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 Human Ills
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 26
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 DIGGIDY
Joined: 3/27/2005
Msg: 27
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2005 5:52:40 PM
I think that it really depends on what you've experienced in life because that reflects your maturity level,an older woman dosen't wanna hook up with someone who plays an insane amount of video games and acts like a fool.They have seen that crap and know what it consists of,mind ya in Banff there are cougar clubs that go after the yougins so they can conquer,it's like climbing a mountain or something ha,ha,ha
 smiley199
Joined: 1/3/2005
Msg: 28
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2005 8:22:20 PM
I just like older guys...and what would a 19 want with some one my age...?? although several of my friends have said that you yungins are supposed to go that the energizer bunny is that true??
 OnTheBus
Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 29
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2005 8:23:50 PM
yup

Oh, I am 37
 smiley199
Joined: 1/3/2005
Msg: 30
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2005 8:28:48 PM
^^^^ now that is what I am talking about...I will take experince over a thumping bunny anyday.....lol
 grubeci
Joined: 10/30/2003
Msg: 31
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2005 8:45:06 PM
because they can trick a young guy and a young guy can't support them in the lifestyle they've become accustomed to.. (what do they have in common except hot sex and love)
 grubeci
Joined: 10/30/2003
Msg: 32
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2005 8:45:16 PM
because they can trick a young guy and a young guy can't support them in the lifestyle they've become accustomed to.. (what do they have in common except hot sex and love)
 bluenose8785
Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 33
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/9/2005 9:12:36 AM
**** sake baw heed why the **** would an older mature woman want 2 date u
 sugartaste
Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 34
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/8/2005 6:39:10 PM
I personally am not attracted to younger guys, it has nothing to do with maturity because I've met alot of older guys that are not mature. Its not because of experience because everyone has lived their life differently. Theres just something about an older guy for me, once I find what it is I'll let you know.

P.S. its POWER
 jeanc200358
Joined: 4/21/2005
Msg: 35
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/8/2005 6:48:25 PM
For me, right at this point in my life, it's primarily because I want a long-term commitment and I doubt any testosterone-filled little stud is going to want to be a lifetime mate and will be loyal and faithful. It's hard enough finding an older one who will be. But speaking strictly as sexual partners, young guys (not as young as 19 for me, though) are great!
 Confusedintn
Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 36
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/9/2005 4:35:39 AM
younger men tend to want to just please themselves,as for us older men we take the time to explore our partners and find parts of the body that turn them on EI: the elbows,hip bones and fingers to name a few, it's just not the main three and us older guys know that,young guys just jump on and off,then go wash there cars or whatever they do as for us older guys we lay there and hold our partner
 hismuse
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 37
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/9/2005 4:51:46 AM
Well said Friskylildevil! Young men have excellent stamina and their powers of recovery are amazing, but I would rather have a partner who is on the same page as me as far as intimacy.
 Liquidus
Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 38
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/9/2005 5:04:43 AM
I my self am 27, and would like to date an older woman, for the simple fact that they are like a fine wine, gets better with age
 kitchensink
Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 39
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 3:07:00 AM
Some of them do. A good friend of mine bagged a 19 year old guy when she was 42 (3 years ago) and I had a great looking 47-year-old friend I did just about everything with when I was 25. I was her first way younger guy.
 bigsmile
Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 40
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 3:19:11 AM
Younger men....why that's all I date (well almost) but there is a limit to "how" young.......I'm with the other posts on here.....maybe 10 yrs is about the limit. So if you can handle it you may be able to find a 25 - 28 yr old.....of course, at that age they are really looking to be wined and dined and I guess 34 looks way more interesting!!!!
 Myfakename
Joined: 8/11/2005
Msg: 41
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 3:45:31 AM
Never been a problem for me. Not sure I understood what your posted. The ladies tell you the reason why is because you are 19, or you are just guessing?
 Fuzbyone
Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 42
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 3:57:47 AM
I dated a beautiful older lady before. Then I found out why she was still single. She talked too much and not just talk. She would ramble on and on, talking like your mind thinks. It got really annoying when I started paying attention and tried to talk about what she was talking about, but she got angry. She was angry because she usually didn't remember what the heck she was talking about.
 SweetTreat
Joined: 9/5/2005
Msg: 43
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 4:02:45 AM
# 1 rule for me..never date a younger guy... broke the rule twice...and reinforced why I shouldn't have broke it to start with! LOL Ok seriously tho... I date usually 10 yrs older than myself. Why? Um several reasons. Generally (yes I say generally) men in that age range are more settled into life, got their shit together, are over the young, crazy, "I need to spread my seed" phase, moving on into the more important aspect of life. That is where I am in life...want something serious..settle down soon...family, etc. I'm 25... guys my age aren't looking for that, let alone guys younger.

So that's my story lol
 ripley65
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 44
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 5:31:19 AM
Yikes! 19?? I dont wanna go to jail! haha Seriously tho,,,,,you younger guys are pretty nice eye candy,,,but,,,other than that,,there really isnt much we'd have in common. I once dated a guy who had an 18 yr old son. We went to an REO Speedwagon concert and the son said, ' Hey thats old fogey music!' Oh good lord. lol
 SIMMYBABEZ
Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 45
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 8:11:37 AM
Immaturity. I cant stand it.
 Dracitamo
Joined: 12/30/2004
Msg: 46
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 8:14:58 AM
I don't know... but most of the girls I date are older then me. I'm 23 and the women I date are usually 26 to 30. They don't tend to play games, get attatched to quick, and know how to have fun without gettin serious. Its always a good time for the both of us.
 jaymtheprogressive
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 47
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 8:21:21 AM
Missy: "I want a man to take the lead..." where can I find the girls my age that want a guy to take the lead? I prefer a girl to be younger as I'd be more apt to take the lead but a girl who is now just 18 ran the whole relationship when I went out with her because she wanted to. A friendly argument that went like (ended in a sweet hug, though sadly she came out the winner).

me: "but I'm the man here!"
her: "but I'm more comfortable in control!"
me: "but I initiated everything, plus I'm older"
her: "but I come from a higher social class"...
 jaymtheprogressive
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 48
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 8:26:54 AM
younger men tend to want to just please themselves... That's not true, I care about making sure the partners pleased and happy. Heck when I'm with someone I allways ask: "What can I do today that would make her happy"? weather it be cuddling or a compliment or whatnot.
 blondblueyed
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 49
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 10:53:37 AM
Well, the OP doesn't mention what age group the women are that say this to him, but I would tend to agree that most women 10 years or older then 19 wouldn't be interested. Most teens are not interested in anything long term and that's probably what these women are ready for by that age. Not always the case though, I met my ex when he was 19 and I was 8 years older we were together a long time and our split had nothing to do with age. In my own experience (and frankly that's all anyone can truly go by) when I was younger I mostly dated men 5-15 years older because that's who approached me, now that I am in my 40's in most cases I date men 5-15 years younger because in most cases that's who approach me.

I don't hold to this idea that older is better at least not in my own experience. Most of the younger men are far better in their manners, knowledge of women inside and out and in their maturity in even ending relationships. I never had a 30 year old guy have his mother call me to break up with me. That was a 45 year old MAN! I never had a 25 year old guy/kid push me (literally, no exaggeration) out of his car onto the side of a dark highway at midnight because I wouldn't go home with him. It was a 37 year old MAN! So, in my view, maturity doesn't really have much to do with age. Now that I am in my 40's though the idea of trying to make a 19-21 year old a "life" partner doesn't really make sense. I say that only from the standpoint that it would be kind of hard to grow old with someone that won't be old until you're already dead.
 callendargirl
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 50
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/14/2005 11:16:30 AM
Back to your profile Bomber....... Dearest Benjamin,

why oh why , would an older woman even look twice? The only thing we might have in common is pink floyd , and they were new when we were young! I think for now, you had better keep Mrs. Robinson as a fantasy , because I don't think she is in your cards in the near future!
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