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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:36:22 PM |
"Stifler's mom, what a MILF"
Okay, I lead a sheltered life, what is MILF?
Also when women say 'I don't know why I get all these young guys liking me' you cannot tell me that you ladies are that naive at all. No way. You all know why those young guys like you. There is no way you don't know why.
I know, I am probably committing a death sentence here but I have to agree, yes, I said agree, with The Champ. If you take a moment to look at some of the profiles here and the pictures posted, why would you wonder why guys, younger or older, would contact you? (And that does not include everyone, you know which ones I am talking about).
Uh oh, I wandered off the line again, sorry.  | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 9:00:07 PM |
And in return label older men as boring etc.
I myself will give anyone the benefit of the doubt. be it she is 30, or 40, but when women want to assume that because a guy is in his late 30's or 40's he must be set in my ways and no fun.
Champ, I'm sorry but as for you calling yourself an old guy at the tender age of 38... Man, are you having a middle age crisis early???
I noticed that you changed from saying "a guy" to "he must be set in MY ways", are you taking it a little personal?
Go find a sweet young thing to boost your ego and don't think that all older women prefer younger men. Age is irrelivant to me, it is only a way of marking time here on earth. Experiences, interests and maturity are the only way of measuring the evolution of a guy. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 9:20:12 PM | Ummm number one reason for me would be , because I don't need anthor snotty nose son.....I am looking for a man...not someone who is even younger than my own kids....at 19 you would be closer to my grandkids ages ROFLMAO....guess we could always watch sesame street together.... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 9:27:00 PM | And in return label older men as boring etc.
I myself will give anyone the benefit of the doubt. be it she is 30, or 40, but when women want to assume that because a guy is in his late 30's or 40's he must be set in my ways and no fun.
Should have read: And in return label older men as boring etc.
I myself will give anyone the benefit of the doubt. be it she is 30, or 40, but when women want to assume that because a guy is in his late 30's or 40's he must be set in his ways and no fun.
I had edited it so it was not about me and forgot to change the my to him is all.
Not at all taking it personal and finding a young one? I guess in your area the young women still date older? Here in my area? Very uncommon nowadays. And if people do see an older guy with a younger woman, like when a co-worker and I were out shopping back in the spring, she is 23, well the looks we got. Let's just say I think I was looked at as a dirty old man.
Now with a new year, I am going with a clean slate, no dating, no meeting, no more bitterness, no more being somewhat jaded, no nothing for this year. Sit back and see where the dating scene heads to this year. jst enjoy my life and have fun on my terms. Make friends is all, no lovers, no sex, nothing. Less complications really.
There is no use in saying anything about this topic anyhow. Yes older men are set in their ways according to those who date younger, yes older men are boring according to those who date younger and yes older men are no longer what younger women want to date.
Just makes us older guys either bail out or try to compete with youth. I myself would rather not compete, be myself. No act, no nothing.
I am sure many women enjoy the acts put on by men, that impress them and stuff. They are entitled to expect that and want that. The younger men can and will always impress better than older men. Just is how it goes. I think alot of older men do in fact envy younger men and are jealous of them in ways.
Like I have said being 38 soon...give me my 20's back and I would be happy as way more women are interested in men that age these days compared to when I was in my 20's. What a letdown big time.
But hey like I say to each their own. date whoever but do not justify by bashing people for why you like a certain age range. That is where I get a bit peeved.
Funny how women in their 20's when i was that age wanted men in their 30's, now those same women backtrack and want men in their 20's. I guess it does show and prove what age range these days in men have it all going for them and what ones don't. All in all life goes on being single or not. Still alot of fun for me. Oh wait I said that word that usually doesn't go with being older...the 'F" word...F-U-N------- | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 11:11:30 PM | | I would re-think this lover boy ! You just might get your wish ?? But most likely one of those older gals will get ahold of you and ruin you for life...they will chew you up , and spit you out like a little chicken bone.........LOL I say "Run"...Lassie...."Run........ | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/1/2007 11:27:37 PM | All you younger guys who think life is based around sex and a mama to babysit you.... If you think about your future and go to school ...instead of wasting your life getting drunk looking for cheap sex. In-excess drinking over time causes impotence. a good woman with a good head on her shoulders would like a good man with the same. You need to think about your prioritys.
Good luck!!
The Mature Woman | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 8:24:21 AM | | Except for one, all of my relationships have been with younger guys - younger as in 1 to 8 years ~ I draw the line when I would be ok with them dating my daughter - then it's a big YUCK!!! 36+ yes - 30 to 35 ?questionable - under 30 not on your life! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 9:43:15 AM | | I have usually dated men my age or maybe a few years younger or older. Maybe I should try dating younger men, since many of the men I have dated have not interested me for the long haul. Most have had a million jobs, no retirement, and pay so much child support they can barely scrape by. They have had several marriages, usually adopted exwife number 2's chidlren from her first marriage, and most say they had to file bankruptcy since they gave the women everything and they used and abused them. I am a teacher, and when they state that I make a lot of money the red flag alert sounds. Many men my age who have not been married want children, so they either marry younger women or women with children. A man in his 30s who has a career, does not want to have children and sees the advantages of meeting a stable, professional older woman might be just who I need to meet. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 10:00:47 AM | 19 is DEFFINATLY immature for a guy...proven fact women advance faster than men. I'm from Europe where 40 year old men date women 1/2 their age...anything wrong with that?...If you look at some of the profiles on here from women in their 30's, they are looking for guys in their 20's.
I read this formula in a men's magazine that the youngest a man should date an be defined this way:
Take your age (in my case 48 but told I look 38) devide by 2 (24) and add 3 (27) wich means (according to that formula) the youngest woman I should date is 27 which is funny because that is the age I seem attracted too...can't help that...it's just a 'me' thing....oh, and if her father is older than you it says to subtract 5....that makes it 23 i some cases....
what would be a much more important question for the ladies should be:
1- Does he have a good job and is he likely to keep it for any ignificant time?...my ex hooked up with a guy who's 35, still lives at home with his parents and has gone through 4 jobs in 18 months....
2- Dos the guy know what a washer and dryer are?..or is he likly to morph into a couch potato...can you visualize the guy 10 years into a relationship?
3- If you have children how is he with the kids?...does he want to do things together or does he want you to pass thekids onto your ex so you can have 'happy time'?....
Any thoughts from the 27 ear old ladies? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 10:02:12 AM | | I can't speak for anyone else but for me to have a relationship with someone, I have to be able to communicate. It's hard to communicate with someone that I have little in commen with. My age and my experiences are a lot different than yours. I have two boys that are 23 and 26. It would be like dating my own kids. Sorry but my theory is that if I could have given birth to you then you are jailbait. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 10:15:32 AM | Well alli know is this, im 29 and i dont seem to attract older women let alone women my own age. its always the younger chicks.\
my picture here has people ratign it i did this out of curiosity, i found that the lowest ratings came from women in my age bracket,...26-33...all the higher "much higher" ratigns came from ever other age demographic. i scored a "3" however every other age gave me 4.7 or higher...that puzzles me actually, how the hell could i get higher votes from 18-25 year olds? makes no sence to me.
Im thinking it might be due to where women are in their life at the ages of 26-33, they are susually more career oriented, established, whatever..perhaps they feel they can choose whatever they want...and since i dont have ripped abs or the perfect highlights, its just not happening LOL.
I guess ill have to wait till im 50 to be attractive to women my own age? lol
on a side note, yes i hate the banana too.
I think it comes down to attitude though, and most younger guys are younger minded, women are generally more grown up becuase they are programmed differently than guys are when growing up. look at the media, look at the magazines, look at what many songs are about. It truly shapes the development of each persona.
this has alot to do with it, when im finished with my book i will elaborate further, but thats an entirely new thread. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 10:19:14 AM |
those same women have not noticed that these days younger women do not go for older men like maybe 10 years ago when those who were say in their 20's were dating men in their 30's.
I'm not sure where you live Champ, but there are still plenty of girls who date older, too. I'm 11 years older than my GF....she could date the other way if she chose, plenty of college studs in town!
Who cares? If the older ladies want to date younger men...go for it!
That just means there will be less available men around for their daughters to choose from..... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 1:41:05 PM | | My motto: To each their own....if a girl is dating a guy her age or younger and her friends have told her that's the 'now' thing to do then I guess it's more money to the lawyers when things change and te 'now' thing goes back to 20 year old girls dating guys in their 40's LOL....either way the money always ends up in someone elses pocket. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 3:05:31 PM | | I dated older women when I was 19 but we both knew it was just fun and nothing else. Actually I just recently talked with one of my old flings that is now in her sixties. Boy I am glad it was just fun. I fell in love with a lady 17 years younger than me but got out because things got to serious. I just could not see myself being devoiced again in my sixties because she was still hot and vibrant and wanting a man more her physical ability. I know it sometime works out but I could not bring myself to do it. I tell you what it was a growth experience. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 4:48:05 PM |
I'm not sure where you live Champ, but there are still plenty of girls who date older, too. I'm 11 years older than my GF....she could date the other way if she chose, plenty of college studs in town
Sure there are younger women who do date older BUT I do not think it is as common anymore and so there is less of a chance that a woman in her 20's will date men in their 30's. Times have changed. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 4:53:30 PM | Work on yourself and you can attract whatever your heart desires! Young, Older, Ambitious, Artistic etc.
Many people just can't get that we create what we see in life instead of just dealing with what comes along.
Think about thing's along these lines and you'll be amazed with the results! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 5:00:08 PM | | Some younger guys are fun to hang with and make great dates and are potentially relationship material - just as guys who are the same age or older...just keep trying to you get a yes.... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 5:36:05 PM | | If a guy is mature enough i see nothing wrong with it. I don't think you need to be trained like a dog. You are who you are. I would not choose to not date someone based on there age. With that said i'm not going to jump into bed with someone either and i think a lot of guys that age are looking for that. If your not than its all good. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/2/2007 5:36:31 PM | Melodic?? maybe if you just shave your gotee, women will rate you higher. Your gotee pardon me, please dont get mad doesnt suit you, bet if you shaved it you will be a very good looking guy and take pictures with your smile on your face. Lets face it you are a cutie. Lucilou   | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2007 6:38:43 AM | I have son's 19, 22 and 24, and I know how they think! Mr 24 would say "it's disgusting", Mr 22 would say "go near my mother and i'll kill you", Mr 19 would say "It's your life". No matter which option I chose, I'll take a more mature man thankyou! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2007 6:48:36 AM | | I think, a lot of the time, that an older woman/younger guy relationship is more of a temporary thing that benefits both parties for a particular reason... I "dated" a much-younger guy (24 to my 36) after I had split with my husband -- only lasted for 4 months, and I kept the relationship separate from my "family life with my kids", but I highly recommend it in the short-term. The sex was amazing, and he always told me that if I was any younger, he probably wouldn't have been with me, because "'older' women know what they want" | |
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