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LL3
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Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 127 | |
| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/29/2005 9:01:16 PM | Oh, you beatiful woman you....I have to beg to differ........I'm so totally living that life right as well speak...(well, not at this moment)...And I am so totally not trying to take away from anything you have ever done....just personally, I know I disagree.....(Gee, after reading this, how many women will come a callin') | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/29/2005 9:06:31 PM | | When I was 19 there were Mrs. Robinson's everywhere. I'm not sure it is the age thing friend, I think your self absorbtion might be a much bigger factor. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/29/2005 9:42:26 PM | my friend is going out with an older girl...he's 18 she's 21 or 22.....what's the problem....
thats only 3 or 4 years different, why is it 'okay' for the guy to be older than the girl, why is age such a huge thing, I don't get it.
well, anywho...I'm outa this older women hatin' place | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/30/2005 4:56:59 AM | and what is wrong with age anyway? Me? I would take an older woman over a younger one because an older woman is more experienced and knows how to have fun. I'm not into the damn bar scene or nightclubs. I'd prefer hanging around the house working on the car or playing on my computer. I also prefer going to a quiet restraunt or going for a drive along the coast to going to a heavy metal concert or eating mcdonald's all the time. I actually prefer cooking over ordering a meal. Home cooked food is sooooo much healthier than restraunt food. I actually prefer a quiet night at home watchin movies, over hittin the town. Quite frankly, younger women don't normally appeal to me because they are into the whole bar scene and men buying them gifts and my money situation is so poor that I have to go for a week or more sometimes without money. Reading books and obviously forum writing is my best usse of time.
The point? My point is that a younger woman is not into the things i am into. But an older woman may just enjoy the things I've described more than a younger woman would. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 10/30/2005 6:08:10 AM | I personally couldn't have a more opposite impression of the younger man/older woman experience than Kmoc. This is one of the points though, we take away from situations whatever happens in our own experiences. I find that in general it is most of the men between 40-50 that seem to be looking for one thing yet lying about it and the reason they can't get any further then one or two dates is because it is hard to get a women into bed if you don't know how to kiss. There is something wrong when you are 40-50 years old and you don't even know how to kiss. Most of the strange, scary and not at all amusing or funny situations that I have experienced in dating have predominantly occurred with men older then me at the time. Kmoc must have cornered the market on the good older or within age range ones, because at the moment I can't think of one really good encounter with a man my exact age or older.
I do tend to shy away from young men that would be young enough for me to have given birth to, as I think it is difficult to grow old with someone who won't be old until you are already dead. However, I have found most of them to be more courteous, respectful and easy going even in situations where one or the other of us doesn't want to pursue a long term relationship with the other one. They also in most cases are better lovers, don't judge you as easily on past history, don't blow up over little things and don't have their mothers give you the break up news when they decide they want to end it.(True story)
I don't shun any men in my own age range, there must be some good ones out there if you other ladies say there are, but I tend to not let just the number make up my complete mind on whether to give them a chance. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/2/2005 3:54:48 PM | I'm 38 and will date someone generally between 30-50 depending on what we have in common.
A guy who is 19 sounds like a kid to me since my daughter is almost 18.
He might look sexy for his age, but that is about where it ends.
Now, if I was after a lot of hot sex without any strings attached, then a guy who is young might do the trick.
However, I'm at a certain point in my life, where I want it real in every way. I want to connect with someone on an emotional, spiritual, sexual level. I want it all, the whole enchilada. Lol.
Odds are that with a 19 year old guy, this is not going to happen. No matter how nice or attractive.
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joim
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Joined: 10/1/2005
Msg: 134 | |
| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/2/2005 4:13:23 PM | | Good on her! I am in my forties and looking for someone younger than me (about 5-10 years) younger. Around this age men have matured and they have left all there boyish traits behind, hopefully. They are more settled and have a career, look after themselves and have their own mind. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/2/2005 4:23:09 PM | I just finished dating a yonger guy, he said he was interested in the family thing and the whole 9 yards however that wasn't the case he was just looking to be with an older woman, when I questioned him on this i became phyco. Imgaine that... no thanks no more younger men for me. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/3/2005 12:27:19 AM | Because they GROPE, THEY GRAB, THEY TEND TO BE ROUGH......... they will sit through a conversation, ask , look interested over dinner or a drink. and the moment you say goodnight , it is OCTOPUS!
personally , as i say good night, i dont like a hand rapidly rushing up my stocking legs, unless it is invited, i don't like a hard hand grabbing, a breast! I dont like a tongue stuck down my throat.............
Nope, we arent all cougars!
If younger guys want the attention of older women, simply put, they have to treat us a little nicer!
just my thought , but then again, I am not prowling | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 11/3/2005 12:58:50 AM | | I went out with a Brit who was 19 yrs younger than myself.I had to break off with him because he was jealous when I had coffee with my girlfriends in the morning ...because I had a bit more $ than him...he hated that as well! BUT I HAVE had nice relationships with younger guys before that...it's just difficult to meet anyone now because I am a single Mom and don't go out to bars,and that is probably where you meet the younger dudes! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/24/2006 10:18:41 AM | Hello Bomber
Well it depends on ow old you are going out with. If you are looking for someone in their 20-30's then probably not too much of a problem if the woman is ok with a younger man, but if you are going for older then probably to do with the fact they may have children of your age and would seem wrong.
For myself I do not have an issue with younger men but me being 46 and if a guy was 19 and wanted to have a relationship it would be kinda weird.
Hang in there Bomber, you will, in time find someone who does not see the age but the person behind it.
Good luck and happy hunting.
Merry Christmas 
and yes I have the green banana. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/24/2006 10:22:48 AM | Don't know where you live but here there are plenty. Although for you older might be more like 25-30.
I am almost 40 and find most men my age or older are out of shape. There are a few who aren't but men in their late 20s to early-mid 30s are in shape and have their lives in order. And contrary to popular opinion, a lot of them are looking to settle down (or at least they say they are).
Nothing wrong with that either...some women my age are deciding it's not such a big deal, and are considering them as prospects. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/24/2006 11:25:03 AM | Nope it is not a big deal. Most of us old guys are over the hill when we hit 35 and me being close to 40 I more or less have given up on this whole dating game. Men under 30 have their game on and are the men all women 19-50 want. Used to bother me but now I encourage women who are my age and older to not bother with us guys but go for the best. Why settle for tuna when you can have cavier I say.
Plus what most younger guys have on us too is they have a career not a job. Women today, especially late 30's and older, want a guy to have a career. Just a job that pays well, forget it they think you are full of crap when you say you make decent money.
I think you will see more and more women leaving their men for younger too, and why not, as many of them say men did it in the past. So guys be prepared to suck it up and pay the price for the past. Oh and NO younger women are not into old guys, they say that is disgusting. As the saying goes...life goes on LOL...now where are them older women over 50? | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/24/2006 11:31:19 AM | | From my experience, I prefer older women because they know how to plaese a man. I would never go after woman my age AGAIN because they are not experienced or not willing to try new things.Older woman are the best LOVERS!! | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/24/2006 1:49:14 PM | uh uh...I still like the guys my age, little older or a little younger...but 19 is too young...HERE he's barely legal.
However, women our age ARE better lovers... | |
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Renda
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Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 147 | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/24/2006 2:41:17 PM | but, what is it about older man/younger woman? I think the tides are moving in another direction.. I have dated woman older than me . I'm friends with two who are in their 60's...And i have seen ads {not here} from a woman who was 65 looking for guys 50-66.. | |
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/24/2006 2:53:04 PM | I can't help but notice wheneveer this topic is discussed, nothing new comes from it. It's the same old, same old:
older women talk down about men their own age (even though women behave in the same way as what they are complaining about)
older women also refer to sexual peak... which means you prefer a physical relationship (again... I thought it was only men seeking physical relationships)
40 something women make comments like :"If a man can do it... why can't we?"... (what a lack of self esteem a woman must have if that is her motivating factor)
I could go on, but you get my jist. Nobody has mentioned "LOVE"... therefore I can only assume one thing.... that's not what you seek.
The fact that you bother defending your actions indicates something to me... maybe look into the reasons you need to broadcast your dating preferences and defend your position... Is it society's short sightedness causing the problem or is it that most of the reasoning you people give in this thread is based on physical/sexual attributes?
In my opinion... if you need to defend your actions... you need to reassess your behaviour.
By the way... I notice all the young guys replying in this thread can only comment about the sexuality of older women... maybe that is why society responds as they do.....food for thought, ladies.
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| Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/24/2006 8:55:04 PM | Actually, I prefer older women (older than me) than the younger ones. I can relate to older women intellectually, mentally, emotionally, and of course sexually. Older women are wiser, more mature, less likely to play head games or bring drama. They're more emotionally stable than their younger counterparts. The younger women tend to be immature, crass, obnoxious, snobbish, narcissitsic, shallow, callous, of course into head games and drama. The younger women are even in some cases neurotic and emotionally unstable. Older women tend to be less judgemental than their younger counterparts. Yes, I'll admit there are a lot of younger women that are hot and sexy, but they're just good for eye candy and that's it. It's basically all about them. The younger women are like that fancy European Sports car. Fun to look and maybe take out for a test spin, but you wouldn't want to own one b/c of the outrageous maintenance costs and other liabilities. In my travels I came across a women who was a couple of years younger than myself. I saw the guy next to her thinking it was her dad, but low and behold! It was her boyfriend. Yes, this guy looked old enough to be her dad. What is this girl thinking and what does she see in him. I mean she must have to pump lots of Vyagra into that over ripe banana. Ok, I'll admit it's a bias of what I wrote. But, at least I can admit it's a bias based on my own life experiences. Merry Xmas Everybody!
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