| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 5:59:02 AM | I have to laugh when people say they don't look their age,,I have found a lot of women say that,so if they all don't look their age ,then who does...to me there are no certain looks for age,,have you ever been to Japan,,now everyone looks old compared to them...I have looked at a few profiles of women on here saying they don't look their age,,I'm not so generous,,yes you do look your age  I agree with the last post,,well said^^^^^ | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 6:37:51 AM | | ^^^Yep, I look my age. And I act my age. I see both of those things denied in profiles and immediately realize they're looking for someone much younger than their age. I think someone closer to their own age might make them face reality, and they're not up for that. I thought men said it more often, but I've noticed lots of women saying it as well. Genetically, I'm likely to live a very long time, but I'm going to look every wrinkle and sag my age when I'm finally dragged off stage kicking and screaming. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 8:29:45 AM | | well for it is because I am 32 years old, I have a daughter, I do not need to look after another kid right now, I do not have time to train a younger man,I want someone who has life skills under their belts and experiences elsewhere... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 8:54:24 AM | | Personally, I see just the opposite. I don't know how many women I've seen online who were very close to my age that are looking for nothing but younger men. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 8:58:24 AM | | I am 19 and would not date a 19 year old.... ive been dating since i was 13. i dated a `19 year old when i was 13 for 2and a half years... since then they have all been in their mid 20s...lol | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 9:01:52 AM | | I believe some older women are into younger guys but that guy has to have a trait about how he carries himself. I know for me it was what my late wife wanted what I had to offer her and it was'nt just sex it was the fact I treated her like a women wants to be treated love care and the fact that she felt needed. We met when I was 24 and she was 33 and we were togethter for 12 yrs and married 6. So if your looking for an older woman because you think she might be desperate for sex than go find a real ugly woman who you know is desperate for sex. Sorry didn't mean for that to be mean but women want to be secure and loved not feel over-sexed and used. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 9:08:41 AM | | Besides think about what you want in life, at your age sex and beer and video games are you even thinking about growing up yet. keep in mind to that if she is much oler than you she will be showing her age alot more quickly than you will. And if that doesn't matter to you than think about what you can offer an older woman. Do you have a career yet? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 9:19:53 AM | Sorry didn't mean for that to be mean but women want to be secure and loved not feel over-sexed and used.
Nobody wants to be used.
Now, as per sex, what kind of SEX do some people have in mind when they refer to sex in such a way? Having a lot of sex is not a sign of love? Oh my!
Secure and loved? What is meant by "love" here? Sexless love? They have relatives, girl-friends, brothers, etc for that. Do they need an SO for that? Not really, I think. They can get that elsewhere!!! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 6:30:32 PM | | I fiond it unreal how people use the Ashton and Demi comment for this type of topic. Do people now really use Hollywood as a role model in their lives these days? Scary if they really do want to use celebs as examples. Then I want someone like Paris Hilton who is loaded with money, parties all the time at the best places, and is sexy...a true role model of the perfect woman no? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 7:37:11 PM | It is just a preference with me or just my choice. The youngest I dated was 8 yrs younger than me and I wont do it again.
For some it works but for me.....uhh no | |
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Bekk68
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Joined: 2/25/2007
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 8:39:47 PM | I don't have a problem dating younger guys.... I prefer younger guys because I can train them.....LOL just kidding. All I can say is Keep trying or look me up  | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 9:41:10 PM | | What if it's only a few years difference, say +- 2 to 3 years. A lot of women say that younger guys are immature and want older guys. By the same logic, the guy would think the girl is immature. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 11:27:04 PM | | Well First I'd have to say I prefer to talk to men who are intelligent and most I've met who are,are not young.Another thing I'm not a patient teacher so I'd have to say I prefer a man over a boy.When I say man I don't mean someone as old as my father but a couple of years older is fine with me.I'm very young at heart and guys who are alot older are not appealing to me anymore than a guy too young. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 11:56:06 PM |
Personally, I see just the opposite. I don't know how many womenI've seen online who were very close to my age that are looking for nothing but younger men.
The answer lies within your post. The internet is a magnet for the refuse of society. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/2/2007 12:05:58 AM | | I prefer younger guys cos.. not only cos i find them more attractive but just more fun also ... But really it depends on the individual... never gone as young as 19 tho... so dont give up | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/18/2007 1:13:16 PM | | I consider myself a pretty open minded person and not just sexually but in ways of the world. Hopefully someone a bit younger tends to be more open minded. Not that i haven't seen it in older guys or guys my age. For example i have some gay men friends. I find the older guys i meet more closed minded to that( jokes ,homophobia etc..). I don't want to paint everyone with that brush because i do have some very close minded young relatives and its not acceptbale for me to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't accept my friendships. I am also quite active, on the go, not a couch potato, but not a fitness freak either, so the man i decided upon must be somewhat open about that stuff too. There is also the down side to younger guys as i have spoken off before. | |
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freja
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/19/2007 4:19:38 PM | WOW
when i get older im sure gonna have a younger guy. I dont know whats wrong with older women not wanting younger guys. Damn if i was 50 I sure would want a nice 25 yr old in my bed or maybe 40yr old... YES THANKS. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/19/2007 7:08:54 PM | | Hi everyone, my first post. Looked like a good one for me to comment on. I noticed this is kind of along the same thread as the “Why do women only want to date younger guys.” My opinion? First off, I dont know why the OP is worried about it, his time will come and then he will wish he was 19 again. Secondly, this is kind of like the don’t ask don’t tell scenario. It really doesn’t matter what age the person is we are dating, but when these older gals come on here and just say that they like young guys, it really sounds kind of pervy to me. The attraction of youth is universal, of course everyone would like to be with a younger person, its just that when you say it, it makes it sound as if you need to see a psychoanalyst . But that’s just my observation.... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/19/2007 7:26:32 PM | I was in a LTR with someone a lot younger than me and it was the best one of my life to date. We had a lot in common and he actually surprised me with his ability to be emotionally mature and quite intelligent about the things that mattered to us both. Many times I questioned what the hell I was doing... but the more we got to know each other the closer we felt in age and we bonded on levels I didn't even know existed. I look, feel and am mentally about 29ish. I can't even reconcile my age in my head. When I'm talking with someone and say I'm turning 40 this year their jaws hit the floor and they ask for ID. lol That doesn't mean I'm immature, it just means that I'm young in the way I think and was blessed with young looking genes lol.
I certainly don't seek it out and I don't have the cougar mentality ~ I just naturally get along and relate to people younger. My two best friends are 10 and 16 years younger than me, and the majority of co-workers I get along best with are in their 20's or early 30's as well. As to whether a guy in his mid-late 20's can seriously want a long term serious relationship that will lead to marriage? I don't know. It's just funny when someone in their early - mid 30's emails me and asks if I'm into younger guys lol... to me they're the older guy being that they're older than the last one I dated! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/19/2007 7:56:58 PM | You young ones are pretty to look at and fun to play with...but then what? You didn't live thru the crazy times we did, you don't know the 60's, the 70's, the music, the craziness. Nothing personal, but I would rather go to a car cruise with someone who knows how to dance to the music they are playing!
I have had a couple of relationships with younger men who were mature beyond their years, but sweetie...do ya REALLY wanna be changing my Depends in 20 yrs...lol | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/19/2007 8:09:24 PM | Honestly....the guys in their 30s are usually intelligent, considerate, romantic and put their concentration on common interests. For some reason I get more emails from that group than any other.
The men in their late 40s and 50s (just talking about the ones I've encountered) focus on the 'sexuality' right off the bat. I thought at first I was imagining it. Buttttt... nope. When I was on here before and wound up on 100 plus Favs list (most of whom I have NO clue who they were)... I noticed when contact was made via the early to mid 30 yrs of age men...they were much more interesting to communicate with. I had to block and ended up deleting out that profile due to the obnoxious behavior of the late 40s and older men.
And people wonder why more and more women in their 50s are dating/getting in relationships with men in their 30s - early 40s. Not rocket science. Intelligence/Communication skills, etc. All that and a bag of chips.  | |
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