| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 11:00:49 AM | | That's not true, because a woman 8 years older than me just asked me out a few months ago. First thing she asked was how old I was. She thought I was a bit older; we still went out though. I'm not sure if that was a compliment or an insult; I just hope people don't mistake me for 50 when I'm 30... LOL! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 1:51:37 PM | | Honestly, I was talking about ME, I never mean for all older women, we are all different. lol, a young man would have to sweep me off me feet before I could think....cause thats how I am. I have a lot of men around me younger as I rent to tenants, I still would rather one at least 10 years near my age, if I dated someone younger. Of course you never know, we none can say; never...lol allandr7 | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 2:07:15 PM | Hun!!!! Let me tell you something.When i was 27,i dated a man,who was 21,we got married 2 years later.
His problem was,he was into himself, more than us.Not all younger men have hangups, infact some are more resaponceable than the older set.You just got to know what you want,and use tacked and you will make it.GoodLuck Hun!!! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 3:11:04 PM | | Sometimes I think that I should try to date younger men. Most of the men I meet my age (49) are basically all divorced with children who they seem to spoil rotten and an ex wife who according to them is the wicked witch who never liked sex. She has either gained weight and they left her (I am a voluptuous erotic woman so they obviously are not attracted to my body type), or she "found herself" or whatever and left them for a jerk, or they had affairs and she left them. A 35 year old professional man who is mature, has not been married and does not have children and who seeks a serious relationship might have more in common with me at this time than most men I meet who are my age. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 3:14:17 PM | It's not that I don't want to...hell, they are attractive, with great bodies. The trouble is, they are usually unclear on how to have a mature, mutually respectful relationship. They tend to play games, intentionally or not. RULED by hormones, rather than rational thought.
Generally, they are not financially secure or stable in their life yet.
Now that I think of it, even the older men I have dated act like this! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 6:49:16 PM | Well I wouldn't want to date a guy that young, hell I've raised my kids not ready to raise another one, and what would a 45 year old woman and a 20 sum year old have in common, cause I sure can't get into the rap music | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/10/2007 8:34:33 PM | | Men at that age are good to sleep with but not good to date. Why? Because most men your age need to go out and experience life. Tying yourself into a relationship at such a young age is senseless. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/16/2007 9:43:46 AM | i whole heartedly agree. and i think if a younger guy asks out a older woman she should take it as a compliment. im sure for some it aint like this thing happens everyday. look on the bright side NO VIAGRA INCLUDED! think of it as the next best thing to christmas, have fun and reminesse later. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/16/2007 11:32:48 AM | As a mother off 4 kids aged from 19-25 i cant get my head round going out with someone a lot younger than me i have however been out with a man ten yrs younger but he clashed with my kids and it ended... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/18/2007 6:00:39 PM | Well ........ "bomber" - speaking personally, you would need to be able to talk about things that interest the lady too - perhaps like the same kinda music/bands . hv something in common!!
p.s. I can't stand the firkin banana either! lol
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/20/2007 6:48:45 PM | Wow this thread goes back to 2004.
I've found a few things to be true when it comes to being a younger guy and looking for a serious relationship. It's almost unrealistic. Sure it happens... and people win the lottery too. If you are a guy between 18-25 and looking for a serious relationship, you could be in for a challenge. Older women rarely date younger men because most just assume they are immature. The women your age usually aren't looking for anything serious and the ones who are date older men. Of course I am generalizing and realize there are exceptions to this. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/21/2007 10:19:24 AM | Most of the older women tell me that older men are not into sex at all.
Where are all these older men who are not into sex at all? Since viagra came along , you would think that that would change things. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/21/2007 11:22:33 AM | In my last serious relationship the guy was 19 and i was 30 when met 4 years ago. It lasted about 3 years because we had a really good emotional connection....but sadly we broke up because he prefered socialising with his mates to spending time with me and the kids. I do have a penchant for younger looking guys......but i'll be looking for someone more mature this time round.
Nicki x | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/21/2007 11:41:00 AM | I have made a strong emotional/physical connection with some younger men. I like their energy and eagerness to be active. Most of the men my age are either dirty old men or not interested in sex and just want to watch TV in the recliner. Life is short and I want to have fun. Bring on the younger guys.
J | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/21/2007 11:56:37 AM | i have a strong preference for younger men. the problem i find is that while many of them are quite happy to have a physical relationship with an older woman, few of them are willing to consider taking it to the next level. i've had younger men who were fwb or flings, but then turned all skittish the moment dating or something more emotionally exclusive was mentioned.
a recent situation comes to mind...he's 25 and i'm 34, we'd had a fwb thing going on and off for more than 6 months, and so i asked whether he'd ever consider dating me. first he had the "what will mom think" worry, then he wrestled with his own perceptions. we went on a few test *dates* and got along great, it felt nice, but he couldn't get over his hangups. however, he decided that he was still comfortable enough to go back to a fwb arrangement. that just wasn't good enough for me, i explained that after 6 months either we took it to the next level or the sex had to end and we would have to be platonic friends only. needless to say he got more than a little pissy and upset with me over it.
my attraction towards younger men remains the same, but i want the potential of it going somewhere. there are plenty of younger men attracted to older women sexually, but i'm left wondering, where are the younger men who actually want to date older women? they've got to be out there somewhere. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/21/2007 1:41:36 PM | | You are going to the wrong places! I typically don't go for younger guys...but I don't dismiss them out of hand either. You just never know. Attraction is a strange animal. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/26/2007 4:47:59 PM | | I get emails from guys in their twenties..but I would find it uncomfortable to date one of them..guys in their thirties are fine to date...in their twenties..I dont know..would probably end up mothering them. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/26/2007 4:51:55 PM | | I have always dated younger men, just happens that way.But I wont date anyone under 30 (im 46) and no way in heck Im dating a guy my sons age (18).I have nothing in common with a guy that age. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 6/26/2007 7:18:40 PM | I doubt I have anything in common with a 19 yr old (with all due respect). Plus, I would need BIG TIME mental stimulation and therefore I would be bored to death.
You aren't doing anythng "wrong". Just enjoy your life and age....before you know it you will wish you were 19 again!
Best,
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/3/2007 5:20:04 AM | | im 25 years old and i am currently seeing some1 who is 17, i dont see a problem with it-iv always been young at heart, we get on well, av fun 2gether thats what its all about. Dont give up not all women are the same x | |
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