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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/14/2007 8:30:34 AM | | I am almost 38 and I was involved with a guy that was only 19 for 3 months...great for having the same drive..However not so great in alot of other areas. I want someone who is closer to my age because for one thing he and I out of bed had nothing in common. Most 19 year olds know nothing about paying bills and being responsible. They are barely out of high school. For the record my 19 year old lied about his age and I do think he is a sweet guy and I just happened to be lucky that he was mature in many ways. Or I may have figured it out sooner that he lied to me. As far as 19 being too young to drink. Its legal in most provinces in Canada at 18 or 19. It is much older in the states. All I do know is 19 is way too young for most women over the age of 25 because well there is so much growing you do as a person before 30. You probably don't see it now but when you are 30 and look back you will be oh ok i get it now... You have to give girls your age a chance. There are some out there that probably feel the same way you do towards the opposite sex. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/14/2007 4:56:07 PM | I would feel like im with my son...nope have to cut the boundery somewhere...it all depends on what your looking for..if your in it just for the wild sex then i guess young(as in the late 20's or older) would be good..I myself find that the older men I have been with have just as much drive and content me very fine thank you | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/14/2007 4:58:52 PM | | Guys are immature! I wouldn't go more than a few years younger if any. I'd rather go for a guy older than me because I'd expect that he knows what he wants and how to please me. I'm too old to have to train someone too young for me. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/14/2007 5:13:01 PM |  I dont' mean 19 years olds but men much Younger then I are attracted to Me.We both learned from each other.Last one stayed 7 years.We are still friends.I left because I was thinking "will he be here 10 years from now"? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/14/2007 5:53:08 PM | Iv'e had a 29 year old making passes at me , its very flattering, but..... just flattering is all. I enjoy the company of a man closer to my age, we seem to share more of the same interests in life.
I don't think I could go through all the young kid talk, games, and such. Besides.... just thinking about all of it wears me out. I done been there years ago & now I need more maturity. Everyone have a good evening, chow for now.... Breath | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/31/2007 8:18:11 AM | i get messages from men ranging in ages from 19-60.
i prefer the younger ones, if i decided to date.
with they younger ones, they haven't developed bad habits and aren't so set in their ways. i can train them and mold them into what i need/want. they're simply more malleable. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/31/2007 12:28:32 PM | Well, there are two kind of older women, one kind of older women like to enjoy "the moment"; and another kind of older women are focusing a commitment future. So it is not all "older women not into younger guys".
I assumed for the most older women, younger guys don't make them feel good about themselves, instead of making them feel old, indecent and insecure, expecially the men as young as their sons' ages. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/31/2007 1:10:19 PM | | I think it depends on the older woman. I have dated women much older than myself . Its not big deal . People have different prefences . I see some irony in here . Many of the older women that are against the younger guy cite that young men just want a roll in the hay , to put it delicately. These same older women have pics of their cleavage hanging out on or off a bed . In others some very sexual type of poses wearing as little as possible . | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/31/2007 1:59:08 PM | | I have a personal experience with this issue so I will throw in my 2 cents worth on this one.....most of us older gals have tried the younger men and found it to be great to a point. I even married a young man that was 10 years younger than me but it didnt last. It is kinda like I trained him then he decided to take his educational experience somewhere else. All it takes is one burn like that for most of us and we are done. Older women tend to already have children so the younger man gets along REAL GOOD witht the kids, problem is he cant help with setting an example or any forms of disapline as he is sitting right there with the kids. It becomes a joke...It is not funny. And lastly, I am older than you of course but my son is barely a year younger than you. Tell me if I am wrong but that is a little strange! Nothing personal but I prefer older more stable and mature over young and energetic...Great for one night stand but not comittment. You dont the experience yet. Give it 10 years then the 40 year old women will talk to you....Just my opinion of course. Thx for listening | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/9/2007 11:08:09 AM | | They are carefree with less baggage and hangups and arent set in there ways and arent comming out of bad marriges so have no anger issues...makes for a fun date :) | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 6:26:41 AM | I understand that some younger guys like older girls because we know what we want. The trouble is most younger guys don't have a clue. Not trying to be offensive but you haven't done your time in this world and I'm not about to teach you. I don't want to mother someone I want to date them. I really couldn't see myself with someone more than 3 or 4 years shy of my age. On the same token you would have to be pretty young at heart to be more than five years older than me and spark my interest.
There are women out there if that's what you are looking for. Just keep looking. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 6:36:30 AM | | To message 820 . WHY IS IT MORALLY WRONG ??? I do not see anything morally wrong for 2 people of different age groups that love each other in a love relationship that transcends time. In fact I think that the fact that they are open minded is MORALLY RIGHT. It can be beautiful for 2 people like that to get together in a beautiful loving relationship. If it is all just about sex , than so what. What 2 consenting adults do is their personally business as long as others are not getting hurt. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 6:53:31 AM | | well...I can't say that I would date a 19 year old because I'm 34...but I will admit...I perfer men who are between 27-30....I have dated as young a guy as 25 and as old as 48....but I just have more in common and more fun with the 27-30 year olds. I'd tell you why but I have no idea...just the way it is at this time. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 7:26:15 AM | Here go the double standards again. When a man dates a younger woman, everything is a ok, he is even the envy of most. Women, I think you should all do the same....date men younger than you and see him for what he is, forget the age differences...!!! Why is it acceptable for men to date much younger and women feel uncomfortable doing it? Besides, I've always seen people who were older acting like babies and younger people acting well more mature than their age. Accept people for what they are, age is a hangup you should overcome. Oh, i think these two make a good dance routine ,  don't you all? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 7:29:38 AM | | It has nothing to do with comfort level for me. I don't want to date younger guys for the same reason they don't want to date girls their own age. They don't know what they want as a general rule. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 7:38:27 AM | Prince - yes men do go after women who are a lot younger. That's maybe because their egos need a little TLC. Heaven knows why a young attractive female would strike up with a fat, balding, middle aged man though. I've only encountered one case and it was definitely his wallet that attracted!
There is nothing wrong with a bit younger (in fact I would say it is ideal!) but the reason why less women go after men half their age is partly because it is less accepted by society - but maybe, just maybe, we aren't as desperate and we have more sense? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 7:40:44 AM | | I like going out with young guys because they have a lot of energy and enjoy adventure. However, I stopped going out with young guys because they do not have the type of manners which men are expected to have in the types of places I frequent. This includes, opening doors whether it's in a car or to a restaurant and giving me your hand as I am getting out of the vehicle. If younger men had more polished manners, I'd still be dating them. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 10:47:49 AM | Speaking as an older woman far past your years, my reason for not wanting to date a guy 19 is cause I feel like a mother.....lol
Guy has to at least be near my age...its a mother thing I think....be blessed. | |
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