| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/29/2007 1:03:26 AM | cheers there! 
am old enough to drink and have a family...though i do not look old enoughto date guys in the same age group...so i end up dating younger blokes who "looks" like they are in my age group...but in all reality...they are but "boys"...21 yrs young. It is loads of fuuuun to be with these young whipper snappers....but when tables are turned and seriousness is required...they can not seem to multicontextually comprehend.
not "player hatin" ...this is what I usually go through with younger blokes...so am abstaining from the 18-24 box and will concetrate on 25-35 box from now on...
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/29/2007 1:35:55 AM | well im an older woman im into younger guys but there is a age i dont go near i like younger men between 30/49 i have two sons and they are 19 and 21 and know way will i go there its just that i dont want to be seeing boys my sons age but i think older woman are a younger mans fantasie its just that can tell there mates a storie wen there bored  and just see girls your age | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/29/2007 2:15:44 AM | I happen to like 'em older, younger, or my 'age group'! Some younger ones are more mature than the older ones, but the older ones are also so 'well seasoned' !! Seeing as I'm only making friends for a while, I don't worry a hella lot about the ages. They all have value in my life. When I'm 'ready to get serious', it's not going to matter really how old they are to a CERTAIN extent. I don't think I could go any younger than ohhhh... maybe 30 or 35 lol! *wink* Who knows ~ I don't feel much older than I did 18 years ago at age 32, maybe calmer, more serene and settled ~ but still just as mischievious!  | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/29/2007 4:10:20 AM | I am thinking, why don't you change the question and ask yourself - what is the reason for you to want an older woman - what kind of older women whe are talking about?
mid 20is? early 30is?
Check with you wath you want out of life and what your interests are and what you would like to do when you have spare time - then do these things and see who else does it - there you have your answer :-)
This is my opinion, but I can be wrong :-) But that's how I see it. Well I also have a difficult decission - someone who is 8 years younger than me (but gorgeous) would like to meet me and I am not sure if I should go for it, as the interests are so different - looks and sex are not the only elements of an relationship. I can only talk about myself, I think the older you get the more you look for a soul mate rather than a lover - am I wrong? (well sex can be improved on the way, but compatibility is hard) | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/29/2007 5:26:09 AM | Ok here goes,
"Older woman seduces younger man, Sound familiar"?
Societal attitudes have changed definitelt, new options for love and Romance.
I think Women have experienced a significant financial and status shift over the last century, now thay can pick any man they want "we have choices"
indeed the idea of dating a younger man is exciting, if you can work together the age differece is not a problem.
Age ain't nother but a number
I think younger men can be mature, sensitive and very romantic,
The biggest problem with US older women is we are afraid what our close friends and family will think,
Because we have had to do everything for our selves, and hold together the family, when the partner leaves, we only look out for people that have been there, done that.
Hey bring on the younger guy's ......if your willing to give us older ladies a chance, then let the fun commence.... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/29/2007 10:50:08 AM | | I think a lot of people are taking his message out of context. He doesn't mean some ten years older, he means someone a few years older. Possibly a female who is actually on his maturity level, rather than most his age. I personally don't understand why we are so quick to judge on age. I think possibly it could be because we have been groomed by society (mostly parents...that the guy should be older). Sometimes thats just not the case though, if you connect with someone, as long as its a reasonable difference in age. I say who cares, go for it...read the guys profile...see if you two share anything in common. Who knows, you could be missing out on something great! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/23/2007 8:42:11 PM | | Join the Marines.. you'll pick up all the maturity and leadership and everything else in life you will need to be successful and with the ladies as well. Except you'll be sexually deprived on deployments.. the sacrifice is worth it... SEMPER FI MARINES! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/23/2007 9:28:39 PM | i am dating a 20 year old right now..and never again! he won't work , imature as hell. even thinks he's not immature..right he is! and he's posted up in my house like the plague and won't go away...no more young men for me once he's gone...damn that's the End of the young ones for me. i need a MAN! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/23/2007 10:14:30 PM | CCX, you have reminded of my fondness for the USMC. This one's for you!:
A marine and a sailor are in the bathroom. When they finish, the sailor says,"In the navy, they teach us to wash our hands," and the marine says," In the marines, they teach us not to piss on our hands."
Still, I am not into younger men! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/23/2007 10:48:21 PM | | It depends how much older. I am 48 and half of the men that contact me are 23 or younger. For me that is a little to young for me. It also depends what you want, I suppose if it strickly for sex then age shouldn't be a issue. For a long term relationship A woman doesn't want to that many years older. I always ask why would you want to date a older woman and the majority of responses are, less drama and mature. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/24/2007 5:16:08 AM | | It depends on the man I suppose. I have met plenty of men in their 40s and 50s who had lives full of drama and loved drama queens. I am not a drama queen, and prefer a man who does not thrive on interactions with drama queens. Maybe he exists in a city far away from me, or maybe men and womenin the South are more dysfunctional than persons from other parts of the USA. I have heard more than a few men tell me that I am nothing like many Southern women. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/24/2007 5:27:43 AM | 
Okay.. OP posted that in Feb 2004, when he was 19, basically 4 years older now.. bet hes hooked up with a young chickie and wondering what on earth he was thinking!~ | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/24/2007 6:02:17 AM | | I'm 50. I have dated men as young as 38. It really depends on the guy, what his maturity level is. I have an online friend who is 23. I'd never date anyone that young, but we have much more interesting conversations than most of the guys my age, because he is mature beyond his years. One of the 38 year olds I went out with was so childish that there was no question that there would not be a 2nd date. Like I said, it really depends on the guy. I rarely date, but when I do, it's usually with someone my age or younger, not interested in older men. But then again, I just met a man who is 5 years older than me, and he could be someone I would be interested in dating, but he's already told me that he's not interested, lol. Just my luck. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/24/2007 7:33:23 AM | I love a younger man.
He still has his energy.
Still lives for excitement.
And always willing to try something new.
It is sooooo hard to teach an old dog new tricks!!! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/24/2007 7:46:53 AM | This is funny, I've had several really young guys ask me out, but I doubt we'd have much in common. My daughter just turned 31 and I know where she's at in her life, but dating guys 26? I guess I should be flattered, but I wasn't sure if I should laugh or cry. 
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/24/2007 8:13:19 PM | I have a son age 30 and and my youngest is 18 yrs. old ... I been ask by their friends to date them but I have rules ... I should be flattered , sorry but they are too young for me .. it's like hanging out with my son's friends . Then again if they were 40 years old and over thats a different story...  My 18 year old is still school / learning , my 30 yr. old son is a professional. No offend to you that date younger men | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:45:29 AM | I think the times are changing and the young boys are the new toys for the older ladies.
I think it depends on the woman. If she wants to settle down and have kids, then youth looks like a charateristic that will not help with that goal.
For women who want to have fun, I do not think there is anything better than a young lad who has not yet been boggled down with past relationship baggage.
Just know what you want from a relationship and eventually you will find the "older" woman that you are looking for.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/25/2007 5:58:35 AM | You know that whole "MILF" thing? Well I have two boys and they are 24 (grown and on his own) and 15 at home.. both boys friends have always been that way too me...'
is it a compliment, "I guess in a non put down way, it is amusing"
I have had younger men contact me.... and no offense to any of you, I understand there is this thing of having an older woman.... atleast once in your life.
I am sorry, it does nothing for me....To me it is creepy. I have children around your age and it just does not seem right, you have so much to learn and have fun with, woman your age for your age is what you need then you grow a woman as you grow.
Woman and Men alike, after heartaches and pain and playing and loosing, mature.... With a young man, sex and freedom and the world, with an older man, more of settling down....
Men and Woman are like fine wines they better with age.... don't be in a hurry go have fun, look for someone that is your age..
You have a whole life time of learning woman,, you will aprreciate them when you are older and they will appreciate you...
Ye s the bananana... I always thought it was a messed up condom character....teee heee
Lets Ban The Bananana!!! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:55:56 AM | I agree with suziecutie.I really enjoy the young men.I tend to have alot more in common and usually are not as judgemental.But right now any random guy would be nice...
Wanted guy who can dance for one night | |
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