| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/24/2007 10:25:06 PM | | lots of older women ARE into younger guys! They're just not into you! I've had plenty of older women hit on me in pubs, and the older ones I hit on absolutely love it. Maybe you're being too pushy with them, expecting ALL older women to want to drop to their knees at the mere sight of you. It's not gonna be like that with ANY women of ANY age if thats what you expect from them. Women hate (most) jerks | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 4:30:27 AM | I have somebody chasing me who is 5 years older than me, she's 42 and I'm 37 however, I noticed a girl looking at me in the pub last night and so I asked her to come and sit with me for a chat and she admitted she had fancied me for a while etc, it transpired that she was only 17 years old!!! God knows what she saw in me but.........
It just shows, you can't tarnish every women/girl with the same brush, we all have different likes and dislikes.
And yes, I did go home alone for all those who think I don't have any morals lol | |
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Sigi
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Joined: 5/26/2005
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 5:06:26 AM |
noticed a girl looking at me in the pub last night and so I asked her to come and sit with me for a chat and she admitted she had fancied me for a while etc, it transpired that she was only 17 years old!!!
Hummmm, how did a 17 year old get passed the doormen/women at the pub? What's the age limit over there for drinking alcohol? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 5:18:34 AM | well women in their 30's have mainly done the playing the field bit and are contented,and only stray when their not taken care of by the respective partner.by their 40's the younger guy loves an older woman for experience like the older woman loves it for the ego,that their still sexy and attractive.
some whove been in a meaningless stale relationship dye their hair think to hell with everything and just find a new lease of life.
younger blokes mainly want an older woman for an alternative to their mates having a gorgeous 18 year old on their arm.its another experience.woman of maturity love the idea they can be in control,from somebody with a six pack.but more often than not its the physical attraction,and thats it.younger guys do what the older womans had already clubs etc,and give them a bit of zest but its the t shirt scenario.........done it all. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 5:35:12 AM | I couldn't be bothered to read all 30 pages of this thread - so sorry if this has been said before.
I find that men/boys much younger than me only want one thing and I'm not in the market to be your teacher regardless of how much stamina you have or how long you will last. lol
I don't flatter myself by thinking they really want to get to know me because the messages I have had from men under 30 have tended to be of the 'how about it' variety. I used to say I think I am too old for you - now I don't dress it up, I say you are too young for me.
That's not to say I don't like younger men - my ex was 8 years younger than me.
I want a friend, a partner, a confidant - I don't want someone I can't talk to and who can't/won't relate to my life.
To be honest, I also don't want people to look at me and my partner and think I'm his mum  | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:56:32 AM | | women DO date younger MEN..i havent read every entry...tho i didnt catch what you concider OLDER...at 19 you likely havent experience too much in your life...like hardship..heartbreak..real love..not lust...the ability to know the difference...i personally could not be with a 19 year old ...the youngest guy i dated was 26...but to a woman..its not the age...its life experiences and maturity levels...do they have a career...are they productive..do they have goals...you have to have something in common...and again...what do you at 19 concider DATING...?... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 8:16:12 AM | Hey it is fun to add to this thread..I know it annoys alot of those who do like dating younger...but hey...Yes women today will most definitely view younger men as more desirable. Many women in their 30's feel men their age are most bitter, jaded and set in their ways compared to them. As women do not get bitter or jaded from past relationships like men do. And most definitely women are never set in their ways ever. We may think they are but truly they never are.
Personally it becomes harder to date if you are single and older, because what women my age want and expect of a man their age, I cannot match up to. Add in the others my age who like younger and what you have is an influx of older guys trying to compete with the younger guys and the women enjoying every minute. And why not, it is all about the women is it not?
So to those guys in their 20's, think yourself lucky, because you are in the prime part of your dating life. Women of all ages from 18 and up will want you for sure. And enjoy it, because if you are single in your 30's or 40's, it will be harder to date for most.
From a bitter, jaded, boring, no fun, set in his ways 38 yr old.... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 4:15:47 PM | i preferr them younger as they are more open to fun things and are not so laid back and are more of a thrill seeker and willing to try new things EG: skydiving, parasailing swimming with the sharks  | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 5:59:55 PM | I am sure that at your age, your feelings and the feeling you may have for someone can be genuinely appreciated but there is something indeed,magical about two people seeing,sharing things in life together for the first time.
And for that reason,it is easier to hope that this person is closer to your age...being nineteen is cool,embrace it and don't deny yourself this.
Although youth can not be cornered on time in all fairness,but it becomes much harder as you grow older,finding someone that can make you feel "like you are seeing things anew for the first time."
So enjoy being nineteen and all the cool things that come with that...like someone closer to your age possibly. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:07:55 PM | | Well this is an easy one. Umm when I was 19 years old, I did not date 19 year old men. Now at the age of 31, why on earth would I date a 19 year old. I have two snotty noses to wipe already, don't need a third one. Men 35 and over please! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:11:38 PM | I didnt know that was a banana I thought it was a pickle.
to answer "do older women date younger men", yes we do altho we have our age limits and it depends on the younger mans' intentions. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:13:25 PM | | I am a 36 year old woman that is into younger guys. My concern is that the younger guy will tire of an older woman in a while so why waste my time. On the other hand that can happen with any guy. I have dated a younger guy and after some time found that immaturity did play a part. It is a really hard call. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:15:10 PM | | Ive Dated a few older woman and i find that they want someone that isnt old and want to settle down have kids etc.... they want to party and have fun they know its not gonna last so why not | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:19:51 PM | 19??? Generally, most people that age have next to no life experience. My kids are older than you and I would definitely refuse to date you.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:25:39 PM | in BC the drinking age is 19!!!!
There's nothing wrong with younger men, if you're not looking for a mate, just a good time. I promised my sons that I would only go out with guys that were at least as old as them! Seems to have worked. As I have grandchildren in their mid-teens, 19 just seems illegal or immoral or something. But, as a grandmother, 30's is still younger to me and 25 isn't all that bad either!!!!!
Oh, I don't hate the banana at all!! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 6:40:01 PM | My b/f is 4 years my junior. He's 31 and I'm 35. I vowed to date men max. 2 years younger than myself and in general I met men older than me. My experience with the older guys was pretty sad ... they had no clue what the hell they wanted in a relationship. Then along came my night in shining armour. Four years younger (I know it's not much) and is giving me everything I have ever wanted in a man and more!!! Age is just a number. If you are both walking along the same path in the same direction and have the same destination in mind why should age be a factor? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 9:07:09 PM |
they had no clue what the hell they wanted in a relationship.
Yep I agree..I wish I had a clue, LOL..thanks for making me realize this...glad that my grave is soon to be ready. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/25/2007 10:20:44 PM | Hmmm well... first off never mind age, someone using "u" instead of "you" is an annoying habit that wouldn't get me past msn with most guys. I've known guys in their early 20s more mature than men I've known in their 30s so age CAN be just a number... but 19 IS awfully young. My son is almost 13, I couldn't date someone who's 19. (oh and I love the banana  ) | |
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Joined: 7/2/2006
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/27/2007 11:23:43 PM | | as far as I know, women prefer younger men. Even the idea of men getting divorced for a younger woman is a myth. It's more commonly the reverse, older women with younger men. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/28/2007 2:07:02 AM | | Boy, can I add to this, As I get older I"m finding that it's almost a nescessity to date younger men. I've never cared much about age as long as I liked the person, and often dated people five to ten years age difference up or down. I'm totally frustrated with men my own age, as a general rule, they are set in their ways, jaded, cynical, talk too much about sex and seldom able to live up to all the bragging. I've felt a little ashamed of late, dating guys 15 and 20 years my junior, I don't chase them, they seem to be set on an older woman so what the hey... why shouldn't it be me? I don't know that I'd marry someone so much younger but if we enjoy each other, why should I feel embarrassed to date anyone? They pay for the dates so I know they aren't after my money. Everyone comments about Ashton and Demi (15 yrs difference) but no one thinks Rod Stuart or others are terrible for marrying girls 25, 30 or even 40 years younger. I feel sorry for those girls, I'm sure the bedroom senario is dissapointing. I'd trade places with Demi anytime! Look on this site and see how many men 50 want to meet women 18 to 49. Almost all of the women 50 ask for a man 45(if they dare) to 60 or... Worse yet they ask for one 52 to ..... I agree that a lot of young men are imature, so are young women. There are 28 year old boys, then again there are 28 year old men.... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/28/2007 2:17:55 AM | | We are, just not the ones that act and dress like kids, a grown woman does not want to date a guy wearing a touque! We're embarrased by you wearing baggy pants and gangbanger clothes. If you want to date us, dress nicely like a gownup, behave as one, use the beautiful manners that your mom taught you and preferably make at least $80.000/yr. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/28/2007 3:13:16 AM | Ummmm, I'm into younger guys, not creepy young though. ha ha EW. :| I wouldn't want to date an older guy, tried that, didn't work. That was a 5 yr. difference and that's a lot for me. Or maybe my wanting to date a younger guy is because I feel old, :(  which is not a good thing either. | |
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