tend to hate that.
I love younger men but please guys those of you that are under the age of 25.. what do you really see in our future.?
I think there are many people looking for mature and confident men reguardless of the age and that might just be the younger men.. God knows they are hot .lol | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 2:20:02 PM | God knows they are hot
As I say I myself cannot compete with youth and so I would step aside and let youth take it.
They are alot hotter looking than us older men...BUT hey why toot our horns when we guys know the drill...Older women PREFER younger men. It is here to stay and we old guys have to deal with it and accept it.
Either we try to compete or we let them have it all. I would rather let them have all the older women. Competing would be pointless
It always seems to be the younger guys though that are interested in me,so whats a girl to do?
Date younger and stick to it. leave the older guys in the dust and let them wish they were younger again. God knows I wish i was 10 years younger again. 38 later this month sucks royally. Give me my 20's back and I would be happy for sure. More women to meet and more women to have a chance with. You guys should look at yourselves as lucky men, you have so many women of so many ages wanting you young guys and to think someone actually thinks older women do not like younger men?
Hmm maybe those women in their 20's might start being interested in older men now that it is a new year. 2007 Will be The Year Of Younger Women dating Older Men....you think? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 3:57:11 PM | Champ it still boils down to the initial chemistry and attitudes.
I'm in my 40's and dated a 30 yr old for a time. I thought he was older because of his maturity, attitude, and the way he treated me. he thought I was younger and close to his age. we were both surprised to find out how wrong we were -- by 15 years! 
I've gone out with men in their 20's, but most are not into LTR and unfortunately, I'm not so good at rock-climbing anymore. hiking and biking and skiing is another story....
I long-term dated a 69 y.o. local guy -- didn't realize he was that age. We rode our bikes all over, and we had some awesome times. the breakup wasn't age but the usual communication issue and problems with self-centeredness and unrealistic expectations... (I thought age meant maturity and I was wrong.... )
I've had chemistry with all sorts of ages, but I haven't had a 19 yo ask me out. Came close one summer, but close isn't the same thing...
At this stage of my life I'd like a partner to share with in life, and age is totally irrelevant. Share the sunsets, share the travels, the meals, the pleasures, and hopefully halve the pain when that comes at you.
And remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
May we all find our match in 2007, no matter the age. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 5:48:37 PM | "Hmm maybe those women in their 20's might start being interested in older men now that it is a new year. 2007 Will be The Year Of Younger Women dating Older Men....you think?"
"Champ.." Where have you been? Younger women have been dating older men without taboo since dating began! It's just recently (past 15-20 yrs) that it is seemingly more prevalent both ways. So now you guys are starting to notice. And BTW: YOU'D be a younger man in my age bracket! So don't forget the pendulum swings both ways and to both extremes!
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 6:40:54 PM | Champ.." Where have you been? Younger women have been dating older men without taboo since dating began! It's just recently (past 15-20 yrs) that it is seemingly more prevalent both ways. So now you guys are starting to notice. And BTW: YOU'D be a younger man in my age bracket! So don't forget the pendulum swings both ways and to both extremes
LOL I know as I have heard the comment all year last year 'You guys got away with dating younger for years, now it is our turn" I know. BUT while older women are getthing their groove on more and more with younger men instead of men their age, those same women have not noticed that these days younger women do not go for older men like maybe 10 years ago when those who were say in their 20's were dating men in their 30's.
of course times changed and more and more now women find younger men alot more fun and exciting compared to men their age. Fine and dandy. I know more or less the generalizations made about older men are believed to be true for the most part according to most older women. And men's generalizations about women are always said to be untrue.
For me I just figure this year I will just sit back, not meet, not chase, not approach and see where the dating scene heads to next.
Confidence was the phrase of the year for 2006, I think now more will use wisdom. And if wisdom is wanted, maybe soon enough women will see that not every guy that is their age is boring or no fun. Sure us men may be the ones who get more content and routine in a relationship, but that never means that the guy is no fun. Sometimes one person has to kick start the other to get motivated.
And those comments about being set in our ways? Sorry to burst your bubble ladies BUT you ladies are the same. What it comes down to is a control factor, as two people who end up set in their ways, neither is willing to budge and maybe change for the other somewhat to do something different, and so add in that more young men figure older women want them and well older women seem to think they themselves are not set in their ways like younger men. And in return label older men as boring etc.
I myself will give anyone the benefit of the doubt. be it she is 30, or 40, but when women want to assume that because a guy is in his late 30's or 40's he must be set in my ways and no fun. Well assume all you want, one thing I will say is. Come to Vegas sometime with me for a week vacation. And we can see who can keep up with who. No sitting around or relaxing, that can be done at home.
Our daily lives are routine, have responsibilities, work, etc. So many men do not head out 7 days a week, 10 hours a day and sleep 2 hours a night all the time. But when there is a time to have fun? You would be surprised how fun a guy in his late 30's can actually be..Given the chance mind you
Hey what is more important to myself in someone is if she has interest and passions. I could careless if she says she is full of energy. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 7:16:43 PM | Champ!!! I am older then I can date you since you are a lot younger than me? As they said, older women dates younger guys now a days. I dont know what you complaining, you are a young man, still a baby in my book lol   | |
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