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 thecollector_70

Joined: 6/8/2008
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:30:03 PM
I say no for a lot of reasons one i have a son almost 20 yrs old and for numero two I've went out with a younger guy before and they are too immature.
 Ignoble

Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1227
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:48:58 PM
RE: First post.

I know many older women who are into younger MEN... maybe you don't come across as... ahem... full grown? lol
 brilliant is lonely

Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 1228
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/3/2008 10:07:57 PM
age is not an issue , attitude is.
 heavysoul

Joined: 6/13/2008
Msg: 1229
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/3/2008 10:14:55 PM
older women are not into younger guys because younger guys haven't watched enough porn yet to be any good at sex. ha!
 Ignoble

Joined: 10/11/2007
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/3/2008 10:27:44 PM
^^^ That is quite possibly the funniest thing I've read all night... thank you.
 startle

Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 1231
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/4/2008 3:33:35 PM
if you are interested in a relationship with an older woman just keep trying until you find one who is also interested in you. not every woman is going to say yes but the right one will say yes and be glad you offered.
 123bubbly

Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 1232
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/7/2008 12:01:17 PM
I agree with you !
 diet7up

Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 1233
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/10/2008 3:51:25 PM
19, omg I wish I was that age again,lol. Older women are out there my friend waiting to meet a young good looking man like you. Always put yourself in their shooes is the key for finding them :)
I was 19 as well and was dating a 41 years old professional that was separated and had a son 5 years younger than me,lol

Try the library, subway and buses works too,lol
 Fishermanorfish

Joined: 11/12/2006
Msg: 1234
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/10/2008 4:43:14 PM
Women Like to be with younger guys and you will find out when you will be around 26. Lots of 40 years old women will be happy to date you. As you are 19 women don't want to be with someone who is IDed every time he orders a drink.
 NWIsfinest

Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 1235
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/10/2008 4:53:50 PM
I like men younger than myself. 19, hahaha my sons are older than that! I have dated some men older than myself......but, I am not ready to just sit back and watch the world go by. However, I don't want to have another child to raise either! If I wanted another child, I will have one. I am looking for a friend as well as a mate. Someone who can think for himself and respect my thoughts as well. He doesn't have to agree, just respect my thoughts.
 july16ladybug_08

Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 1236
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/4/2008 10:04:35 PM
I think that it is very frowned upon in society. Ridiculous that older men can date younger women and no one thinks it is wrong. I have dated many younger men and it is fun but not so much fun being out in public. Just try walking down the street hand in hand and all you get are dirty looks and mostly from other women. I think it stinks that men my age can date younger women NO ONE blinks an eye. I do it and Im called a cougar....
 cuddles1961

Joined: 12/2/2007
Msg: 1237
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Posted: 9/4/2008 10:19:59 PM
Well , that depends on how much older the women are. I have dated younger guys as much as 15 years younger than myself, I am 47. But I would never date a 19yr old, thatst he same age as my son!!! I have had 19 yr olds ask me out but I do have a limit on how young I would date, I am sorry but there is no way in heck I would have anything in common with a 19yr old, we are in 2 completly different times in our lives mentally. Now on the other hand my 19 yr old is way more mature than some of the 50yr olds I have dated as our other guys that age. In most cases age is just a number except if you are 47 and the guy is 19,lol.
 The rock man

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 1238
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:08:38 PM
Well if you are looking for someone to be"into" younger guys maybe Michael Jackson has an opening ! You'll know it's time to go to be when the big hand is on the little one!
 gossipgirl_2010

Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 1239
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Posted: 9/4/2008 11:18:34 PM
depends on what you want to do... if you just want to sit around and do nothing then that would be a problem. but if you are out doorsy person such as u like walks in the beach & park or going to Robson Street or Downtown vancouver in general then that would be okay.
I myself, is an older woman who had gone out & been engaged with older men when i was younger now that i am older been going out with Younger men. So as I said it all depends on what you like to do on your spare time. I myself spend time playing with video games as well seeing I have younger brothers too but on a date find something more Productive. gettting drunk isn't something good to do on a first date either....
 hufnagel

Joined: 4/8/2007
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:34:46 PM
I'm an older woman and all I date is younger men,I will not date older men they are never as cute as the young ones.
 jadegreen

Joined: 2/3/2006
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:43:49 PM
I just like someone that is at the same level or stage of the game as myself...
Also maybe some younger guys are "trying" to hard these days b/c is "trendy" to be with older ladies...just wait the trend will change and we will be "old ladies " again...
 boredwithpgh

Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 1242
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/7/2008 10:18:01 AM
Well, I'm almost 30. I can tell you why I don't date younger men for a few reasons...
*Not much in common. Need to have something to talk about
*Most are not out of the party phase
*Especially @ 19..you are an adult.. though you are venturing into adulthood. Ten years ago.. things were so different!
*Men are more casual at 19.. When you're 10 years older or such.. not so much for a female.
If you just want to have fun.. different story.
 LINDZ666

Joined: 8/21/2008
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/7/2008 10:25:42 AM
its nothing against younger guys, but i would feel 2 wierd dating someone of 19. For example i am 26, and there is a lot of difference between a 19 yr old and a 26 yr old ( in my experience) in terms of what u've done, what u want to achieve in the next few years etc
am sorry if that sounds paternising but its true.
 compactdisc

Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 1244
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/7/2008 5:55:35 PM
some SAY they are.

what is worse is when a woman older than myself and who knows how old iam makes all the moves to " get " me then after a while says iam too young foe her !!!! WTF !!!!

if i can be bothered again i would rather go for younger women as they , in most cases tend to look up and respect older men , some older women can still actually tease and torment men and play mind games, its not just younger women that are imature.................its women of all ages that will still tease and torment.
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/7/2008 6:41:52 PM
Q - Why are older women not into younger guys?

A - Because they are really annoying and ask alot of stupid questions.
 sweetjemgirl

Joined: 4/11/2008
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/7/2008 6:58:37 PM

Q - Why are older women not into younger guys?

A - Because they are really annoying and ask alot of stupid questions.




I am amazed when asked out by young guys, it just seems weird to me and I have a son the OP's age. I am not wanting to be a future episode on Jerry Springer. I prefer men that know what they're doing, that have some maturity.
 WannaCStarz

Joined: 4/5/2007
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Posted: 9/8/2008 3:08:53 AM
i had an Indian guy approach me at a festival and follow me and my kids all around simply because i had spoke to him when no one else WOULD!

maybe that is why. some people dont want so much the dating, but they want to know they are cared for as a human being.

No one could understand his language and didnt want to be bothered. I am a very caring person and my heart really felt for him as he struggled to get his message across.
I explained to him he needed to SLOW down and take his time to talk and people would very much hear him.
(oops. hard to drop the tail after that. ) lol

I think that kindness plays an important role in how we feel.

I think POF needs to weed out the older messages and/or let new ones be posted on the same topic because by the time you get to these OLD topics the OP is long gone~~~

ANYONE agree?? That after a couple years and the OP is gone that a new thread on said topic be allowed???
HAVE AN AWWWWSUM DAY!
 ~Lizzi~

Joined: 8/21/2007
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/8/2008 11:21:10 AM
^^^^message 1229^^^^

Summer Lee, you are absolutely right!
 zestyvirginia

Joined: 1/14/2008
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/8/2008 11:22:33 AM
Jobs{still working and brown nose and dinner parties etc etc Alarm clocks, kids, baggage, ex's """""list goes on and on,"""",,I want a retired older man , as I have done all this and do not want to do it again.So, I will pass on a younger man and all their baggage.
 fallsgirl31

Joined: 10/25/2007
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Posted: 1/28/2009 2:27:06 PM
Actually,...I have always liked younger guys.
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