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njers6
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jf468
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/16/2008 3:01:12 PM | | There are plenty of "older" women who would date younger men, but 19 is too young for most of them. I know some women in their late 30s and 40s who usually date men who are about 5-10 yrs younger than them. | |
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bsg789
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Joined: 12/4/2007
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/16/2008 7:19:59 PM | Why are ( some ) older women not into younger guys???
Some women feel that younger men are only looking for sex. That is true for some younger men. But there are also some younger men who would date and even prefer older women. There are also some men around my age who are only looking for sex.
There are plenty of "older" women who would date younger men, but 19 is too young for most of them. I know some women in their late 30s and 40s who usually date men who are about 5-10 yrs younger than them.
This applies to me. I'm 40 and I would date men in their 30s or late 20s. However I would not date a 19 yr old man. Most men around that age are still maturing and aren't independent yet. I probably wouldn't have much in common with a man would be young enough to be my son.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/16/2008 8:08:52 PM | I just don't want the financial responsibility of being a step mom, the head of the house and the one who knows what
happens if things aren't kosher in his life
Getting really out about it.........
I am not into robbing cradles...I prefer an older man as I am not a teacher, advisor or financial planner....
Nor do I desire to pay for services rendered............
ROFLMAO, as I have not reached the age yet, where
I am so desperate to believe I can keep up with a man of that much younger..2 to 4 years is the max limit for me.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2008 2:49:49 AM | I love the fact that you women think that younger men are actually in to you. If you only knew the true reason, you'd feel like a schoolgirl to a pedophile. Anyhow, have fun with it.
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medana
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2008 3:52:27 AM | i love em younger. delicious and cute like puppies
i dated one that was 18 couple years back. he just told me last mo that he's turning 21 this year, so he can come see me dance... sooo cute!!! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2008 7:17:24 AM | Yeh, well it's all cool. But, when it comes to a long term relationship, such as marriage there is something to be said about "shared values" and "common experiences". As far as male virgins go in their youth, I would hope their first experience is with a woman a bit older than them just for the learning curve with sexual activity.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/17/2008 8:21:55 AM | Based on this thread and other things, these are main reasons why some older women don't date younger men.
1) Not compatible with younger men.
2) Younger men are immature
3) Younger men are only looking for sex or a "Mommy figure".
I can understand reason # 1. Reason # 2 is not always true. Maybe a lot of young men such as 19 yr olds or men in their early 20s would be immature. But after a certain point, maturity has nothing to do with age. A 30 yr old man could be more mature than many men in their 40s.
Reason # 3 could be true in many cases especially if the age difference is very large such as 20 yrs. But it could also be false in many other cases as well. Sometimes it is the older woman who is using the younger man for sex. Sometimes a younger man likes a woman who happens to be older. Sometimes a younger man is generally more interested in dating older women.
FYI if a man is only interested in sex, the age of the woman is often irrevelant. If I was only looking for sex, I wouldn't care if the woman was 20, 30, 40,50, or even 60 yrs old. I have seen a few women around 60 that are fairly attractive for their age. Also, there is nothing with a younger man and older woman using each other for sex if that is what both of them want. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/20/2008 9:02:05 AM | tick tock did you not read the entire thread to see that I said and I quote, " Just my two cents worth".
I have on occasion dated younger men. Hence why I can speak from the experience I have learned from this.
Will a relationship with someone that much younger go the long haul highly unlikely.
I know how I felt when my daughter was dating someone fourteen years older then her.
I think having children puts a different perspective on one's life choices.
Younger men have hard bodies..mmmmmm can go for hours...oh yes and are nice eye candy...but when it comes down to where to go in live were not on the same page.
Again my two cents worth from life's experiences. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/20/2008 10:30:42 AM | Icey43, I was referring to your assumptions:
Young men want older woman b/c we know what we want. Were not ashamed of our bodies/ we have experience/ were not into head games.
This may be the truth in your head, but definitely not true in the majority of cases. How would you know their real underlying motives?
Older men want younger woman b/c they are trying to relive their youth/prove they still have it and want someone who does not immediately realize they are complete and utter idiots who have yet to mature
This is the statement that I thought was completely out to lunch and obviously biased. While this may be the truth in some cases, it is definitely not true in all cases. Like I said before, I've known many women (in their early and late teens) that actively pursued older men for a variety of reasons.
While it may very well be your 2 cents, it doesn't hurt to recognize when you are actually biased in your opinion.
Younger men have hard bodies..mmmmmm can go for hours...oh yes and are nice eye candy...but when it comes down to where to go in live were not on the same page
Yes, nature's green is gold and this is exactly the reason a lot of men want younger women, plus the fact they come without all the baggage. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/20/2008 10:36:46 AM | Why has this thread not died an indecent death? This is a topic that has been well and truly beaten to death. Put it to rest people and leave this tombstone unturned!
Personal preferences..... all about personal preferences.
My two bits worth.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/20/2008 10:40:10 AM | HYPERGAMY--my ex came from a lower economic family and in the divorce, he tried to get my parents to give him money, said he had married me because of their money. Now he has no access to it, nor did he get any of it. Gold digging comes in both sexes.
As far as younger men, I have found most younger men are simply wanting sex with an older women, sometimes the relationships work, but if he eventually wants children--he would be out of luck. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/20/2008 1:13:36 PM | | I found many of the younger guys are just wanting play . Nothing serious . I rather date older than me cause the older ones tend be more understanding an caring than the younger ones . I am only 34 but i have lived my twentys dont want go back thers an found a lot of em are just way to inmature or pushy insisting if u date em more than once they want live togethers . And tween there to interested in going out an partying . | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:24:29 PM | "Tell u why coz am 19 and they must think "hes 19 hes 2 imature". well do u?? What do i need to do grow a few years??? Am sick of birds my age!! Fcuk sake someone help or tell me what the hell am doing wrong??"
^^^Because many write and talk like this. There is just a world of difference in what has been experienced. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/2/2008 7:18:11 PM | Of course we are into younger guys. It just depends, ya know? I remember being at the Ritz Carlton many years ago with my younger lover--just 7 years. People at other tables kept staring at us. I'd have a problem with 20 years difference. A guy in his mid-40's isn't even an issue at this point.
And, as far a men my age and older, I've already done the dance with Viagra. I glad it's been invented. It sure beats pop-cycle sticks and duct tape. "Hey honey it's time to take a happy pill!" | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 5/3/2008 5:52:05 AM | The guy I am seeing will be 47 next month, I am 57. So what? We have a lot in common and there are differences. I have yet to meet a 27 year old with whom I have a great deal in common. I am not saying the 27 year old is not worthwhile, he is just not for me. I have also dated a man in his 70s, while he had a lot going for me, in that particular case, he did not have the energy to do the things I like to do--hiking and dancing. He would go but tired early.
My 28 year old son dated a woman 40 for a while, he liked her personality, etc, but they did not have enough shared interests.
My ex-mother-in-law was married to man younger than me yet older than her son who was 5 years my junior, by one year.
It depends on the people. Whatever floats your boat and makes the two people involved happy. | |
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