| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/28/2009 5:49:20 PM | A girlfriend of mine told me awhile back that this is the way she decides if a guy is too young to date:
"If you are young enough to have come out of my vagina... you are NOT getting into it now!!!"
And honestly other than eye candy and stamina, younger men have NOTHING to offer me.   | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/2/2009 11:10:37 AM | | I perfer younger men for several reasons...50 to 60....I seem to relate to them better,maybe because I raised 6 children??...Just kidding...LOL..I have never liked older men ,not even when I was young...I would never consider anyone younger than 50... | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/2/2009 11:20:56 AM |  hi all well personaly i prefer younger guys
aS i look younger than i am.....but they domt always prefer me lol¬!!!! ...i have neveer in the past 18 years been out with anyon my own age orolder but thats just the way
things have worked out......when i say younger i mean in eaRLY 40S....NOT in the 30s.....cause tthey are just after sex... anyway have fun all x | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/2/2009 1:16:26 PM | i find milfer's very annoying. want to ground them and give them a lecture on "today's world". my platonic single friends are mostly in their 40's and 30's (male and female). in the past, i have "dated" up to ten years younger. when i was much younger, it proved to be foolish. lately i've tried for five years difference, but not on the same wavelength. not sure why. way too many fuddy duddy men around or that i have been attracting. i have a lot of "inner child" that needs to be expressed.
i think ten years or so, is okay. i am talking more about the developmental stages of life, not about just sex. i would fear growing older, with someone too young. i am addressing that fear, more on a spiritual level. my male friends remind me that men die sooner, age faster, that i tend to be youthful (even with a disability), etc. i think women worrry more about the longer term. i don't "need" a man, but i do have only child syndrome and extroversion issues! so, i am leaving it up to the universe, but not willing to date someone way too much younger. i think it's different when you meet at a younger developmental stage, such as our friends demi and ashton. i think they have a good and special connection, but who knows? i do know another couple like them, but he has aged faster, even though younger. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:11:23 PM | It depends on your definition of "older" women. However there is a 30-something group of men who want to "learn" or "experience" an older woman. Well, here's the lessons.
1. There are no older women. Rather, there are "mature" women.
2. Mature women are not "easy", "experienced", or "grateful". However, they have been known to respond to basic respect.
3. Mature women do not enjoy allowing their bodies to become classrooms.
4. Mature women have names - "Alice", "Joyce", "Rhiannah", and so forth. They are not a population segment, but living, breathing human beings with feelings (did I say that?)
5. Mature women know they are being played, even if it can be flattering. Ultimately, Stella got divorced, which I think is kind of a downer.
If you want a fling before proposing, bring in a top of the line professional and let her teach you a thing or two. Until then, play with someone else.  | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:56:38 PM | | never been into younger guys really...well maybe one about 15 years ago.. I like men in their 40's... they just seem sexier to me... younger men usually want younger women as they get older anyhow... I think | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/3/2009 5:20:24 PM | | There are just too little things in common. Also, how does one explain to the family " this is my new boyfriend." Contrary to popluar belief most women are not "cougars." | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/4/2009 4:51:40 AM |
i think ten years or so, is okay. i am talking more about the developmental stages of life, not about just sex. i would fear growing older, with someone too young.
I agree. Ten years isn't a big deal to me. Most of the men I date are a few years younger (a few 10 years younger, but most around 2 to 3 years) - not because of their age, but because those are the ones who ask most, and the ones I'm most attracted to. But younger than that, and I just can't do it.
This has been a big issue in my life recently. More twenty-somethings than thirty or forty-somethings have been asking me out, and it floored me. I had to do a LOT of serious self-reflection. I learned a lot about the kind of person I am, how I present myself and what my expectations of a relationship are. I know the sex would have been great, but I need more than that in my life. I want shared goals, shared viewpoints, shared music and equivalent life experience. Beyond sex, what is there to sustain a relationship with someone twenty years younger? I don't want to be the older woman worrying that her younger man will leave her for someone younger, and always living on the edge like that. I love living on the edge, but I choose the edge - I prefer adrenalin rushes, not self-esteem pedestals and dives.
I think it's better to learn life with your partner rather than learn it from them. I don't have my life together enough to be a great guide anyway.  | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/4/2009 7:07:15 AM | Listen, there is nothin wrong with an older woman...such as myself..dating a youngin'... in fact...I think it would be great... you and my son would really hit it off...since he's well...only 2 years younger than you... And while you guys are snowboarding...I'll be snuggled up in my afghan sipping a hot cider and reading the current Reader's Digest.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/4/2009 8:48:02 AM |
Your arguement is very good. You are right it can work out.
But I had a couple of these relationships. Everything was great until eventually the issue of having kids comes along.
At 42, I'm thinking I am pretty much done. At 32, he has lots of time to change his mind (even thought he may think otherwise at the time).
That is the main reason I want someone within my own age group. My youngest is 19, its been that long since I have been able to have kids.
And one of the reason the last relationship didn't work out.
I'm 42 now will be 43 in June. Would like to have someone that is between 39 and 49 maybe even 50. Anyone actually any older then that is getting to close to my mothers age, who will be 63 this month. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/4/2009 9:55:25 PM | I get asked out by guys in their 20's all the time but, can't say yes because my kids are in their 20's. I know a man would jump at the chance to date a younger woman I just don't feel comfortable. I have a friend that is though and is having a great time.
I tried to search this topic but, don't know how. If someone reads this and knows how to search for a topic without just reading all of them please mail me and let me know...thanks. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/5/2009 12:44:44 AM | We all know the answer to this question and by "all" I mean us men. The real question is why are the "older women not hitting it off with men of their age group. What do you think happens when a guy of 55 meets a women of 50. Do you think they land in bed as fast as a younger man would want. Answer No. They have to sit around in restaurants for hours and weeks avoiding the subject all together. We "older men would love a woman to be like that younger man with us.......... but we just can't find any , anywhere!
So to younger women we go! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/5/2009 4:09:44 AM | Eugenejazzy you are so very very very wrong. I wish a man my age had 1/2 the sex drive I do but, they don't!!! The only way to keep up is little blue pills!! I did date a 40 yr. old that liked it 3-5 times a day...was amazing!!!! Unfortunately, he had a tragedy in his life and is dealing with depression but, enjoyed it for 6 months. A young man could do that but, I don't want to date a man my kids age...maybe his late 30's would be great!
Most of my friends are the same...guys in their 50's talk like they want it but, they can't get it up! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/5/2009 7:50:03 AM | | I have been dating men my own age and some slightly younger (5 years max) and these guys either have no sex drive or its a hair trigger. I have never seen anything like this. On the subject of younger guys, I have kids in their 20's and 30's so I won't date somebody their age. I love my kids but I can't have a relationship with someone that age. We just don't relate. They don't have the same life experiences as me. The sex may be great, but there is more to life than that. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/5/2009 8:50:41 AM | Men my age (for the most part...see eugenejazzy above) aren't interest in women my age.
They are interested in younger women. I don't know the reason why...maybe they are looking for lost youth..maybe they seriously think that only younger women can keep up with them...maybe they think younger women keep them young. .. I just don't know.
I think its just a personal preference.
But I've been told on here...by men my age...that I should date men in their 60's and 70's.
Younger men have messaged me...I have no clue why...but I'm really interested in someone closer to my age...
To be honest...I've given up...I just like to troll the forums and offer my sage advice...I'm seriously thinking of becoming a Professional Plenty of Fisher Poster.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/5/2009 9:13:06 AM | Browneyesboo I also had a 75 yr. old say I was discriminating against him because I didn't want to go out with him. I told him to date a 100 yr. old lady and then come back and ask me out. I think he got the message!
Men our age are so afraid of getting old and they are having difficulty with arousal and think a younger woman will do it...they would rather blame us for their inadequacies instead of themselves. They do figure it out eventually when the younger one laughs at his little blue pills.
We don't put up with any of their nonsense and they know it. They think they can play games with someone younger...so stupid because all a younger one wants his his money. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/5/2009 12:09:03 PM | Destinyplease i think your wrong here. In all fairness younger guys look better
are fitter can last longer and have a higher sex drive ....the same for younger girls
thats why the oldies try get the younges
its black and white | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/5/2009 12:52:46 PM | well 1SonicBoom
you're assuming that its all about sex...and you'd be wrong.
I mean sometimes us oldies like intelligent discourse and areas of common
interest with the person we hang out with....and in all fairness younger guys
can't compete with the older guys in that arena.
thats pretty black and white too.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/5/2009 12:55:24 PM | Sex Drive ... ? Better Fit ....?
What Planet are you guys and girls from ? Or should I ask what planet have you been dating on ?
As for younger men and women who chose to post here - what can you possibly know about sex in your 40's. Do you plan to be old and used up when you reach the grand old age of 45 ? If you are a healthy youngster you should make a healthy oldster.
The truth is - even though all you Dr Phils refuse to admit it - we are all in love with youth!! Men (yes me included) are just jealous because this really seems to be a one sided issue.
I am 47 and I have dated only one younger girl. she was 28. I have dated mostly women my age (because I can't regularly meet younger women) But I will say this about all parties involved .......Fitness and sex drive is not age dependent !!!
There are factors that are very much age dependent. The 28 yr old wanted to get married and have kids !!! YIKES !!!! Oh heck no !! And really, does anyone who is dating a person 20yrs younger expect them to hang around when you are 70 and they are 50? Is that even fair? I believe life makes us who we are not time. Although as I look around I do not see any young girls lining up to be with me. As a matter of fact I don't see any women lining up to be with me LOL!
Dating some one young, male or female is fun, go for it!! I hope it works out for you. Show me a 25 yo that will have me and wants all the same things I want and "it's on baby"! However what are the odds in that ever happening ? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/5/2009 1:44:09 PM | I know what my friends are like and most of them had their sex drive increase in their forties. Mine sure did. I now have multiples all the time and am more open. There is no fear of pregnancy and I don't worry about the man's ego...I want to be satisfied. I do agree men's sex drive decreases but, if a woman's hormones are where they should be their sex drive doesn't. I have had a few women e-mail me to agree and say they understand why I like men about ten yrs. younger.
For me it is a lot about sex because I felt deprived for so long and don't want to be with anyone older than me because of that. Sure I would like someone that is my friend and maybe someone to live with but, the sex must be very good! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/6/2009 2:58:15 AM | I have dated women older them me, i'm 26 and date women that are around 35 to 40 or so. much more fun and easy going then women my age. just keep trying, show them your a nice guy it also help to be stable in life, a decent job a little money. Its not the money that matters exactly but things like that show that you are responsible.
----and yes this banana is bad----reminds me of the dancing baby
i like this more---- | |
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